We broke up and it's nearly impossible to get over him. Please help!
Q. My past relationships I have found it very easy to get over a guy and move on. My last boyfriend of two years ended about 2 months ago. Ive been thru every emotion possible! It seems nearly impossible to get over him. I don't want to get over ...
A. 28 November 2005: well you don't say what happened really. What do you mean 'change your ways'? It's hard to advise you on this really without knowing, BUT it is always true that absense makes the heart grow fonder. So if you want him to come to you (which he must, ... (read in full...)
At about the time he started having feelings for me, he decided it was time to "step back"!
Q. I have been seeing/hanging out with this guy since september. I'm in my late twenties and he's in his early fourties. He has been hot and cold with me all along. Until the past couple of weeks something had changed and it seemed like he was ...
A. 18 November 2005: Poor you. I hope you feel better soon.
I would avoid this man - he doesn't know what he wants and that can be very hurtful to be around...he'll think only of himself and his own confusion.
Look after yourself.
x... (read in full...)
Eighteen months until my girlfriend gets back. She says not to wait...
Q. My girlfriend's just left to travel round the world for 18 months on her own, as part of a overlanding tour group. It's been a dream of hers for ages and she'd sort of planned to go before we got together properly. I know she loves me but she said ...
A. 30 October 2005: poor you, that's so hard.
I was in your exact situation when my boyfriend decided to fulfill his dream and travel for over a year while I had college to attend. he said her had to do it on his own. he also wouldn't let me arange to meet him at xmas... (read in full...)
Devastated that my ex would be dating someone new! Do I take him back, or what?
Q. Hi I am 19 and in my first year at uni. Before I left I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years even though I still love him. Though I miss him I thought that a long distance relationship wouldn't work and that he would't be able to get on with his...
A. 25 October 2005: I think you're being selfish. basically you started dating someone new and now you're annoyed because he's not eating hi heart out for you anymore and seems happy without you! You even having him willing to take you back, despite his new girlfriend ... (read in full...)
My gf broke up over my anger management issues. I want to prove it won't happen again!
Q. My girlfriend is leaving me. I have an agression/anger problem that's been going on for years. Finally on the meal for her birthday last night I ripped the waiter to bits had a row with her sister because my main courtse turned up cold (in front o...
A. 25 October 2005: oh dear that sounds like hell. But well done for seeking help- that takes real guts.
I think you need to see a very good counsellor as well as someone who will tell you methods to handle anger. That way you are getting to the root of the prob... (read in full...)
In love with my housemate. Should I wait for him to figure it out?
Q. Hi everyone. My problem is that I am in love with my housemate. A few nights ago I thought he knew how I felt because he apologised for upsetting me when he kissed another girl when we were out. Now he's going out with her, and I want to tell him ...
A. 19 October 2005: this is a very tricky one... I think he may have been testing the waters when he said sorry for upsetting you.
However, he may simply have been sorry and wanting things to be fine between you as housemates...it depends what else has been said. How ... (read in full...)
He lies to me and I feel like crying when we're together. I just want to break up with him!
Q. Hey everyone, OK so I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and he's lied to me a lot, although the other day he crossed the line. I'd found out he'd been sending pictures of his genitals to other people via texts. When I asked him about it...
A. 18 October 2005: dump him! He is highly irresponsible holding you over a barrel with threats of suicide. i knwo you're freaked out but if he does anything you CANNOT be held responsible in any way. How he handles himself is his choice and only his and you can ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my fiance when he continues to lie to me?
Q. I have been with my fiance for over five years. I found out that he had a one night stand and have forgiven him for it. However I don't trust him. He lies to me all the time. Mainly about stupid things, but it feels like I'm being an idiot forgiving ...
A. 18 October 2005: honey, I am so sorry this has happened. You poor thing. OK so it's awful and now I think you have to pull yourself up my your own bootlaces (i.e. it's hard!) and face the real truth. This man has crossed a line - he has no respect for you anymore ... (read in full...)
I was sprung when I sent a text to a girl who's not my partner!
Q. I sent a text message to a girl and my partner found it on my phone. It read "hello sexy,when r u back in town ?". What do I do ?...
