Is it normal to get on so well with a mother in law?
Q. I am getting married in six months to my boyfriend of 4 years. I have known my fiancé since we were toddlers, and know his parents for almost as long. His parents like me a lot, and mine like him. I get on really we with my (soon to be) mother i...
A. 29 October 2012: My ex husbands mum was-is- a great woman she took me in as a daughter and took care after me. She was one in a million! We used to get along great I regarded her as a very good friend... She let me pick her clothes, do her hair... I remember telling ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him and start over? I don't know what to do or where to start
Q. My boyfriend is Italian and I'm from the UK. We have been together 4 years. I gave up everything and moved to Italy so we could be together. We are practically married and often talk about starting a family. Things were good for the first couple of ...
A. 12 October 2012: Oh I understand completely I am from Spain and left everything and came to the uk and luckily the relationship has worked but when things between us weren't so cool I felt terrible! I also dream about going back to sunny Spain though... Talk to him ... (read in full...)
Could I have Vulvar Vestibulitis? Does anyone else know what this can be?
Q. Ever since I first had sex nearly four years ago, I have had a burning pain at the entrance of the vagina during sex and have sometimes had to ask my boyfriend to stop. I have even had pain inserting tampons sometimes. I was on the combined pil...
A. 5 October 2012: That happened to me something like 3 years ago... It burnt whenever I had sex which made me be terrified at the idea of having sex in itself... Turned out I couldn't have sex cause I wasn't wet enough so that caused me a lot of pain. After that it ... (read in full...)
How can this be resolved? I have a feeling that my Bf does not want to tell his family that he has a daughter almost 3 years old.
Q. Hi, I'm 18, and I have a daughter who turns 3 in December Basically, I fell pregnant and I didn't find out until i was 14 weeks pregnant, I'm still with the childs father but here's the tricky part, 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant, my...
A. 3 October 2012: Dump him he's hiding ur daughter that on its own is a deal breaker ... (read in full...)
Has anybody been with someone who used to do a lot of drugs?
Q. My boyfriend used to be a heroin addict. He's pretty much done every drug under the sun (pot, cocaine, acid, ecstasy and heroin which he was addicted to for 4 years) and did that for several years from high school till his mid 20s. He's now 31. ...
A. 12 September 2012: If not having tried them makes u feel upset u have been with him for too long... Run while u can... (read in full...)
He ignores his own 6 children. I tried to help but it was too much. Is it reasonable for me to now focus on myself and my son?
Q. Well here I go... I have had posts about the same thing several times but my situation keeps changing so here I go... I am with a guy I love, he is the father of my only son... He's funny, witty, intelligent, loving, affectionate... ...
A. 3 September 2012: He said after coming back from work it's too late and as I'm not willing to have them in ours because that would mean me doing all the work the relationship has ceased now, he says he is making me and my son a priority... (read in full...)
He ignores his own 6 children. I tried to help but it was too much. Is it reasonable for me to now focus on myself and my son?
Q. Well here I go... I have had posts about the same thing several times but my situation keeps changing so here I go... I am with a guy I love, he is the father of my only son... He's funny, witty, intelligent, loving, affectionate... ...
A. 3 September 2012: No not an awful lot he pays cs but I think it all comes to £7 a week? He was married before he got with me so h had three kids to his ex, before that he had 2 unplanned ones to a former ex but he didn't plan to have them and he has a baby he pays cs ... (read in full...)
Can I make sex turn into just pleasure and no pain?
Q. Hi there i am 23 years of age. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now he's my first serious boyfriend. Now for a while i had a problem when having intercourse i has terrible stinging but had tests and nothing was found. Anyways it could of ...
A. 3 September 2012: You know I was like that three years ago whenever I went to have sex I felt like it was burning I found out it was that the guy I was having sex with did not make me feel enough turned on.. Look up on it X... (read in full...)
I'm still in love but can't take the hurt anymore
Q. How do get over this guy I am still very much in love with? He says that he loves me too and I believe that he is be cuase we did grow up together and have been friends since birth. However we just recently got into a relationship six months ago ...
