How do I deal with a boyfriend who has a problem with my weight?
Q. Hey, thank you in advance for any answers. I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we were best friends for around a year before this. I've always wanted to be a bit slimmer and have been up and down with my weight and he knows this. I've...
A. 25 May 2010: If he makes you feel this way you can't be with him you need to be with someone who loves you for you. I know its hard especially if you have feelings for him but you need to think of yourself. You know obsessing about your weight is wrong and this ... (read in full...)
I slept with him and then he didn't want to have any more contact with me.
Q. well theres this boy right...and i met him a few weeks ago and i think iv fallen in love with him? I'm 15 and hes 17 the past week we have became really close and hev kept coming down 2 see me etc..i slept with him the other day and since then he ...
A. 13 May 2007: Do you really love him after a few weeks, it sounds like you've been used sweetheart, just move on there'll be another guy out there for you and he'll treat you better. He sounds like a complete twat. Your young move on find someone who likes you as ... (read in full...)
I know she likes me and god I like her, I really want to tell her but don't know how to.
Q. Hi me and this girl have been best friends since we were at juniors. For the past 3 yrs i have started to have feelings for her but i've kept them to myself. But these past few months its getting impossible for people not to notice. Everytime i was ...
A. 2 May 2007: Just go for it if you don't you'll regret it, just do it when your alone together walking home, infront of tv whatever. You need to tell her don't think about it too much and just do it, if you don't you'll regret it.... (read in full...)
Is he cheating on me?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a year and a 6 months. Then about three weeks ago he was on the chat line on his phone and got this girl's number and started talking to her. Now he calls her every night. I caught him doing something one one with ...
A. 30 April 2007: I don't know but you should confront him about this tell him you don't like what he's doing and see what happens thats all i can but i wouldn't put up with this behaviour.
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I don´t understand women. Give me some perspective, please!
Q. I know people will think I´m and idiot at the end of this but it is true. I don´t understand women. Yes I have a sister and I´m still friendly with my mum, I have friends who are girls. But I went on one date and I know it was a disaster because ...
A. 30 April 2007: Girls are difficult to understand and i bet there are pleanty of guys out there that don't understand them. I mean on a date all you have to do is take her for dinner get to know each other. Act like yourself, i mean you can tell her shes pretty ... (read in full...)
Mom doesn't like my 18 year old bf and won't let me see him at my Dad's place! What can I do?
Q. hi, i am 15, turning 16, and am dating a guy who has just turned 18. he is my dads girlfriends son, and both my dad and his gf approve with our relationship, but i just told my mum about it, and she is against us seeing eachother, she says he is too ...
A. 29 April 2007: I think she seems left out you'll be at your dads place with your bf but she'll be at home, tell her she can meet him if she wants maybe she'll come around. You should reassure about the situation. Then remind her that you are turning 16 and that ... (read in full...)
My friend wants to make me choose, it's either the guy I like or my friend, what do I do?
Q. hi all, i reali like this lad i go to schol wiv (yr 11 IN THE UK) we get on reali well nd love spendin time together but my best friend hates him and she says tht if i go out wiv him she will stop bein my mate and hate me forever i dont no what to ...
A. 29 April 2007: Your friend shouldn't have put you in this position, talk to her about how much you like this guy and make sure your spending loads of time with her aswell, don't always talk about him ask her how she is. She might come around but if not i would ... (read in full...)
Gf and I are planning 1st time sex..I want to get this right. Advice, please?
Q. Hey, me and my gf are planning on having sex for the first time, we have been together for 7 months and are both virgins,we have contraception sorted and are both totally ready. Obviously she doesn't paticually want all of the really bad pain and i ...
A. 29 April 2007: 1) Make sure she's lubed up natural or not either way, because then it'll be more comfortable. Lots of foreplay
2)Bed too.
3)Do something cliche, like roses, tell her how beautiful she is and how wonderful she is, ease into it don't jump right in... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I played around a bit, now that I'm home I feel like I've done something wrong.
Q. hi i have just got home from my boyfriends house and i was lookin on this site and my question is nothing like anyone elses .. but i have just come home like i said and i feel really guilty. i dont know why i feel guilty but i just do, i refuse to ...
A. 29 April 2007: Sweetie you shouldn't feel guilty at all sounds weird but its natural and you should feel proud because you said you didn't want to sleep with him. Remember if you want to have sex with him its when your ready. I do know that in the Uk if you are ... (read in full...)
I am ready to sacrifice everything for this man so should I marry him when I'm only 18?
Q. hello! I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. problem is, he's 8 years older than i am, which doesn't seem to get in the way of our relationship as we both see it as just a number. I'm 18 and he's 26. We really love each other and get on...
A. 29 April 2007: I think he going about this all wrong he should want to marry you to be with you not because his parents are presurring him, sure its a tradition in his country but not in this one, the question is how do you even things out. You want to be with ... (read in full...)
Seeing him for a week. Is he avoiding me because I am crowding him?
Q. I just started dating a guy, we hit it off really well when we first met, we've been together only a week though, i just need advice because i think he's avoiding me, or maybe i'm crowding him asking him when I can see him. I don't know what to do....
