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writes:hi i have just got home from my boyfriends house and i was lookin on this site and my question is nothing like anyone elses .. but i have just come home like i said and i feel really guilty. i dont know why i feel guilty but i just do, i refuse to sleep with him because i am too young. nearly 15 and although i didnt have sex he poked me and i gave him head and tossed him off. we had a really good time. we started off watchin tv in the sofa and we hugged and kissed. then it hapened. (call my bf a) asked me if i would sleep with him and he said he would like to but i didnt . now i have come home and i feel bad. why..? does anyone know??? why do i feel like i have done something wrong.. anyone help me pls xxxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (8 May 2007):
 like you said huni your a bit young right now, so the this stuff probably is a lil weird. And the fact that its not really sumthing you can talk about openly with other people. Just go with watever you feel comfortable with hun n dnt feel guilty, its part of being a girl, bein sexually intrested with sum1 elsexxx
take care huni! xxxx
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 You probably thought that you disapointed you bf by not sleeping with him, that's why you feel like you do. But you shouldn't....You made a very good decision by not sleeping with him! And if he truely loves you, he will wait for you!!!
One thing that I want to add is that if you sleep with him too soon he might start thinking of you as EASY! That is not a good label to have.
You should be proud of yourself by not sleeping with him! Give yourself a pat on the back!!! And get rid of those guilty feelings, please!!!
GOD BLESS YOU DEAR!!!!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 April 2007):
 He sweetness,
Don't feel BAD that you don't want to have sex with your boyfriend. You're right, you are a little too young to be having sex, but obviously you're not too young to make the right decision in waiting! Good for you.
Do you feel guilty about not having sex with him or do you feel guilty about doing all the other stuff with him? That I wasn't too clear about...
What it's going to come down to either way, however, is that your man should never make you feel bad about your decisions. He should respect you to the sky and treat you like a princess. Remember, baby... in the future you will be so glad you waited to have sex. I swear to you, waiting until you're older and waitihng until you find someone who you really trust and love makes sex SO MUCH BETTER.
Don't just give it up to this guy... he should be perfectly happy with what he's getting from you! Sounds like you guys are already sexually active... next time he brings up sex tell him that he's lucky enough to be getting what he's getting.
Stay strong, girl and stick by your guns.
xxIndia
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 April 2007):
He sweetness,
Don't feel BAD that you don't want to have sex with your boyfriend. You're right, you are a little too young to be having sex, but obviously you're not too young to make the right decision in waiting! Good for you.
Do you feel guilty about not having sex with him or do you feel guilty about doing all the other stuff with him? That I wasn't too clear about...
What it's going to come down to either way, however, is that your man should never make you feel bad about your decisions. He should respect you to the sky and treat you like a princess. Remember, baby... in the future you will be so glad you waited to have sex. I swear to you, waiting until you're older and waitihng until you find someone who you really trust and love makes sex SO MUCH BETTER.
Don't just give it up to this guy... he should be perfectly happy with what he's getting from you! Sounds like you guys are already sexually active... next time he brings up sex tell him that he's lucky enough to be getting what he's getting.
Stay strong, girl and stick by your guns.
xxIndia
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reader, Beki +, writes (29 April 2007):
 Sweetie you shouldn't feel guilty at all sounds weird but its natural and you should feel proud because you said you didn't want to sleep with him. Remember if you want to have sex with him its when your ready. I do know that in the Uk if you are over 14 then you can give oral so you haven't broken any laws and you said your self you enjoyed it. Just remember this is natural no matter when anyone says most people have done this kinda stuff, you shouldn't feel guilty because you haven't done anything else except had a good time.x
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