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writes:Goin cinema with a girl i like. Should i pay for tickets? Popcorn? Should i offer food afterwards? I really want to find out if she likes me. Is there anyway i could find out? Make a move, maybe in the cinema? Place my hand on hers? Anythin will help. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 Ah yes, girls love an old-fashioned date. Pick her up, open the car door for her, take her to the movie, yes, pay for the movie and the popcorn and the drinks. Afterwards, dinner would be great and yes, it could be getting expensive by now but be the gentleman, and pay for the night. Hopefully if she's halfway mature, she will reciprocate and invite you on an outing, next time, like miniature golf, or a day at the museum, complete with lunch and dessert and foot the bill herself. I really don't know what kids do these days. When my b/f and I started dating, we first just met for drinks. I'd pay one time, he'd pay the next. We did the same thing on dinners and movies. We'd switch off because adult relationships are very different, both parties are usually working and supporting themselves, and I never thought it was fair for the guy to always pay for everything once I was out on my own, that is. But at your age, it would be a sweet, gesture that's sure to impress her parents. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): Are you going with her to the cinema as friends or as a date? You didn't make that clear. If you are going to the cinema as a date then if she didn't like you why would she go with you? This sounds like a first date. You could pay half each on tickets, popcorn, sweets, drink etc. And afterwards you could make it clear how you feel about her but remember to take it slowly, don't force her into anything she doesn't want to do and vice versa. And good luck.
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reader, auntyluuurve +, writes (24 August 2007):
 hehe ok.. my opinion, as someone who is fairly shy when it comes to guys, is yes, pay for the tickets. pay for the popcorn, offer food - only if the day is going well though - do everything and anything she wants. if its ur first date, unless you know shes keen i really wouldnt be too forward because you might offend her. for me, on a first date, if i liked the guy i would expect him to keep his hands off until maybe, the walk back where he could try to hold my hand. and a kiss on the cheek and a hug and if she seems keen to hug for a bit longer than usual then maybe go in for a kiss.
the best way to find out if she likes you is if she keeps looking at u for a little too long when you are talking,and when youre not talking she looks around absolutely everywhere. look for signs she might be a little bit nervous, then she likes you. if the conversation isnt great, it doesnt mean she doesnt like you coz she may just be shy.
if all else fails and u really cant tell if she likes u and u are too worried to make a move, then just ask at the end of the date if she wants to see u again. if she says yes, u will be able to tell if its out of politeness or if she really wants to. if she says no, well, you get the idea.
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