Am I wrong for not wanting her to be friends with this guy? Do you think it is a trust issue?
Q. I've been married for almost 11years. At the 3-4yr mark I found out my wife had an affair with one of our older friends son. He is about a year younger than us, we were around 19-20 and he was 17-18, he was in college. Okay so when I found out, I ...
A. 1 February 2011: She was the one who cheated. Just like everyone else said.
If she cares about you she will not be close friends with this guy. Maybe she wants you to walk away. After 11 years of being with you she should know you well enough to know what is ... (read in full...)
How do I ensure that I get an orgasm?
Q. i have had sex only with my boyfriend so all my sexual experiences have been with him. most of the times i don't have an orgasm, because he comes sooner than me or i get turned off in the middle and therefore become less stimulated. i love foreplay ...
A. 1 February 2011: I would tell him that if he gets off it's a requirement to get you off to. If it's important to you it should be important to him.
You need to find out what you like. I would assume the actual sex is less interesting to you because all a small am... (read in full...)
I've been so lonely since my boyfriend has been away I had phone sex with another guy!
Q. What have I done? My boyfriend has now been away since October and I miss him so much, and there's still 2 months left to go. I can't imagine being with anyone else but him. But I've done something horrific... I was on the phone to a very close ...
A. 1 February 2011: I'm not going to make any judgements about this one way or the other. Don't look for what we think the only thing that matters is what he thinks. It's up to him if you disloyalty should be over looked or not. ... (read in full...)
Was it reasonable for me to ask her to remove the guys she had a threesome with from her facebook?
Q. I have been with my fiance for the last 11 months, she has many of her ex-boy freinds on her facebook account which she claims to be good freinds with, This also includes 2 guys who have had a threesome with her, it is a bit confronting and hard ...
A. 1 February 2011: I don't know this girl that he is talking about but he hasn't said anything bad about her. Without more info I think the only thing any of us could assume is that he is slightly insecure. Not that that is a bad thing but it is a hard thing to deal ... (read in full...)
Was it reasonable for me to ask her to remove the guys she had a threesome with from her facebook?
Q. I have been with my fiance for the last 11 months, she has many of her ex-boy freinds on her facebook account which she claims to be good freinds with, This also includes 2 guys who have had a threesome with her, it is a bit confronting and hard ...
A. 1 February 2011: I think that your request is indeed reasonable but I also think she makes a good point. If she has been loyal to you, and she does not flirt with these guys that she now claims to be just friends with than her deleting them from her facebook isn't ... (read in full...)
Fiance cheated, take him back or not?
Q. I recently broke off my engagement with my fiancé who I have been with for three years. I found out about a month ago by going through his computer (looking for a paper I had written, not to spy) that he was looking at other girls online; not porn ...
A. 31 January 2011: You are not over reacting at all. He is VERY obviously without a doubt lying to you and keeping things from you. If he was at least honest about the things he's done I would say there is a "possibility" for redemption but he's not. Put an end to the ... (read in full...)
Am I over thinking?
Q. I have been seeing what some may call my "boyfriend" but not official for about 5 months. This gets complicated so hopefully I can make this clear enough to understand. I started working at a strip club, yes, dancing right after my 20th birthday...
A. 31 January 2011: From what I've read about him it doesn't sound to me like he's a bad guy. If he takes all the time to call you and stuff it sounds like he genuinely cares for you. He wants to call you his girlfriend so he's not worried about being committed to you. ... (read in full...)
Relationship status???
Q. How do you know when you have been seeing someone on and off for 17 years, what the actual relationship status is? It started off as just sex, but now it seems to be growing into something more...or at least to me. He talks to his friends about me, ...
A. 31 January 2011: Well I think you've definitely reached a point of no return. It's obvious that whatever it is the relationship is or is not becoming needs to be openly defined. I think I would just come out and ask him what he wants from you guys relationship. If ... (read in full...)
What can I say to him via text to turn him on???
Q. So me and my boyfriend just started sending dirty text messages and I don't know what to say to turn him on and I don't want to sound stupid. So Can you please help? ...
A. 31 January 2011: Well, assuming that you've had real sex with him before I always start there. I just randomly bring up a great sexual experience as a kind of errant thought. Wait for him to respond. Then I just say details about how mighty he was that day or how ... (read in full...)
Does the army change people???
Q. i have been in this relationship for over 2 years and my boyfriend is now in the army, we both talked about it and thought it would be a good thing to do. now that he is in the military, i feel neglected and he is not the same person he was before ...
A. 31 January 2011: Army relationships can absolutely without a doubt work. However I think we all need some more information here.
There is a lot of things guys go through in the Army. It builds them up to be stronger emotionally and they find especially if they ... (read in full...)
Help!!! Is my boyfriend addicted to porn?
Q. My boyfriend of one year is addicted to porn. Well I think he is. I used to think it was ok but now I'm not so sure. WE used to watch porn together and have fun with it but lately it seems that he prefers to please himself to porn rather than being ...
A. 31 January 2011: I wouldn't like that either. If he's not paying enough attention to you sexually I'd say that's a big problem. People say sex doesn't make or break a relationship but statistically it really does. A healthy sex life is good for your relationship. ... (read in full...)
