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I feel he's going off me, should I say anything to him?
Q. Is this normal Have been seeing my bf nearly a year Started off long distance so always made most of every sec together now he lives closer coz of work and he dont seem as pleased to see me I worry hes going off me i feel low about this I know hes ...
A. 24 May 2007: When you're apart from each other you miss each other terribly and it's easy to let ur mind wander...you find yourself building up this sort of "movie" image in your head for your next meet up. maybe now that you two are more or less on each others ... (read in full...)
He was no good for me! How do I get back my worthiness after being with him?
Q. I think my standards have dropped since being with a guy who was not good for me. How can I regain my standards and think that I am still worth what I once thought I was worth?...
A. 24 May 2007: I say take yourself shopping, pamper yourself with the most expensive products around and just keep your head up. remind yourself that you ARE better and you will FIND better than him. Picture your ideal guy and tell yourself that theres nobody whos ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks sexual acts are disgusting....what can I do?
Q. Well, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months already. Everything is going good. We are both, just graduated from high school. She likes me a lot, and I like her a lot. The thing is, that she thinks oral sex, sex, or even sexual ...
A. 7 June 2006: my first point i have to make is that she is not that old...
is she about 17/18?
some people either have very strong beliefs or just simply havent been surrounded by the idea that sex/sexual activity r the "norm". maybe shes just trying to make her... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity now or wait until marriage?
Q. Hi. I'm in a 3 month relationship with my boyfriend. I'm a virgin, and he's not. We've talked about his past and he's had a few sexual encounters. It made me feel really uneasy after learning this, but i've come to understand and respect his past ...
A. 7 June 2006: what your feeling is entirely normal..losing your virginity is something that should be taken seriously, but as for beliefs, ignore them and do what u feel is right. whatever u do do not think u are gettin too old to be a virgin...many people in ... (read in full...)
I really like her, and She wants to be just friends
Q. Hiya, I guess that this girl I like realised I really like her, she said that shes sorry if she led me on but she wants to remain friends. We were close but now theres barely anything. Now Im only 16 but Ive been in some heavy relationships so...
A. 7 June 2006: everyone is likely to be far more stressed around the time of exams so i definately suggest u stay away. u say u werent that close originally, so it makes sense that u two barely ever talk after she found out. if u were closer, there wud probably ... (read in full...)
I have been dreaming about cheating on my man
Q. Recently I've been having some weird dreams. I had a dream that I had slept with another person behind my boyfriends back! I know I have no control over what I dream of, but I'm still a bit bothered by this. Why on earth would I have a dream like ...
A. 7 June 2006: there is a theory that dreams are disguised expressions of unconsious desires and impulses, which means that you could subconsciously be thinking about a different relationship with somebody else, yet the truth is that you love your boyfriend and ... (read in full...)
How do I get back in touch with my ex?
Q. i was having a casual relationship with a bloke it went on for a few months and then i ended it, a few months later we started texting each other again and then suddenly he stopped he didnt reply to any of my messages and i still dont know why. the ...
A. 7 June 2006: i suggest checking out the places he used to hang out - u mite spy one of his friends and be able to ask them.
i think u may have encouraged his behaviour because of the text messages etc, but if all u want to do is apologise, and not expect to get ... (read in full...)
I need tips on flirting
Q. i cant flirt, when meet someone i always go the wrong way about it, can someone give me some flirting tips please?...
A. 7 June 2006: i reali dont think theres a knack to flirting, as it can look reali forced and fake.
just be yourself, happy is the key to making yourself noticeable. nobodys interested in someone that sits quietly making no conversation. however dont be too "ful... (read in full...)
I like one guy mate, and jealous that my girl mate likes another
Q. hi i am 18. i am undergoing a very miserable state nowadays because i just discovered that i like my very good guy mate,and i am not aware of his feelings. another thing bothering me is that one of my girl mates is tryin to hit on my guy mate who...
A. 3 June 2006: get in there before she does. you would b so p***** off if you discovered he liked you but thought you werent interested so got off with your friend instead. just simply ask him out. as for your female friend im sure she shall be happy for you o... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I slept in another guy's bed
Q. i love my boyfriend but recently things havnt been great, i ended up sleeping in another guys bed and kissing him.we like each other, but hes not single. should i tell my boyfriend? i know it may end things and i dont want that..all that happened ...
