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Hi, I am 21 years old and currently in a relationship with a 33 year old man...weve been together 6 months. I live in the United States and I belive I can be of help here on this website because like everyone else, have had my share of exes and heartbreaks...I like to help people ad I always have an ear to listen(or should i say eyes to read?) lol...please write to me if you need advice and I will try to hlp you the best I can!

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I'm pregnant and my boyfriend blames my anger on hormones!

Q.   I just have a question...how many of you women out there had a baby by a man and felt like he couldnt understand what you were going through? Im getting so fed up with my boyfriend because everytime we get into a fight he wants to blame it on the h...

A.   13 November 2009: Nae nae, thanks for your input. He apologized this morning and said he didnt understand what I was going through and that hes just as nervous as I am. Its also his first child as well, so neither one of us has been through it before...He also said ... (read in full...)

I'm so worked up about failing my driving test, has anyone got any advice?

Q.   Im so down right now and for the stupidist reason....I have failed my driving test with just 1 major fault and 2 minors. Major fault was for doing 40mph on a 30mph road...completly my fault.Its not helping everyone is saying "oh what a shame" ...

A.   10 November 2009: Dont feel bad about it. It took me 2 times to pass the written and the maneuverability(sp?). I failed the first time because as I was backing up I hit the same cone 3 times, I was a nervous wreck! lol. The second time tho, i went the morning of the ... (read in full...)

What would dramatically increase my chances of conceiving?

Q.   Me and my fiance are trying for a baby. But four months down the line, still no luck :-( i'm 21 and he's 30. He's not so much of a healthy eater and survives mostly on junk, but I eat balanced meals and alot of vegetables. Getting to my point, i'm ...

A.   8 November 2009: if youre trying to conceive, you should start taking prenatal vitamins would be a start... (read in full...)

I'm gay and I want a boyfriend!

Q.   O.k. i'm in a rural town. I want a boyfriend, and i just don't know people around here, and most of them i don't wanna know. I'm kind of out, and people are more accepting than i thought, But still misunderstood because there's not too many gay ...

A.   31 October 2009: Have you tried gay clubs? or maybe you have gay friends you could hang out with that could help set you up with someone? or even straight friends that know people....me and my bf were set up by mutual friends and now were expecting a baby in ... (read in full...)

What are the chances of a false positive on a pregnancy test?

Q.   i had my last period on the 13th of september, my next one took longer to come around so i did a pregnancy test and it was positive. i know it sounds silly but i found it hard to believe, even though i am in a secure relationship and we are happy to...

A.   29 October 2009: Im not sure what the chances but i am currently 13 weeks and some odd days pregnant and the way i found out was I skipped my period in september but when I went to the dr first time, they thought i was 6 weeks but turned out, when i went back a week ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's parents absolutely HATE me!

Q.   Well, my girlfriends parents absolutely HATE me. Over the summer they even managed to break us up. But when school started we got back together again. Things were great until her parents found out a few days ago. They took away her phone and her ...

A.   20 October 2009: Well it says your female as well, so is this a lesbian relationship? If it is, the parents might just be upset that maybe she didnt tell them she was gay. It was wrong and immature of the mom to say those nasty things like that. If their daughter is ... (read in full...)

Should I try to bury the hatchet and send my daughter a card for her 21st???

Q.   My daughter's birthday is coming up Monday October 26. She will be 28 years old and she and I don't talk, her decision, not mine. She moved out June 08 and only speaks to my sister. I'm torn whether to send her a birthday card or just ignore it. ...

A.   20 October 2009: Well I can relate to you because my father and I were in the same situation just a few months ago. We began to slowly reconnect beecause he came to me apologizing for how he treated me in the past. Whyd she stop talking to you? He is now going to be ... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

Q.   Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...

A.   16 October 2009: I had an ultrsound yesterday and found out I am actually 11 weeks pregnant, not 7! I got pics and heard the heartbeat for the first time, it was such an amazing feeling!... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

Q.   Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...

A.   15 October 2009: oh and id like to add...i agree with SY...its a carrot! lol... (read in full...)

How do I dump him?

Q.   I've been with this guy since October 28th, 2007. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up here shortly, but I find myself not being in love with him anymore. I'll try to make this as short as I can. He was in the Army when I met him, but he hadn...

A.   11 October 2009: honey he sounds like a complete jerk, dump him, believe me you deserve so much better...if hes already done all that stuff u said, who says he wont do it again? find a guy who loves you and only you...good luck!... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

Q.   Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...

A.   11 October 2009: and updating again, Im sorry sincerely yours, I appreciate all your help...thank you... (read in full...)

Pregnant for the first time! Can anyone give me advice?

Q.   Hi, I just found out I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child.I am 21 years old. and boy, I am so nervous! My bf and I live together and are both very happy about this.Its unexpected but were ok with it. I was just wandering if anyone has any ...

A.   11 October 2009: Im sorry, not trying to sound rude here but q1605 but im a little confused, what in the world are you talking about? I dont think you even answered my question...can anyone else respond and help me out some here?... (read in full...)

