My boyfriend has lost his sex drive. What could be the problem?
Q. my boyfriend has completely lost his sex drive and we have only been dating 1 year. what is the problem?...
A. 1 October 2007: as the other person responded we need more info. but these are the possibilities -
- he is seeing someone else/some other people and getting sex off them.
- hes gone off you because a) you spend too much time together, b) you nag him, c) you guys... (read in full...)
I am monitoring all interaction between my wife and her friend. Did I do the right thing?
Q. For the past couple of weeks my wife has been exchanging sexual emails with an old friend she found online. They had phone sex and even met up one day when she took the kids out to the cinema. I confronted her about it and she insists that although ...
A. 3 September 2007: leave her. shes cheated on you (maybe not physically but still you know what i mean) and now she is not prepared to give up the guy she cheated with.
as you rightly said, she has never mentioned the guy in 20 years and now after three weeks ca... (read in full...)
Do you think my girlfriend fancies her cousin?
Q. do u think its wrong? i love my girlfriend but theres something about her and her brother. ok the clues he ask's me questions about my sex life with is sister i think thats strange my girl got mad at me the other day because i give h...
A. 3 September 2007: i think youre being paranoid. the cousin things, well if she likes her cousins baby thats fine, i like my families babies as well.
as for the issue with her hating her cousins girlfirend, well sometimes girls just have irrational hatred for othe... (read in full...)
Why isnt my girlfriend keen on moving in together?
Q. ok i've been dateing my girlfriend 6 months were engaged, where trying for a baby, we spend as much time as possible with each over but i wanna move in with her and i asked her the other day if she wouldn't mind looking for somewhere sh...
A. 3 September 2007: is it possible she has lived with another guy before and it went wrong?
i lived with my boyfriend for about 2 years, it went horrifically wrong. i am terrified of moving in with a guy now as it literally ripped my life apart. even if she hasnt mo... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone I cant have and its starting to affect me. I'm drinking more alcohol now and crying. Help..
Q. Hi, Q.I have found my soul mate but i can't have him!what do i do? I have never written on one of these sites, but I am completely lost as I met my soul mate 4 years ago, but he is together with a good friend. The connection we have is incredi...
A. 3 September 2007: well at least you have addressed the main problem "i cant have him". most women would be in denial and still hoping that he would leave his girlfriend for you. but as we can both clearly tell, thats never going to happen.
you cant go on living l... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair. We are sorting it out but the other woman is fighting for him!
Q. By accident I found out my husband was having an affair. We are trying to work out our marriage because I won't let him go. I'm making it hard for him to go. We have 4 little children under 9. He's been honest with me about his feelings for her. At ...
A. 3 September 2007: that is difficult. in my opinion, your husband has gotten bored of your marriage or felt trapped or whatever, and in turn has looked for something to make him feel good again. whatever happens, he has spent 20 years with you. how long was he with ... (read in full...)
Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome?
Q. Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome? I have had the fantasy of seeing my wife with another man for 2-years now. I have asked her about it and she always said no. I make little comments and suggestions all the time. Finall...
A. 29 August 2007: im sorry... but you are one evil sick nasty piece of work. how can you even look at yourself. your WIFE? she said no, cried, said no some more, cried some more, couldnt even bring herself to not cry when in the middle of the act and she was drunk? ... (read in full...)
Although I snog others in clubs I don't really want to. Am I doing this to get back at my gay friend?
Q. Dear Cupid Ok I've started seeing this guy for about 2 months. We met in a gay club which is a very flirty scene. He is 26 and I'm 33. This guy is a type I would not usually go for - gets really drunk/dances without his shirt on/snogs lots of...
A. 24 August 2007: this is obviously a gay thing to snog people in front of ur boyfriend... i cant imagine the fall out if i did that in front of a boyfriend of mine. i would be dumped instantly. its unforgiveable. if its not a gay thing to do, then er, dump him! ... (read in full...)
After 3 and a half years he said I love you, what now?
Q. I am stunned I have had an on off reltionship with my boyfriend for three and a half years!! It has been more off than on. We went out for 6 months at the beginning and it was really good to start with but then it got weird. I was literally ...
A. 24 August 2007: oh dear. im sorry but you are wasting your time. clearly you are crazy about this guy but if you have plans of marriage or long term perfection with this guy, u ARE NOT gonna get it. trust me. hes probably come to realise that after 3 and a half ... (read in full...)
I can't tell if he has feelings for me or not! He has a girlfriend and I am gay, but he sometimes seems flirty!
