How can this man hurt me with his lies and act like he's done nothing wrong?
Q. I have been with this guy for 3yrs and i thought everything was going well. He was involved in a horrible motorcycle accident were he became dependent on me for 4months. i had just met this man one week before, i decided to help him and quickly ...
A. 20 September 2011: You already know the answer to this - you've got to find the strength to get out. Everyone has a different definition of the word love. Unfortunatly for alot of people it just means 'you make me feel good about myself' and thats all. Of course h... (read in full...)
I'm 24 and he's 20...can this work?
Q. I recently met a guy at the bar that I started dating. The thing is he's 20 and I'm 24... He says it doesn't bother him at all, is this normal? We get along great but it makes me wonder what his motives are... Any insight from you guys out there? ...
A. 20 September 2011: Yes of course it can! Its only 4 years. Just have fun and see how it goes. ;)... (read in full...)
I think he should have told me at the beginning that he had bad credit and had been blacklisted!
Q. I started dating a man I met via internet 2 years ago. All seemed fine to start with. He told me once he has no credit cards because he doesn’t want any. Fair enough. He rented his flat, didn’t own property or have a mortgage. He bought a new ...
A. 20 September 2011: Yes he should have told you sooner. But its not an easy thing to tell - partic to someone your falling for. It must have been embaressing for you. And in this guys favour - its not like he tried to take money from you. So yeah its a bad lie. But it ... (read in full...)
Broke off our engagement ...did I do the right thing?
Q. Just found out that my bf of four years didn't marry his ex gf because her divorce hadn't come through. He claims this is not the case and it was because they weren't the right match but turns out she was separated from her ex but still married to ...
A. 20 September 2011: Yes - you've over reacted. Quite a bit. If I were you I would find many ways to apologise. Somebodies past is their past. The only people who know why he and his ex broke up is him and his ex. If she was his one and only, he could have waited for ... (read in full...)
He says he is attracted to me, but wants nothing else from me! Help me understand this!
Q. hi i have this friend and we get on really well,we do have arguments alot because he says he likes me and that he's attracted to me but doesnt want nothing else with me. i dont understand him. please help ...
A. 20 September 2011: He's attracted to you - i.e. he would have sex with you. But he's not interested in a relationship with you - he likes you as a friend, not as a girlfriend but wouldn't say no to a quickie. Sorry if thats a bit blunt, but I get the feeling your ... (read in full...)
How would I know if he wants me back or if we are back together?
Q. What do you think? does he love me? are we getting back together? My ex bf and broke up cos he felt like he didn't deserve me. He had a one night stand with some girl. and he felt bad so he ended it. I was a good gf to him, I loved him, d...
A. 19 September 2011: For starters - cut yourself some slack. It is not your fault he cheated. If he was unhappy with your relationship, then he there are plenty of things he could have done - like talking to you - none of which involve having sex with another woman. He ... (read in full...)
Do guys often say as a joke: "I am going to marry this girl"?
Q. So I got a close friend who has been telling me about a childhood friend of hers (also Cuban like her) who has been living in the USA more than 10 years now. He recently came out of a messy relationship and is going to come visit her in Spain so...
A. 19 September 2011: Yes. Last night I was in a bar with a man who proclaimed his girlfriend of five years was the love of his life, future mother of his children and the only woman he could commit to. Also at the table, were 2 women he'd slept with behind her back and ... (read in full...)
I told a married man how I feel and now he has distanced himself from me
Q. Hi everyone. I am not sure if I did the right thing or not. I am a married woman and I recently told my married friend how I feel about him. It was just killing me keeping it inside because I thought he felt the same way about me and that there w...
A. 19 September 2011: Sorry to be harsh but - YOU ARE MARRIED. The question you should really be asking yourself is what is going on with your husband for you to be pursuing other men? What ever his feelings for you, this man is doing the right thing - stepping back ... (read in full...)
What can I do to change feeling isolated and lonely?
Q. my girlfriend of 12 years left me for someone else. and she has kicked me out. i have no friends or family and i am very shy so i dont talk alot. now i just sit in a room on my own all the time. i feel isolated and lonly. what can i do to change ...
