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writes: I have been separated for 11 months. My husband got someone pregnant. He is unsure what to do. He says he has a strong connection with her. Do you have advice for me or him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): dear friend,if you and your husband havent had any kids while you both were married, i'm sure what u have with him is over. let him go...you deserve better people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006): Your husband has a big task ahead of him. He has made a child and now he has to bear the responsibilities of his behavior. You will have to tell him that every child born needs to have a father who deeply loves and commits to its mother. If he feels a connection to this woman, that connection will be deepen even more so, once this child is born. As for you, if you had heartfelt plans to reunite with your husband, your wants are now secondary to this child. It will be painful but the most gracious thing you can do now, is tell him.. goodbye and wish him well. I am sorry but the baby's needs come first. My heart goes out to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006): Girl move on. He doesnt want you anymore. Nothing is going to change if you choose to stay with him. What is done is done and its not going to go away. He says he has strong feelings for this other woman so why waste your time with him? Just keep on moving and forget about him. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
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reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (3 June 2006):
 DO NOT GET BACK TOGETHER WITH HIM!
if he has a strong connection with this woman and she is pregnant, y does he need advice?
he should stand by her n u should start moving on.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (3 June 2006):
 Stay seperated and do not be tempted back into this guy`s bed.
Advice for him is to learn about contraception and to support baby and mother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006): Your question is unclear about what you want advice on. If your asking if you should get back together with him than i would say no. He has a strong connection with this woman and that isn't something you usually get.
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