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writes: i was having a casual relationship with a bloke it went on for a few months and then i ended it, a few months later we started texting each other again and then suddenly he stopped he didnt reply to any of my messages and i still dont know why. the problem is i was really into him, i know i didnt love him but i really fancied him and every weekend when i got drunk i always sent him a text these messages werent the most friendly messages i have ever sent and looking back now i realise how immature i was being i really want to apolgise for what i have done but to stop myself from texting him i deleted his number i dont know where he lives and none of my friends know him any ideas how i can make it up to him? any advice would be truely appreciated thanx xXx
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (8 June 2006):
 Why are you so worried that he has a bad image of you if your not bothered about getting back with him ? you dont know where he is, your friends dont know him, so why not just put it down to one of those silly things we do when we are drunk, we all do silly things like send messages we maybe shouldnt have done and probably wouldnt have done when sober, dont worry about it, you are probably not going to see him again anyway so why go to all the hassle of finding him ? Let it be, you know you have grown up now and thats it, move on and forget about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2006): i just want to add i have no interest in getting back with him its just that i have grown up and have realised how immature i was being, i just dont like the idea that he has a bad image of me, i want him to see i have changed
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reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (7 June 2006):
 i suggest checking out the places he used to hang out - u mite spy one of his friends and be able to ask them.
i think u may have encouraged his behaviour because of the text messages etc, but if all u want to do is apologise, and not expect to get back with him, keep looking. that way u will feel like a stronger person all round and he should be happy that youve made the effort to apologise for past behaviour.
i dont think u should be considering wanting him back. it seems like you may hav driven him away so why not find someone else who u are goin to bond with a lot beta? i no hes on ur mind, but occupy ur time with something n keep tellin yourself that it simply wasnt working.
good luck
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (7 June 2006):
Well if you have his full name then maybe the phonebook ? Or maybe he has an email address ? or do you know the places he used to go to ? But to be honest its gonna be hard if you dont know where he lives as there could be loads in the phonebook with the same intials! But are you sure you want to get back in contact, after he didnt reply to your texts in the begining ? Perhaps he just wasnt interested anymore ? then as you say you sent some immature messages ? do you think hes really going to want to hear you out after he had already stopped replying before you sent the silly messages ? Just that, say you find him, and apologise, how silly are you going to feel if he says he isnt interested ?? be sure you do want to find him, to save any embarassment if you do manage to track him down, and he says he just wasnt interested anymore.
Good luck.
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