A. 3 June 2006: DO NOT TELL HIM!!!!! if you want to stay with him there is no point telling him. all you did was kiss was you were feeling a bit fragile? also i doubt the guy wont betelling his gf either. hope you and bf can patch things up. ... (read in full...)
How should I ask her out online?
Q. I have been talking to this girl online and i am starting to get feelings for her. We both trust each other because we talk about personal stuff and we have things in common. The thing is i want to see her and hang out with her... im 16 and she is ...
A. 3 June 2006: the fact the she is 14 would make her nervous, coz lets face it u could be a 30 yr old pervert. although she trusts u on the net meeting up is different n she may be warned against it. why dont u arrange to meet in a public place like the cinema.... (read in full...)
I like this lad and sent him a note but he doesn't mention it!
Q. i have had a crush on a lad i confessed my feelings to him in a note which has never been mentioned i haven't talked to him since and i would like him to know i like him without saying i love you, please could people give me tips on talking and ...
A. 3 June 2006: if he still has not replied then he probably does not feel the same way. He may not have mentioned it coz he didnt want to hurt ur feelings. so dont corner him n tell him ur feelings n DEFF dont tell him that u love him coz it will scare the hell ... (read in full...)
My husband has got someone pregnant
Q. I have been separated for 11 months. My husband got someone pregnant. He is unsure what to do. He says he has a strong connection with her. Do you have advice for me or him...
A. 3 June 2006: DO NOT GET BACK TOGETHER WITH HIM!
if he has a strong connection with this woman and she is pregnant, y does he need advice?
he should stand by her n u should start moving on.... (read in full...)
My partner ignores me completely!
Q. Hi, why does my male partner invite guests over, and smile (at the women and make eyecontact) and be friendly and basically not look at me or acknowledge me. The next day he goes to work and then comes home, goes to sleep, then gets up and avoids ...
A. 3 June 2006: im sorry to say it but it does seem as if he doesnt respect u as a person. one reason could be that he feels comfortable in the relationship and doesnt see a need for compassion to prove this.
i think if you leave this as it is things will only... (read in full...)
Torn between men
Q. i have been with my boyfriend matt* for nearly 4 years. last may we decided to split and be friends, as we both have the same group of friends.i then started a relationship with a guy he went to school with in july, tom*. i got depression finished ...
A. 1 June 2006: if u sincerely feel the relationship is drifting, let him know asap before any arguments erupt because the last thing u want is for him to think ur breaking up with him becuase of a silly argument and not because of the reasons youve just mentioned. ... (read in full...)
My Bf's Friend he awkward to be around, He says I dont like him, when Im the one making all the effort, How can I fix this ?
Q. Hi all, i dont know if anyone can help me here but my bf has made a new male friend at his studies, my bf and i live together and sometime my bf will invite his new friend over to stay the nite, the problem is his friend just wont talk to me and i ...
A. 1 June 2006: to be quite honest theres nothing else u can do by the sounds of it!! i think this "friend" is being very difficult and im suprised ur boyf hasnt got upset with all this as well. surely he wants u to both get on well ?? i suggest telling ur boyf ... (read in full...)
How do I get a guy to ask me out? Advice please.
Q. what is girlfriend material? i am 15 and i want to know how i can become girlfriend material. at school i act quite young and mess around a lot and i know boys would think, "noone would go out wiv her" but boys think i am 'fit' cos i over heard ...
A. 16 May 2006: perhaps asking someone out is a good idea...but only if u feel you get on with them really well. dont worry about not being in a serious relationship, youre 15 and need to enjoy your fun! im 18 n probably the most immature person in my group of ... (read in full...)
How can I make this boy choose ME over his girl?
Q. Hi there's this boy that just moved in my building 3 months ago and he is so cute. We been hanging out and talkin to each other from day one. but i just found out that he has a girlfriend and i really want to be with him. I feel that we have cem...
A. 13 May 2006: you cant make him do anything. let him no how u feel (in private) and tell him that nothin can happen while he still has a girlf. if he wants u enough, he'll come running. the reason why he didnt tell u is probably becos he likes u a lot, and thort ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends sister hates me... And I wish he could stop being so sweet to his sister because of this!
