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How can I get him to go out with me?

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Question - (8 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 February 2008)
A female Zimbabwe age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 15. I am having a problem, you see, over the christmas holidays, my brother introduced me to his good friend.

Me and the friend spent lots of time together and became quite close. This last weekend when he started to cry infront of me it brought us even closer and I began to get a crush on him. I tried to deny it to myself and my friends but I can't. He has never had a girlfriend or kissed anyone before and everytime I send him a text or flirt with him just a little he acts like he doesn't know me or like me at all.

But he has given off a few small signs he likes me! I am so confused on whether he likes me but is shy, he doesn't want to annoy my brother or he is pushing me away on purpose or he just wants to stay friends.

I don't know what I should do because everytime I am with him, I just want to kiss him or hold his hand but I know I can't.

I am also scared that because he is so in-experienced he will want to save his kiss for someone really special but I just have to be with him, but I din't want him to stop seeing me if I tell him!

Please help me urgently! I am so confused!

from confused.

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A male reader, WhatsWhat84 United Kingdom +, writes (29 February 2008):

Hi there!

If I were you I would grab him with both hands and ask him out as he can only say no but obviously tell him how you feel about him first, it is about time that females started asking males out because us males seem to get mixed signals and reactions to. Good Luck and I hope it works out between you both.

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A female reader, Auntie Amber :) United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2008):

Auntie Amber :) agony auntdoes this boy kno how u feel about him ...?

arrange to meet him and sit down and have a chat about the way u feel....

ask him if he feels the same way....

tell him you need to kno wher you stand...

if you realy like him you need to let him kno...

he mite not kno and he may meet some1 else....

grab this chance with both hands wile u can....

xx

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A female reader, Auntie Amber :) United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2008):

Auntie Amber :) agony auntdoes this boy kno how u feel about him ...?

arrange to meet him and sit down and have a chat about the way u feel....

ask him if he feels the same way....

tell him you need to kno wher you stand...

if you rele like him you need to let him kno...

he mite not kno and he may meet some1 else....

grab this chance with both hands wile u can....

xx

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (8 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntGo slow lady! You may scare him !. Just be friends until he lets down his guards for you.

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