Boyfriend pushing me to get a breast lift

Q.   I am 20 and my breasts have been sagging since I was 18, when I lost a lot of weight. My boyfriend has for quite a long time been asking me(frequently) if I could get a breast lift done in the future. As of now I don't have the money but should I ...

A.   22 September 2009: Honey if he dont like you for who you are....then you dont need him...congratulations on your weight loss...i had an ex who told me if i lost 20 lbs and cleared up my acne, id be a perfect 10! and im 5'7, 150 lbs...for my height thats average! I ... (read in full...)

I'm 35 and she is 21, would people care about the age difference?

Q.   I'm 35 and just signed my divorce papers to finalize my divorce. We were separated for almost a year and I found myself becoming friends with my neighbors. I was physically attracted to the one girl from the day I met her and she was the same. Since ...

A.   13 September 2009: no I dont think the age difference matters...im 21 and my bf is 33...12 almost 13 years difference for us....it doesnt matter what society thinks, if you two are happy with each other then thats all that matters...i wish you both the best! go with ... (read in full...)

I'm engaged, but still hung up on my ex

Q.   I dated this amazing girl for almost four years. And despite the fact I am engaged now I still have thoughts of my ex come into my mind. They're not just casual, they're not just passive, honestly I have had dreams about her and I getting back t...

A.   29 August 2009: hmmm, well to me it either sounds like youre still in love it your ex, and if thats the case, then you need to break it off with your current fiance and decide yourself who you want...OR because youre getting engaged and married, maybe youre just ... (read in full...)

I'm 15, pregnant and scared of having an abortion

Q.   I'm fifteen years old and I am two months pregnant. I've been in a rocky relationship with my boyfriend for the past nine months. My boyfriend doesn't come from a stable enviroment. Has yet to get a job, and ever since I found out I was pregna...

A.   25 August 2009: oh honey i feel for you! PLEASE I BEG YOU-DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION! its against your beliefs and youll regret in later in life! if you decide to not want to keep the baby, there is adoption, its a beautiful thing.I was in foster care when I was ... (read in full...)

What can I do to not lose her?

Q.   my girlfriend broke up with me last nite. she said that she needed some time to herself, we have been together for a year and a half and never argue. she has been under alot of pressure with exams for her job aswell as family life. i love her so ...

A.   18 August 2009: it sounds to me as if shes just stressed and dealing with it the way she is...give her some time and space, maybe she will come around...good luck!... (read in full...)

Do I have the right to be angry with him?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for six months, which was on my birthday. Which was two days ago. All he did for my birthday was give me a five dollar headscratcher, which I'm pretty sure he didn't even buy (his mom wanted one, and gave me money to ...

A.   18 August 2009: Yes you have every right to be mad! Now if he just doesnt care, then hes an *ss and you dont need to be with him! But if he just didnt have the money or couldnt afford it then thats a lil more understandable...you need a man who would do anything ... (read in full...)

True Love Waits. Is that okay?

Q.   i have a friend who met this guy who is eight and half years older then her, she met him when she was three. they sorta grew up together, he was so much like a big brother to her growing up she always sat in his lap and hold his hand and she ...

A.   7 August 2009: I dont think its wrong...my bf and I are 12 year apart, im 21 ad hes 33...like everyone ele has said...theyre two consenting adults and I hope it woks out for them...id like to marry my bf someday too, hes treated me better then any man ive ever ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my BFs crazy mother?!

Q.   Okay so I have been with this guy for over 4 months. He is 17, will be 18 in December. He has a very overprotective, crazy mom. Some of my friends have said it's because it's her only son and I'm his FIRST girlfriend. But anyways, at the beginning ...

A.   7 August 2009: wow all of this sounds WAY too familiar lol because I am having the same exact problems with my bfs mom too....i keep thinking dear god if i wind up marrying him, shell be my crazy ass mother in law...lol...well i havent even figured out how to deal ... (read in full...)

Should I take the risk or just bottle up my feelings for her?

Q.   My roomate recently told me that she is getting a new job. This really scared me because I realized that she may eventually move closer to this new job. I have tried not to feel anything for her because I am not only her roomate but her landlord but ...

A.   7 August 2009: I say tell her...i think if you dont, in time youll regret it by not telling her...just approach her gently about it and who knows, maybe she likes you too or if she doesnt, then at least you let her know how you felt...who says if she moves that ... (read in full...)

Am I really ready for a baby? How should I approach my boyfriend about this?

Q.   Well this is my first post here so I am not sure how I should ask this and I also know peoples opinions differ but what I am wanting to ask is how would I go about asking my bf how he would feel if I said I wanted a baby.....weve only been together ...

A.   3 August 2009: Thanks for all the advice Ive gotten so far....its given me alot to think about and this has just been something ive been thinking bout...I wouldnt rush into it if i werent ready and actually just today we went and adopted a cat along with already ... (read in full...)

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