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writes:Helooo!, what does it mean when a boy says that he likes you, but only acts like it when we are alone ...? i really REALLY like this boy! we haev done some things together, but when we are at school he doesnt act like he likes me and then suddenly when we are alone its a different story! all my friends are saying hes tagging me along and that im just his bit of 'action' but when wer alone its ... magic!! what does it mean ...? is he embaresed of me infront of his mates or something...am i nor pretty enough?! any advice is really appreciated :D xXx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): I know its negative but hun looks like he is embarassed,thats his problem not yours. I know cos I did it once when younger and the guy was actually quite goodlooking but was not my type(shame on me!) :-) But seriously if he was a genuine person, he wouldnt have a split personality.hes a drain to your self esteem..dump him quick!
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reader, Auntie Amber :) +, writes (14 March 2007):
 i know exactly how u feel...it was the same between me and my boyfriend before i decided i wanted every1 2 know....then when they found out he wasnt bothered he was just being an immature lil boy....he was worried about what his friends would say!! just say 2 him if u like me so much u wont mind if we tell evertyone...then if he sais i dont want 2....dump him u can do much better babe xx auntie amber xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): He probably just pretends not to like around his mates and then he likes you when you two are alone because he's showing off in front of his mates. Plus he doesn't want his mates knowing that he likes a girl. It's nothing to do with whether you are pretty enough or not.
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reader, Bailey J +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Boy are inmature. He's probably scared of what his friends will say. Tell him, ' tell everyone about me and you!' Or there will be no me and you!!! Dont let him hold all the cards.
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (14 March 2007):
 Well you are both soooooooo young and girls grow up faster than boys. I really hope if you are having sex,you are using a condom,you are too young but if you are just remember the pill is good but it doesnt stop infections so be carefull sweety.
Right,I think your friends maybe right and he may be acting like this just because he doesnt want to commit to you and is being nice to you when you are alone so he gets what ever you are doing.
Dont be a door mat,im sure you are a very pretty,but this feeling you have got for this boy will happen alot as you grow into a woman,you think that he is the love of your life and cant stand the thought of being without him???
Well you will get over it, enjoy being young and have fun with your mates,dont worry over boys. Let them do the running. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): im afraid to say this, but when a guy really does like you, then he is proud of it, and he wants everyone to know that you are together. It sounds like he does maybe like you to do stuff with you, but not enough that he will prove it to the rest of the world. Don't give him everyhting he wants eg. all the action! he is getting it just how he wants it. Just play it cool, get on with your life, don't give into him by doing things when you are alone, and then if he really does like you, he will miss seeing you and he will have to ask you to be his girlfriend. is that not what you really want??
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