A. 1 July 2010: Only one solution. You've got to get out there. I know it can be scary. Start off small. Seek out people with similar interests - a sports team, a book club, anything. Look online first if you find that less threatening. Most cities have social ... (read in full...)
She lied about so many things, would I be stupid to take her back?
Q. so i've been dating this great girl for the better part of a year now, but recently, i find out (partially because she started to admit and partially because i prodded a bit) that she lied about 1) the number of people she's slept with (probably s...
A. 26 June 2010: Ok - I don't condone lying - but ask this - if she had told you the truth up front at the start of the year, would the relationship have gone this far?
Yeah she lied and that was bad - but all the things she lied about are things in the past. Sh... (read in full...)
She's no good for him and I want him for myself.
Q. Hi, okay so I I'm not very good with introductions so I am just going to cut to the chase. I have this friend that I've known for a year, and over the course of tht year I've fallen totally in totally and completely love with him. Well just when I...
A. 26 June 2010: Tricky - afraid the only thing you can do is be his friend. He has to make his own mistakes and if he still has feelings for 'Lucy' there really is nothing you can do about it. All you can do as his friend is talk to him, try and convince him do the ... (read in full...)
I've never followed 'the rules' of 'womanly' behaviour is this wrong?
Q. The rules book stated that a girl should be reserved, not too chatty, not trying at all to entertain actually but thats a personality trait of mine, i LOVE TO ENTERTAIN, i make ppl laugh, im extremely bubbly and sometimes too hyper. I enjoy being ...
A. 26 June 2010: I think 'the rules' sound like the biggest load of rubbish I've ever heard. If this is a book please do yourself a favour and destroy this damaging piece of literature.
It sounds like you know who you are and you're fairly happy that way - do... (read in full...)
Why do I lose interest after we've had sex?
Q. Ok so here I go. So I can really be into a girl, but then once I have sex with her, something kicks in and I lose interest. Its kind of like I find something that I dislike after we have been intimate. In most cases I wouldn't care, but its ...
A. 25 June 2010: I think the phrase 'the thrill of the chase' might apply. Think about it - up until you sleep with the girl your really into, there is always that degree of uncertainty - is she really into you, will it turn into something - plus the anticipation of ... (read in full...)
A girl has a crush on my husband. Should I be worried?
Q. Well I soooo need help in this issue I have. My husband and I were having a great morning he walked into the living room to play with the kids and hid phone was right next to me in the bed then a text rolled in I looked at the phone becaues are frie...
A. 24 June 2010: I think you need to take a deep breath and talk to your husband again. What happened was upsetting but give him some credit. He's confiding in his friend because his friend isn't going to be hurt by whats happened or happening, and can be neutral. ... (read in full...)
Should I be reading between the lines?
Q. I have been dating a girl for over a month now. She has no parents(hasn't since she was 16). She is very closed off and also very cautious which I understand. I am leaving for a month and we decided to try to stay in contact and we will see how it g...
A. 24 June 2010: Afraid you've going to have to talk to the lady in question. But you need to be really honest about what you want and need out of whats happening. I mean you've been dating a month - how big a 'commitment' are you really asking for? It sounds to me ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend might be gay! What signs should I look for?
Q. i am a bit worried about my boyfriend, as i think he is gay, been together 2 years and he tells me everyday that he loves me, he always wants sex with me most the time and he mainly makes the first moves, he kisses me alot and holds me all night, ...
A. 24 June 2010: Seriously - STOP WORRYING! Sounds like you've got a pretty near perfect bloke here and its freaking you out so much you're trying to pick holes in him to make yourself feel secure. Only one real 'test' of homosexuality - does he want to have sex ... (read in full...)
Would it be better to forget her despite how I feel?
Q. A long time ago i met this girl who over the years dated quite a few of my freinds, i liked her alot but everytime i was going to ask her out a friend beat me to it or she was already with someone. After about 4 years of knowing her i finally asked ...
A. 24 June 2010: I think you really need to talk to this girl honestly about how you feel. You can't let yourself second guess whats going on - because like all humans, your going to look for what you want to see. This girl has obviously been through a very rough ... (read in full...)
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