Tense kissing problem!
Q. There’s this guy I really like but when it comes to kissing him I just tense up. What should I do? I’m at a loss; I want to be intimate with him but cant. I’ve liked him for two years now; even though for part of that he was in a relationship I ...
A. 31 January 2011: I really don't know dear. I'd think that if you are tensing up when he kisses you that you don't really trust him. When something is right things like that just happen. If you truly cared about him the way you express that you do I would think you'd ... (read in full...)
I think I deserve better than what I'm getting!
Q. So my husband and I will be married for a year in March but we have been together for four years! We have a huge age difference! He is 40 while I am 23 mind you that he does not look a day over 30! My friends thought I was absolutely crazy but I was ...
A. 31 January 2011: I think that you should leave him. Yes, of course ideally kids want to have two active parents in their lives but sometimes it can't happen that way.
This man doesn't deserve you. You and your kids would be better off without him. ... (read in full...)
My husband has delusional thoughts of me
Q. My husband has delusional thoughts of me. He asks certain questions and twists them into something totally different. He has always done this. He has always thought i am cheating on him, that i have or will. I cant stand defending myself against ...
A. 31 January 2011: I don't know how to make this better. Obviously, he has insecurities that are his problem.
I "personally" would refuse to talk about anything that felt attacking like that. I would entirely ignore him and walk away. I wouldn't resume talking ... (read in full...)
I want to do something sweet for him.
Q. My boyfriend is in the Military. He is stationed in the US right now so I want to send him something sweet for Valentine's Day. I don't do sexy from a distance so nothing like that, just something sweet to let him know I am thinking of him. ...
A. 31 January 2011: I don't have any ridiculously amazing ideas but I have a couple.
Whatever kind of cellular phone he has buy him a skin for it that says I Love You!
That's what I'm doing for my husband. I'm getting him an iPhone 4 for with it but I imagine th... (read in full...)
Will he settle for second best?
Q. I really hope some of you kind people can help me out. Five years ago, I started a relationship with a man who wasn't completely over his ex girlfriend of 8 years. In the beginning, he played me around - going dating behind my back, not turnin...
A. 31 January 2011: I think it's obvious you hurt him bad. You at one point were the first choice. You blew it because you thought he was to clingy. He did what he had to and found someone else.
Leave the poor man alone he deserves better. Maybe she likes him the ... (read in full...)
I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!
Q. I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with ...
A. 31 January 2011: Sure, she can use one of the vaginal dam things and there is also spermicidal lube. They aren't as successful as birth control but I think it's very fair that contraception should be BOTH peoples problem and not JUST fall on the man or the woman. I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he tried to love me but just couldn't!
Q. OK. I will try to make this story as short as possible while including all the pertinent details. Me - I am 32 years old, divorced, and have a 5 year old daughter that I share custody of. I work and support myself and her. Him - 32 years ...
A. 30 January 2011: Wow, this guy seriously sounds like a nut case. I know that you care for him that's obvious but he has some SIGNIFICANT deep seated psychological issues. The chances of him changing are like nill. He doesn't realize he has a problem so he certainly ... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer larger boobs?
Q. Hi(: Okay this may sound like an awkard question, but I was just kind of wondering. My boyfriend says he LOVES big boobs and, he says he loves mine so much (I have D's) and whenever he talks to his friends they always say, "I wish my girl had ...
A. 30 January 2011: There are some guys who truly like big boobs. Honestly knowing as many guys as I know though the truth is while they'll chat with their buds and stuff about big boobs it's really not important to most of them. Some of them dislike big boobs. I think ... (read in full...)
He won't like it that I went out to the club -- should I tell him?
Q. So my frineds and I go Out To eat And after That they want To go To the club of course I'm the driver for tonight I'm engaged and I know if I tell him that we when to the club he is going to flip but I'm not drinking nor am i dancing with any guys ...
A. 30 January 2011: My husband is like this. It's not so much that he's controlling or doesn't trust me it just makes him anxious when I'm in situations that he feels are potentially unsafe. Which he responds to generally by flipping out. It's incredibly irritating and ... (read in full...)
Will my girlfriend get used to my large penis?
Q. My girlfriend finds it painful being on top since my penis is so large. But I love it when she is. Also sometimes afterwards she feels pains in her uterus. Are these pains normal? And is it best to just get used to her not being on top, or shoul...
A. 30 January 2011: You're probably hitting her cervix during sex. It happens. I don't know how you guys approach sex but start with foreplay and wait until she's really hot and bothered before you attempt it. The vagina lengthens when women are incredibly turned on. ... (read in full...)
He keeps touching my vagina.... why!?
Q. My problem is this, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and he has this habit of constantly touching my private parts (vagina), he says that it is his to touch, this is really starting to irritate me, I have spoken to him about it before ...
A. 30 January 2011: Everybody is seriously off here. I mean they "could" be right but from what you have described and not reading into it anymore than what you've shared I say they are categorically wrong. First, don't hit him for playing cute with you. Don't knee ... (read in full...)
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