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writes: I have been talking to this girl online and i am starting to get feelings for her. We both trust each other because we talk about personal stuff and we have things in common. The thing is i want to see her and hang out with her... im 16 and she is 14 so how should i ask her if she wants to meet up without scaring her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (11 June 2006):
 Hi,
just make sure she is who she says she is. You can meet some weidos, pervs and just strange charcters online. Why don't you ask her to meet (use your imagination!) And get an adult to maybe watch from around the corner just to check you are ok. If it all goes worng, then you've got someone there to help you.
Use your imagination! Why don't you say to her, " there's this girl I met online, she's perfect in every way and I was wondering if she wanted to meet. I;m not sure if she'd want to. Do you think she would?"
That's how I got asked out once and it worked! comliment her, smooth.
Phoebe
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): Maybe You should forget her and do nothing because meeting people online it's a bad idea!
you never realy know who says the true....
I never trust in these things.It's a dificult thing.You need to look in her eyes to see what is true or not!
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reader, Smiler +, writes (3 June 2006):
 Hey there
Well sweetie where to start here, i think you should judt be as open and honest with her as you can you say your quite close already so, but to avoid the whole safety issues of net met ups and there are a few issues sweetie explain you wanna do this safely constant reassurance is the key ok trust me tell her you can meet with some friends for the first time somewhere open and very public and tell her to tell people/ parents she is meeting you stating the time and place for safety but other than that my advice to you sweetie would be just talk to her about it be as open and honest as you usually are and there should be no problems....
hope my advice helps you a little.... Good Luck! and remember if you ever need anyone to talk to or just some more advice, i'm always here for you... feel free to email me ok. Would love to hear from you again...
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, iwillhelpyouthroughit +, writes (3 June 2006):
 just tell her you'd like to hang out with her if she wanted to, i'm sure if you's are as close as you said she'll trust you and don't be worried that you'll scare her, i mean i don't think she'd talk to you if she was scared. make her feel relaxed about the situtation and why not invyt some of your friends and she can invyt some of hers it might make the biggest difference then once you've met you can arrange to go out again mayb's just the two of you's good luck!!! and just chill and don't worry!
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reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (3 June 2006):
 the fact the she is 14 would make her nervous, coz lets face it u could be a 30 yr old pervert.although she trusts u on the net meeting up is different n she may be warned against it.why dont u arrange to meet in a public place like the cinema. u could also ask if she wants to arrange a double date for the first meeting as this may put her more at ease.
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