A. 3 September 2012: If he loved you, he wouldn't be with the other girl... Walk away for good there are guys who are better than him, good luck X... (read in full...)
I lost my bestfriend to his girlfriend
Q. I had a Friend who was one if my best friends. In fact he was more like the little brother I never had. About a month or so ago, he got back with his ex, who had cheated on him in the past. He said at the time, he felt like he was making a huge mis...
A. 23 July 2012: Tbh though I would hate a woman texting my guy calling him sweetheart to u he might be just a brother but to her he's his sweetheart be careful on what u say and who u say it to next time... (read in full...)
I'm 14, pregnant, my B/f has left me, my parents are druggies and I live in a foster home. What do I do now?
Q. Hi I'm fourteen. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant for a while now! i finally got pregnant. But now my boyfriend (hes 16)left me. I really don't know what to do now. we were going to move in together and start a life. How should i ...
A. 13 June 2012: I would go for an abortion in ur circumstances... Good luck... (read in full...)
I'm feeling lost and tired and I don't know what to do now
Q. I am feeling lost and tired. I started the relationship with my sons dad nearly 3 years ago. I was living in Spain at the time my life was pretty boring and sad, but steady. I had a job, a car,my own house... I had an easy life that I did not value. ...
A. 13 June 2012: Well... We have split now again for the millionth time but I'm not feeling any better in fact I'm feeling quite low... Oh well... They say time is a healer :((... (read in full...)
I'm feeling lost and tired and I don't know what to do now
Q. I am feeling lost and tired. I started the relationship with my sons dad nearly 3 years ago. I was living in Spain at the time my life was pretty boring and sad, but steady. I had a job, a car,my own house... I had an easy life that I did not value. ...
A. 12 June 2012: In the first place, he did not leave anyone to be with me..l she left him months before even me being on the scene, not long after getting pregnant to him cause she was a cheat
On the second place, he didn't sponge off the mum, his mum is a benefi... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 31 May 2012: How did they eyes wide open :(... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 31 May 2012: Situation update: we split up :(( he says he's gonna spend time with three of his kids at his ex-wife's... Broken hearted :(((((((((... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 28 May 2012: I have but he seems to take the piss... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 27 May 2012: In the household is just me my bf and my baby son, they live with their mum... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by washing my hands of his kids and focusing on my own son?
Q. What it is.. I have a baby son who is 6 months old. My partner the babys dad has 6 other children, one of them that we don't know cuz he didnt wanna meet... 3 of them, his ex-wife's ones, used to come to ours every single week as I was inviting them ...
A. 27 May 2012: When the kids are with me, it's not that I take a third of the work, I do it all: play with them, help them with their homework, get them dressed, cook their meals... Now that I have a very demanding baby it just takes too much of me. While they are ... (read in full...)
Why do I want sex all the time?
Q. Okay short question but here goes, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months and were pretty happy together, finally! I lost my vaginaty to him about a month ago, now it's all I ever think about and want, well 90% of the time! Why do I want ...
A. 26 May 2012: For the first two years in a relationship, it's all you ever seem to want, believe me. It's like a honey moon... Unfortunately, as the time passes, you will gradually feel more and more uninterested. X... (read in full...)
His penis is too big!!
Q. Im seeing this guy for a few months. He has 8 inches, and says that he is being very gentle with me. This one time we had sex it hurt so bad, that I had lingering pain for 6 days, took painkillers. He said that was going about half as hard as he ...
A. 26 May 2012: If he can't take it easy with u he might as well get f...cked he does not care about anything but self pleasure.. U see that, right
U don't have to do it... Good luck...
Sex should be about mutual enjoyment... X... (read in full...)
I'm feeling very uncomfortable with this male friend
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love him, we get along really really well. He's my best friend and I feel 100% safe with him. Recently we got into separate colleges (but we still see each other a lot), but we do not study ...