Q. my boyfriends sister hates me more than anything. shes 23 and im 20 and my boyfriend is 19. When we started dating everything was nice then around 6months we found out that she was writing all this hateful stuff about me in her livejournal. then 1 ...
A. 13 May 2006: yes i definately think it works both ways, and ur the guest when u visit, so she shud be makin an effort to make u feel confortable.
i dont think u shud try and change ur boyfs attitude towards his sister; he clearly has a strong relationship with... (read in full...)
I feel like I would make them happier...
Q. ok dont know how to read these signals just got to know someone who lives near me got chatting had a laugh seemed to know and remeber me from a long time ago in a bar i used to work in. i then find out they are seeing someone who they work with and...
A. 12 May 2006: i suggest u stay away for a while until this relationship falls apart (if it eva does). gettin involved will onli cause problems, especially if this guy finds out you like her. leave things be for a while, let her explain the situation fully and ... (read in full...)
I step back when boys step forward to kiss me!
Q. when i am out with a boy and he reaches over to kiss me i get very nervous incase i wont do it right and step back. why is this...
A. 12 May 2006: Theres nothin wrong with you, its just that ur thinkin too much about how others will think about you. when youve found someone you reali like, it should come naturally, as you'll feel comfortable with them and they will understand if they know ... (read in full...)
Girls opinions needed... Is this chick interested in me or just being polite?
Q. Hi, I really just wanted some girls opinions... There is a girl who lives fairly near me who knows I like her (sent her a card ages ago), well nothing really happened as she always seemed so shy, I tried approaching her in the street but never go...
A. 12 May 2006: I think shes taken a fancy to you! i think the reason behind her shyness before was simply that she didnt see u enough, n possibly thought u were sum kind of stalker! now she seems to hav realised that u live down her street and ur friendly attitude ... (read in full...)
Guy seems to have lost interest in me.. doesn't return my calls.. is it my fault?
Q. I'm a single 28 year old. I've been dating this guy for about two months now. At first he was very attentive, called a lot, etc. Now we go out to eat about once a week, spend the night together once a week or so...but other than that he doesn't ...
A. 12 May 2006: well...try and play hard to get, like your friend suggests. if theres still no change, and u dont feel like he feels the same way towards u, move on. this will be tough, but its important your with someone who likes u as much as u like him. good ... (read in full...)
Worried that one of my friends has been calling my guy...
Q. Hi i am a 17 year old who is going through a rough time with my boyfriend. A few weeks ago i moved away from my boyfriend and it has been the hardest time ever. My boyfriend and I are very much in love and this past weekend i went to visit him. Well ...
A. 11 May 2006: yes i agree with dazzerg, ask your friend why she was calling him and what was said about you...if she still appears suspicious, calmly mention it agen to your boyf. if it turns out the phonecalls were made becos he misses you, try and let go of the ... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking of my crush.. can anyone help me?
Q. how can i stop thinking about my crush? :( plz help me...
A. 11 May 2006: firstly u need to think about whether anythin will eva happen between the two of you. if yes, let him do the chasing, and sit back and lap it all up - every girl deserves to be chased!
if no, keep remindin yourself that your too good for him, youv... (read in full...)
Really jealous and it's causing arguments, I hate myself :( Help please??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now.Im 19 and hes 21. we are so in love and trust eachother 100% i cant explain how much we really do care and love eachother. We moved in together about 4 months after we got together. it may sound fast ...
A. 11 May 2006: i know exactly wat ur goin through, i do it a lot!! keep reminding yourself that its you he wants to be with, and think about how many boy mates you have n why u speak to them and leave them messages etc and you'll realise theres nothin to worry ... (read in full...)
My friends don't really approve of my boyfriend, what should I do?
Q. i have just started going out with a lovely boy whom I like very much!he's the sweetest, nicest guy ever. BUT,we hang in different groups in school, he is kind of with the "outcasts" (not my choice of word), which I have no problem with but my f...
A. 11 May 2006: I suggest you speak to your friends about how u feel, tell them they're upsetting you and that you would like them to leave you alone. Explain that you're happy with your boyfriend and that you would be accepting if the situation was the other way ... (read in full...)
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