A. 16 October 2005: well what the hell were you doing sending that text?
If you want to flirt with and date other girls, you shouldn't let someone else think you're committed to them.
You say your partner found the text and you're worried about what to do...Is ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over my cheating husband?
Q. My spouse and I have been together since we were kids. I had just found out that he's been having an affair and he left me for her. I feel like I can't get over him. Why? What's wrong with me?...
A. 29 September 2005: you poor thing - there's nothing wrong with you. it's so so tough to pull yourself together after something like this.
However, it is vital; that you don;t indulge your sadness too much. get some help and fast! See a counsellor and learn to func... (read in full...)
Did I cheat just because my relationship is stale? And what do I do now?
Q. Please Help!!! I am just a regular guy, a nice bloke who doesn't drink or do any drugs but good fun. I thought I was going to be with my fiancee for the rest of my life; however I cheated on her which I swore I would never do, with someone I had kn...
A. 29 September 2005: It sounds like a mixture of problems here..
One: You seem too young to settle down perhaps.
Two: You have not yet fully realised that all relationships involve some work to keep them fresh -on both sides
Three: There will always always be te... (read in full...)
If I vent my feelings to my abusive ex, would he try to find me again?
Q. I broke up from a man who was very abusive towards me about a year and a half ago. I have since entered into a healthy realtionship and have become engaged. Knowing all of this I still keep thinking about my Ex. I think it may be because I feel ...
A. 14 September 2005: Hi there,
first well done for geting out of that and finding someone nice.
I think your friend with the e-mail idea is sensible but think carefully about it as having any communication with your ex will fire you up and not necessarily make you feel... (read in full...)
After I slept with my ex, all those old feelings came flooding back! What are our chances?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years nearly 2 years ago. We didn't really have much contact as he had a new girlfriend! I saw him out clubbing a couple of weeks ago and we got on so well as if we had never split. I ended up going ba...
A. 14 September 2005: hmm this is a tricky one and depends on so much you haven't told us.
What was he like after you slept together? Did he say anything? Were you on E? Were you drunk?
You also don;t mention the exact circumstances of your split - did he actually... (read in full...)
My b/f said our baby wasn't his, and my family won't forgive him for the insult...
Q. Dear cupid, My boyfieind and I had a child but he refuses to accept it because he doubted if it is really his. But the truth is it's really his child. My family got angry because it was an insult to me and the baby, but the truth is I have been ...
A. 12 September 2005: well I think your family might have point - I mean what difference does it make if you did some drugs? Why might that make the child not his? Why does it give him a reason to think he should suspect he isn't the father?
I really think you migh... (read in full...)
Two amazingly hot women are in love with me, but I can't commit to just one!
Q. I'm in love with two girls, completely crazy about both. They both live so far away. I could commit to one, but that would mean losing the other. It's just too hard to choose. I don't think I can, to be honest. They are both amazingly hot. Both of...
A. 12 September 2005: well i have some sympathy that two great girls have come along at the same time, howver, I think part opf your confusion is down to the fact that they both live far away. you don't give much detail, but i suspect that you don;t know either ... (read in full...)
Interested in trying swinging, but apprehensive about how it might affect our relationship!
Q. My wife recently declared an interest in trying sex with another girl. It got me interested me as the girl in question is sexy and apparently available and I would shag her without any problems. The girl also suggested that her husband joined in. M...
A. 10 September 2005: In my opinion 'swinging' is an excuse to have only a half-realtionship. basically it allows people to have their cake and eat it too, hanging on to the security of their partner without affording them the respect that is VITAL in any human ... (read in full...)
Why would he rather spend time with his female friends than with me?
Q. How can you really tell if someone is in to you? How can you tell if they are holding back or keeping distance because of them and not you? For example....The guy that I have been seeing now for a couple of months is great. We talk every day, ...
A. 8 September 2005: It sounds to me as if this guy is interested in you, but needs a bit of a push.
What you need to do to make him appreciate you is to sudddenly become a lot less available.
I'm sorry to say it, but the old adage still stands: "Let him chase you."
M... (read in full...)
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