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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidOk I've started seeing this guy for about 2 months. We met in a gay club which is a very flirty scene. He is 26 and I'm 33. This guy is a type I would not usually go for - gets really drunk/dances without his shirt on/snogs lots of guys. But he is funny, and when meeting him outside the club (which is only once a week) he is really keen on me, and texts and calls every day. We do seem to click.But this is the problem. When he goes off snogging in the club, so do I. I've explained that if he wants to go and snog fair enough, but I don't want to see it. So I go and enjoy myself and when he sees me doing the same he gets all moody. We've argued 3 times in the club so far...Is this really going to go anywhere??Thanks
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reader, x_goddess_x +, writes (25 August 2007):
 i dont think so i think ya should "MOVE ON" and find someone that does not want to snog others and only wants to snog YOU
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reader, auntyluuurve +, writes (24 August 2007):
 this is obviously a gay thing to snog people in front of ur boyfriend... i cant imagine the fall out if i did that in front of a boyfriend of mine. i would be dumped instantly. its unforgiveable. if its not a gay thing to do, then er, dump him! he may not be ready to commit but if he likes you as much as u think he does, then if u tell him its you or the random snogs. yeah i know ultimatums shouldnt be given, but dont give it like an ultimatum, just discuss how it makes u feel. because really are you prepared to stay in a relationship where you are constantly cheated on? if he wont compromise, he should be dumped.
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