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writes: Recently I've been having some weird dreams. I had a dream that I had slept with another person behind my boyfriends back! I know I have no control over what I dream of, but I'm still a bit bothered by this. Why on earth would I have a dream like this when I'm perfectly happy with my boyfriend. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2006): Ive been married for six years and for the past four, i've been having dreams of one of the guys from my past. This guy i dream of wasnt like an ex of mine or anything like that, it was kind of like friends with benifits and for some strange reason i have dreams of him every once and a while out of the blue. My sex life is great with my husband and it isnt like i sit there and start fantisising about men, much less that guy from my past! It just happens for some strange reason, why? ill never know. Hell i dont even run into to that guy anymore and its been years since i've seen him. i guess i'll be like you and keep on wondering. sorry i couldnt help, but i thought that it would be comforting for you to hear my situation.
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reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (7 June 2006):
 there is a theory that dreams are disguised expressions of unconsious desires and impulses, which means that you could subconsciously be thinking about a different relationship with somebody else, yet the truth is that you love your boyfriend and dont want anyone else...this means u should not be worrying about these dreams!
is your sex life with ur boyf still going strong? if not, this could explain these dreams but honestly i wouldnt worry about it. as long as u are happy with ur guy there is no reason for it to pose a threat to ur relationship so dont mention it to him and continue enjoying wat u have together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2006): I just want to tell you that this sort of thing is normal, so don't worry! It's not an omen :). I usually have dreams like this when I am sexually frustrated. Are there things you would like your boyfriend to do to you sexually that he doesn't do right now? Are you guys on the same page when it comes to how often you guys have sex (Do you want it more or less)?
If things are actually picture perfect, like I stated before, this is normal. Don't be worried or bothered by them.
Sweet Dreams
-J
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