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writes:Hi everyone i need advice i broke up with my boyfriend thinking it would make him see wat he had once it was gone but he didnt chase after me we barely talk now he says he misses me after i tell him i miss him but i cant stop thinking about him he took my virginity so i feel a soul tide to him but i want him back and he keeps saying "but u broke up with me" which is true but i just want him back help me win him back or should i try to move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): You did break up wit him, yo. So tell him that ur relationship sunk. Tell him the truth, tell him you miss him, yo, and you love him, pkay?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 Ask him to come out and parlay, Say you are sorry , kiss and hug and make up. If he is willing to come out to meet you , half your battles are won. Give it a try.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 March 2010):
This is something that doesn't work with men, as you've found. I know girls who have tried this before, and I know girls who have tried to make guys jealous before too. It never works. Men don't do subtle. They don't do hints. If there was a problem, you really should have talked about it and given him an ultimatum. Men understand that. You have to be clear. We don't see the signs that you want us back. We just see the big one that says 'dumped'. That's all your ex sees. He doesn't' see you love him, he just sees you dumped him. So, to get him back, you need to come clean and tell him why you did what you did. It may work, it may not. In the future, don't try this trick again. It doesn't work.
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reader, brigid.imagine  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 First, you need to tell him your reasons behind dumping him, tell him you miss him and you regret it. Be completely open and honest with him, and hope he isn't too hurt to take you back.
But you are going to have to risk spilling everything out to him- otherwise you will be upset, stay missing him, and you definitely will not get him back. Goodluck!
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reader, Patience2002 +, writes (5 March 2010):
If he wants you he will take you back. Obviously his feeling are hurt, have you actually asked him if he wants to get back together? I would say communication is in order here. You won't know until you talk with him.
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