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male
age
41-50,
*illabong
writes:My roomate recently told me that she is getting a new job. This really scared me because I realized that she may eventually move closer to this new job. I have tried not to feel anything for her because I am not only her roomate but her landlord but ever since she told me about this job I have been going insane thinking about her moving away and not being a part of my life anymore. I guess I was taking her living in my house for granted and I can feel now how much I have been suppressing my feelings for her. I'm not exactly sure how she feels but I have been dying to tell her how I feel just to get it out in the open. I'll admit I am afraid of her not feeling the same and as a result the rejection that I will feel. At this point I would rather get it out in the open and risk the pain rather than keep bottling it up.Any advise on how to approach the situation and or talk with her about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, BehindThese HazelEyes +, writes (7 August 2009):
 I say tell her...i think if you dont, in time youll regret it by not telling her...just approach her gently about it and who knows, maybe she likes you too or if she doesnt, then at least you let her know how you felt...who says if she moves that you cant be in her life anymore? you both can still keep in touch and visit each other...and believe me being a woman myself, women respect a man being honest, well at least I do...just sit her down before she leaves and tell her how you feel and just tell her you needed to get it off your chest before she leaves...take a chance and good luck!
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