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Irregular period? Or bleeding from sex?

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Question - (10 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *10610 writes:

Am I bleeding because of his intensive fingering or do I just have an irregular period?

Hi Um im very scared and i just want to know if this would be my period or if his nails was the problem or it was his finger that broke my hymen i dont know..

Well i came over and we were kind of getting a little touchy with each other and it soon became "dry sexing " .. Sounds weird but um I know for a fact that you cant get pregnant unless both liquids fully soaks through each other clothing and thats like a low risk but we only had underwear on and basically dry humping I know i was a bit damp but i know i was wet .. He told me that he showered already and that his last masturbation was 3 days ago. .

I dont remember the exact date for my previuos period or when it ended but the last time i went to his house was on the 23rd of june and i dont know if this is my period or not but alot of blood is comming out and there are clumps.. Im wearing a pad right now and im very worried is there a possible chance im pregnant ? and why is it bleeding? can period come right after another from month to month ?Why do i feel nauseas .. is it because im like really over stressing it or im really really scared pleease i need help and im worried sick!

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A female reader, becca emma louise United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2010):

i've had something like that said to me... 'i need to stop acting 24 and start acting like a teenager instead of stressing etc' and its up to you what you do with your life but take it easy okay and sometimes just relax and take a deep breath :) i always feel as though i need to impress people and i dont want to let them down but i often forget to do what i want :) good luck with everything and enjoy yourself :) xxx

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A female reader, 010610 United States +, writes (10 July 2010):

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Thank You "becca emma louise", and MissKin You guys gave me a little stress reliever .. I've been stressing too much and im only 16 :[ all my friends say that im too mature for my age and that im living an adult life or having too much of a high expectation for myself because im working for my car, braces, schoo clothes, etc.. My dad told me all i have to do is go to school and make the grades, but for some reason i cant get it into my head that i dont need to hurry up and grow up. Im also having step mom problems and always trying to not disapoint my dad or i always want to prove to him that im good :[ Im trying to hard that i dont get enough sleep.. Mon-thurs i work from 4pm-12am and fri-sat its 4pm till 3am and sunday its back to 4pm-12am and mon-thurs i have driving school 4pm-6pm, and then sunday i have kung fu practice 1pm-6pm :[ and then i try to make time for my boyfriend AHHH i need a good stress reliever ..

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A female reader, MissKin United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2010):

MissKin agony auntIt doesn't sound like pregnancy and as long as you always wear protection (condoms) or use a contraceptive pill when having sexual intercourse the chance of pregnancy is low.

From what i've read it's extremely unlikely that you're pregnant and it does sound like your period. If the bleeding was due to any vigorous sexual activity (even fingering) it would have appeared soon afterwards.

If you're truly worried just see a doctor, or even just talk to one on the phone or contact and sexual health line for a more detailed conversation.

You could just feel sick because you're stressed and you weren't expecting it.

It does just sound like a period though so take a deep breath and calm down, and if you're really concerned and it doesnt feel like a normal period, just see your doctor.

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A female reader, becca emma louise United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2010):

if you knew the date of your last period and the day you were with your bf it would help. there is a very low chance of pregnancy without penetration, my ex bf was very rough when fingering me and twice after id been with him i did my self bleeding but only lighlty but we also had sex. if it was the fingering then the bleeding shouldnt be heavy because its just a tear in your vaginal wall but if the bleeding remains heavy with clumps then it may be worth seeing your doctor. if this is period like then it may be an irregular period caused by stress and if you are having a period then you arent pregnant. morning sickness does not usually kick in until a month after intercourse so its unlikely to be linked. i once had a phase where i thought i was pregnant and felt sick but it turned out just to be in my head, i wouldnt worry yourself too much but to put your mind to rest then do a pregnancy test around the time you expect your period to be due :) hope i helped, mail me if you wanna talk xxxx

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