Q. I am a gay man that just turned 40. I became friends with a straight guy who is 25 years old but he doesn’t know about me being gay and never said anything to make me believe he suspects. We hit it off right from the start. The ideas, the taste, the ...
A. 24 August 2007: these are my thoughts on what you have said.
"So, we are kind of completion of the other." - this doesnt mean u are a romantic completion of each other. i am this way with my best friend too, yet i am not gay.
"When he comes back he’s watere... (read in full...)
What should I do on my date?
Q. Goin cinema with a girl i like. Should i pay for tickets? Popcorn? Should i offer food afterwards? I really want to find out if she likes me. Is there anyway i could find out? Make a move, maybe in the cinema? Place my hand on hers? Anythin will ...
A. 24 August 2007: hehe ok.. my opinion, as someone who is fairly shy when it comes to guys, is yes, pay for the tickets. pay for the popcorn, offer food - only if the day is going well though - do everything and anything she wants. if its ur first date, unless you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is a virgin and I want to make her first time as enjoyable as possible
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for close to a year now, and she's been a virgin the whole time. She wants me to be her first, and I am looking to make it as enjoyable or at least pleasant as I can. Any advice from a woman's perspective on how to go ...
A. 24 August 2007: ok, good job you asked because my first time was horrific! the main thing is, it really frickin hurts. unless youve been doing LOADS of other stuff with her this entire time uve been together. so if you havent, u need to start using ur hands and ur ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be "that girl," but I really like a married man
Q. Two years ago, I met a guy who I ended up falling for. He had literally just got into a relationship, so I didn't try anything, and I certainly didn't say anything about how I felt about him. His girlfriend ended up getting pregnant- so they ended ...
A. 24 August 2007: i think its quite obvious really. and you will read it in any magazine problem page or any articles online... basically, if the man really loves you, he will leave his wife. end of.
i know he has commitments but if he married her for the wrong re... (read in full...)
I still want to be friends, but every time we talk he tries to make me feel jealous
Q. I'm trying to stay friends with my ex because I'm still attracted to him and the thought of not seeing him or talking to him again makes me sad. Also because I still have feelings 4 him and because it makes me feel happy when I exchange messages ...
A. 24 August 2007: ok, well done for realising that you should NOT get back together with this guy. i know sometimes it feels like because of all the emotions that ur meant to be with someone, but if its not working, its not working, so dont keep trying to fix it. ... (read in full...)
I think he is great and we could be perfect for each other, but I'm afraid to show my true colors, and shy that he might think I'm a nutter!?!
Q. I have a huge crush on a guy I'm pretty sure he has a girlfriend. We met at work place where he is a counsellor and I'm the receptionist. He is quite flirty, always smiling, attentive, is funny and thoughtful. Everytime he speaks to me, my heart ...
A. 16 August 2007: well the only way hes going to see ur true colours is if u show them! if he doesnt like ur true colours, then ur obviously not compatible. if he does, then great! ... (read in full...)
What can I do about his mates?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm 18 years old and starting University in a few weeks. My boyfriend lives in Leeds (England) and I am going to Uni quite far from there, but that isn't a problem for either of us. He's not going to college because he's got other p...
A. 16 August 2007: u need to PROVE to ur boyfriend and his mates if u care what they think that ur not gonna cheat. i.e. come home every weekend for a while, or invite him to visit all the time and be very open. screw the friends, they are mean. just remember its u ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?
Q. Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?...
A. 16 August 2007: if u are ok with doing sneaky things, then yes. to be honest with u, do u really think if theres gonna be something naughty on there or something u shouldnt see if its on a film which needs to be developed? if he was doing something naughty, it ... (read in full...)
How can I get my boyfriend's attention and get him to do his fair share around the house?
Q. How can one get their boyfriend's attention? I live with mine, and his attention is always diverted into things he wants to do or watch. I feel enslaved to the house duties thus feel more like a slave than a girlfriend. In what ways can I turn ...
A. 16 August 2007: deny sex. end of. stop doing the housework and let him see how much it piles up. start going out loads and having a really good time and let him know how much of a good time u are having and he will definitely be interested then - i know all of this ... (read in full...)
He was talking emotionless and in a very formal way. Does this mean he no longer cares?
Q. Dear all, Yesterday I was really shocked and I thought of sharing it with you, maybe I'm wrong? I'm 23 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we're planning to get engaged by year end. My boyfriend joined the military ...
A. 16 August 2007: he has possibly realised while he was away that he has other priorities. sometimes people change and that means they change their feelings. the only way you can tell if he still wants to be with u is if u tell him that u need space because he is ... (read in full...)
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