A. 26 April 2007: You could be crowding hi, he thinks it might be a bit too soon , just leave it a while if he really likes you he'll come get you don't worry.... (read in full...)
Did she phone me expecting me to phone her back and start up something again?
Q. Ex girlfriend phones me up, talks for a few minutes. Not heard again from her in 4 weeks, people say she is waiting for me to phone her. What do you think? Did she phone me expecting me to phone her back and start up something again? Not heard...
A. 3 April 2007: I think if she did phone you expecting something it was stupid and no one would have guessed. If she wanted something she should have done it herself, how are you suppose to guess that??... (read in full...)
I really love this guy but two days ago was the first time he's ever hit me and left me a mark.
Q. I am a 20 year old female that has been with a man for almost three years.In the past year we had made a family. I am so confused because i feel like he is losing interest in me and I feel like he don't love me. He's always telling me he needs ...
A. 30 March 2007: Get out and get out now, you may not want to hear this but a guy that loves you would not want to hurt you in anyway. Now that he's done it once whats going to stop him doing it again or to your children. He should treat you with respect and love ... (read in full...)
Any advice about my pregnant girlfriend who is thinking of getting rid of MY baby?
Q. My girl friend who I plan to marry very soon in a year or so is pregnant. She is secretly thinking or planning to get an abortion because she is worried about me and my plans or us. I love her and she loves me. This would be her second child. She is ...
A. 30 March 2007: i can understand where your coming from. But thinking of it as your baby is rather selfish, yes she already has one child but having two is far worse. You also will not have to carry the baby for 9 months, she is also going to college, having the ... (read in full...)
Is this "breakthrough bleeding" due to the pill or the sex ?
Q. Hi, I just went on a birth control pill last week. My boyfriend and I were having sex last night, and I started to bleed. Is this a common side effect of the pill? He was not exactly thrilled when he saw the blood - it was kind of gross......
A. 28 March 2007: Calm down don't worry, the bleeding is probably due to having sex, i had it. It is unlikely the pill caused it, you shouldn't worry too much about it but if it keeps happening after sex then go see a doctor. But don't worry, it is unlikely you would ... (read in full...)
Do you think he will ever get over this and will he ever trust me again?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for about six months now, but on xmas eve last year I kissed another lad who I work with. I like this other lad a lot but love my boyfriend and would never cheat on him again and since xmas eve our relationship has ...
A. 17 March 2007: You broke his trust and hurt him he needs time to get over it, you need to sit down with him and talk to him tell him how you felt about it. You must talk this through shouting won't help. Once you've told him how you feel ask him how he feels. If ... (read in full...)
What do I do if he says I am a rubbish kisser?
Q. I'm having a bit of trouble! I have not had a boyfriend since primary and I'm now in Year 3! I have never kissed and when me and my friends are having a gossip they ask me how many boys I've kissed so I lie and say i have kissed. I am afraid that if ...
A. 5 March 2007: Stop worrying i havent kissed many guys and i told my recent boyfriend how many i have, he was shocked thinking i was a rubbish one, kind of insulting but i know i'm not great but i don't suck either. First it also depends on the other person t... (read in full...)
My friend feels like a prisoner in his own home - his mother is so controlling. What can I do to help??
Q. Hi all.. i got a small problem.. my friend hes male 22 lives at home and no job.. his mother is very controlling and christian too, she treats him like a 5 year old.. this is stressing him out he sleeps all the time and is getting very depressed im ...
A. 21 February 2007: Try and get him out of the hiouse as much as possible, help him find a job so he can move out. If he sits around and does nothing he's not going to get anywere try make him have some fun get him out of the slump.... (read in full...)
I do not like his 'manboobs' and I wonder...am I obsessing about it too much?
Q. When i first saw my boyfriend, I noticed what people call "man boobs". now don't get me wrong. They aren't huge or anything but i did notice. And i can't get past it ..like i don't care or anything but when i go to think of doing stuff with him i ...
A. 5 February 2007: I think you need to focus on his good points not his bad, you are obsessing over it, would you like that if he did it too you, and maybe buy him some weights so he can tone up.... (read in full...)
My bf has been secretly visiting 'swing' clubs and cheating on me! What should I do?
Q. Hi i recently found out my boyfriend of 4 years has been frequenting swinging clubs for the past few months and having casual sex. Im heartbroken, but I feel like an idiot as i thought he loved me. When i confronted him he said it was a once off...
A. 5 February 2007: I know it must be hard, but i believe once or twice maybe a mistake but if he has planned these nights and if he's done it more then once maybe you shouldnt be with him, relationships are built on a foundation of trust without that it isn't much of ... (read in full...)
He says I wasn't the woman for him right from the start! Should I just move on?
Q. I have been with a guy for the last 2 years, We had our ups and downs. He has ended things with me a few times but I took him back everytime, but only because he came running back. This time though he has ended it with me, but still told me that he ...
A. 5 February 2007: This guy sounds a complete jerk and no one should put up with that behaviour, move on there are better guys out there who will treat you with more respect. Get over him, sounds harsh but to me it sounds like you shouldn't waste any more of your time ... (read in full...)
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