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writes: when i am out with a boy and he reaches over to kiss me i get very nervous incase i wont do it right and step back. why is this Reply to this Question
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reader, Anja +, writes (12 May 2006):
 Sounds like you have not had the experience in the kissing field there! Maybe you have not yet found the right man to feel comfortable kissing with.
Get to know the person first, don't be kissing for the sake of it. Just sounds to me you have yet to meet a guy who you can be honest and feel confident with. It's natural to feel nervous the first time around with someone new.
Take it steady...maybe hug first, then gently press your lips against his....and the rest will follow, don't worry about getting it perfect, everyone kisses differently, it usually takes a few times with someone new to get it right!
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reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (12 May 2006):
 Theres nothin wrong with you, its just that ur thinkin too much about how others will think about you. when youve found someone you reali like, it should come naturally, as you'll feel comfortable with them and they will understand if they know youve never kissed before. im sure you will find that confidence, but if you keep avoiding it, you will never know how good you are and u wont hav the opportunities to experiment with kissing (there are many tactics to it!) GOOD LUCK, jess xXx
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