A. 26 May 2012: Sometimes you have to be cruel in order to be kind tell your friend he's freaking you out and to stop it... Obviously he ain't respecting u at all... Good luck... (read in full...)
I'm married, she's married but I love her
Q. Hey pals I had a wife for 2yrs but had never been happy with her coz she became my wife after impregnating her and was imprisoned but 2months ago I met and fell in love with a married woman who said she never wanted an affair but rather a ...
A. 26 May 2012: Get divorced would be a start... (read in full...)
Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis if size doesn't matter?
Q. Why do so many women want to try having sex with a big penis (like bigger than they've ever had before) if size doesn't matter? Why did men evolve big penises (length and girth) compared to other primates if size doesn't matter?...
A. 26 May 2012: That's strange when u start getting serious with a guy u don't go like:
Hey mate u got a big one there? So that does not happen at all. Women have sex with the guys they feel attracted to regardless the size...
Two experiences to share let's ... (read in full...)
These two men complete me, but having just one kills me.
Q. I've been In a relationship for a year now and it's wonderful. We are average, happy, fight over the silly things, kiss and makeup over nothing. In all honesty it's great... But I'm in love with two men. My boyfriend "Steve" and my best guy frie...
A. 26 May 2012: What I really think is you are not in love with any of the two otherwise you would only need one of them who would fulfill you in every way... Leave both of them cause in the long run its going to destroy the three of you... Good luck ... (read in full...)
Has any of your ladies ever been a single mother with no family help at all?
Q. Hey. I'm gonna be 32 in a few months and I've just found out I am pregnant. As soon as I told my bf about it he just walked away. I have no family as my mum died a few years ago and my dad in an evil man and we're not on speaking terms. I have very ...
A. 26 May 2012: Well... I'm with the baby's dad in a relationship but it's pretty much like bei g a lone parent... He doesn't get too involved in my sons daily life at all and I moved to the uk fom Spain two years ago although I haven't met any friends at all. His ... (read in full...)
He uses the same pet names for me as he did with them
Q. Need some help to see sense about finding lots of old messages from my bf to ex-gfs/hook ups of his. Basically, he gave me his old mobile phone to use. I was loading up all my info, and loads of his old messages (from a few months before we met) ...
A. 3 March 2012: I understand completely jealousy is a very tricky feeling my partner was married before and has other kids and does the same games with our son as he did with them... It hurts like hell so I dont know if it gets easier...... (read in full...)
I am jealous about my guy's other children!
Q. That's a long story but will try and make it plain and easy... I was in a relationship with a guy for 8 years and although I did not plan to have kids to him I always thought that I would end up admitting it was the best thing because that baby ...
A. 23 February 2012: Thank u Mandy x... (read in full...)
I am jealous about my guy's other children!
Q. That's a long story but will try and make it plain and easy... I was in a relationship with a guy for 8 years and although I did not plan to have kids to him I always thought that I would end up admitting it was the best thing because that baby ...
A. 23 February 2012: U didn't half sound disrespectful u...
I never said I wanted to go back with my ex, that in the first place...
I do love his kids, they are amazing it's just that I'm scared of MY son missing out...
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I am jealous about my guy's other children!
Q. That's a long story but will try and make it plain and easy... I was in a relationship with a guy for 8 years and although I did not plan to have kids to him I always thought that I would end up admitting it was the best thing because that baby ...
A. 23 February 2012: Yeah she's jealous the ex wife that's why she has managed to stir shit about him... But in his face she's dead nice... Aghhhhh
No there's no going back to my ex there's a reason why we never made it and he deserves someone better than me...
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After being raped, are women ever able to enjoy sex?
Q. Nearly three years ago I was raped, so I have never had sex other than that one time. I have started a relationship with someone and I like him and he respects me, but I don't want to have sex. Do other women actually want sex after rape or do ...
A. 22 February 2012: Look I like to say once u get raped u may move on but from my experience( was sexually abused,not raped at a very young age) I haven't been able to feel completely normal... Oh I do have sex but I have got loads of issues... Hope u find a way to ... (read in full...)
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