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8 April 2011: This is an interesting point I've been thinking about for a while and am curious to see what anyone else has to say. It seems like more and more it is becoming socially acceptable to have children outside of marriage, even to have multiple childre...
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I think it missed her, but I am still worried that it could have gotten her pregnant.
Q. Me and my girlfriend had sex last night, we wore a condom but I decided to pull out just in case. I eventually ejaculated 5 mins later from a handjob. Most of my semen landed on me or the bed whilst my girlfriend said none of it landed on her. She ...
A. 9 April 2011: If it got in her vagina then there is a very, very, very, small chance of that happening. But remember, sperm is microscopic. It has a very long journey to go and the longest it can live in a woman's body is three days (if it doesn't die even ... (read in full...)
BF took money from daughter's room. I am not sure what to do about this relationship. Please help.
Q. here is my dilema...my boyfriend of 5 years is lazy , has lied a lot in the past, I found out last year that he got oral from another man when he was in his teens .. i have been thru a lot with this guy.. but i am the kind of person that sees the ...
A. 9 April 2011: Yes you have every right to be upset. I'm sorry, but you should break up with him. Even if it hurts him, even if it hurts you, it needs to be done. He never will change and one day he'll take it too far. You need to end it before that day comes. ... (read in full...)
Warcraft relationship. Is it just distance that keeps us apart or do I have other issues to consider?
Q. I know a lot of people would laugh but I figured this was a good place to ask about my problem. I met a guy while playing World of Warcraft about 7 months ago. We are in the same guild. We started talking, I mean REALLY started talking, and I deve...
A. 9 April 2011: I think it's great that you've found someone you have a common interest with. I've dated a lot of WoW guys, and I'm sorry but I just don't understand it. Sadly being in an abusive relationship can have a bad affect on all your future ... (read in full...)
How can I match up to all the women he's been with?
Q. I don't know how to deal with this. You see my boyfriend has had many girlfriends before me, and even though we've been together for two years it still bothers me. Knowing all the girls and guys he's been with and that he did sexual things with ...
A. 9 April 2011: That can be a rough thing to get over. I don't like it either to know that a guy has been with so many other girls. To me, giving away your body to just anyone is not ok. But then I'm not really one to talk because I have a lot of sexual expe... (read in full...)
I'm so torn. She flirts 24.7. I really care about her. Is there any way to deal with this instead of breaking up?
Q. what should i do? i have been with this girl for nearly a year, she's my first everything, and i love her so much. I honestly do care about her. she feels the same way and we always talk about how we want a future together. we never fight or ...
A. 9 April 2011: This comes down to you trusting her. You say you're positive she'd never actually cheat on you, and that's good. I have this problem a lot because almost all of my friends are guys and my boyfriends tend to get worried or jealous. You really love ... (read in full...)
Should we stop having sex or still have it occasionally? Need advice on this relationship.
Q. I need some advice about sex. Sorry for the long story. I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months (only known him about 5). We met online on a dating website and he's one of those really sweet guys that are hard to find. When we were ini...
A. 8 April 2011: @YouWish I know he's not cheating on me. Yes, I have been cheated on (a lot) and yes, I'm always the last one to find out while all my friends are talking about it behind my back, but I know that he's not. It's one of those things that probably... (read in full...)
Should I Tell Him That I'm Pregnant With His Baby?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm sorry to bother you all but I've got myself into a difficult situation. I'm 17 (18 in 2 months) and I just found out that I'm 29 weeks pregnant. I was really experiencing any symptoms which is why I never found out earlier. The ...
A. 8 April 2011: I think you should tell him. I personally would never force someone to be involved in their child's life if that wasn't their personal choice, but I would definitely let them know they have a child coming into the world. It seems like you're happy ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is lying to me about smoking
Q. My boyfriend is lying to me about smoking. The only thing I ever asked him to do for me was to quit smoking, which was back in October. He's admitted to taking a few drags from friends' cigarettes, but I've found a few packs since then. Each time ...
A. 23 December 2010: I understand how you feel. I broke up with one of my ex boyfriends because of his smoking. Like you said, the smoking didn't bother me so much as that he said he would quit and then lied to me. I didn't even ask him to quit though, he offered to ... (read in full...)
Jealous girlfriend , my fault I hit her ?
Q. My girlfriend is bi polar and jealous. She caught me with porn and got really mad about it she wol't let me have female friend and I don't care about that because I don't want her to have male friends so we made a deal no friends of oppisite sexes. ...
A. 23 December 2010: I don't want to judge you and I don't want to be mean, but you need help with your anger. If you can't handle it yourself, get help. You can't keep hitting her. I mean a hit or a punch is bad enough, but there is absolutely no reason to "beat the ... (read in full...)
My sister said she felt bad for my future children!
Q. Guys i don't know what to do. I know this will probably sound stupid but i'm really upset and confused. My sister and i got into an argument while mixing formula for our baby god-brother, who is staying with us for a little bit. She said she felt ...
A. 22 December 2010: I'm sure you'll be a great mom someday. My friends tell me that a lot too, despite the fact that I also love children and would love to have a family. People see one bad situation (or even sometimes a few) and they overreact and pass judgment over ... (read in full...)
I'm gay but desperately need to be straight
Q. I need some advice about my sexuality. I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm gay, but I desperately try to be straight. I don't have a problem with gay people and I'm not homophobic, but I was always raised to believe that men end up with women and ...
A. 22 December 2010: Thank you to everyone who has responded so far. I really do appreciate your help.
To rcn, I have never been with a woman before but I just feel like I should be. I have talked to my priest in the past and his advice to me was that "We all have... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about kisses that I want?
Q. okay i haven't had my first kiss yet im scared about it i haven't had a boy friend either and i might be bi-sexuali dont know i haven't really had a crush on a girl befor i've had an interest in one befor. im so scared about getting my first kiss ...
A. 22 December 2010: Just relax. You will definitely get kissed at some point, don't try to force it. All my friends started dating and kissing guys when they were about 12 or 13, but I didn't start till I was 16. Now most of them are single and I have an easier time ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend troubles - gay/not interested/not sexual?
Q. Is my boyfriend gay/not interested/not very sexual at all? He and I have been together for about a month and a half, but we've only made out like 1 1/2 times. We made out once on Halloween, then about 3 weeks later we left school during break and we ...
A. 22 December 2010: Not all people are outgoing with things like sex and displaying their affection. I know these days it seems like people are in relationships and having sex earlier and earlier, but that doesn't mean everyone is. I remember when I was 16 I dated a ... (read in full...)
What does it mean if I'm unable to function?
Q. I'm nearly 26 and a virgin. After losing patience with finding love, I finally worked up the courage to visit a brothel... twice. I failed both times. On the second occasion, the prostitute was trying very, very hard to get me hard and she was ...
A. 22 December 2010: It seems like you've already found the answer to your question but I just wanted to reaffirm that there's nothing wrong with you and that you'll find someone worth losing your virginity to. As a woman I think it's very sexy when a guy is still a ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay? Help me interpret the signs!
Q. Hi, I am very confused :) My boyfriend of 6 months has contradictory signs about whether he is gay or not. Well he is quite feminine and sensitive and I have accepted that about him. I have thought that this is because he grew up with women only ...
A. 22 December 2010: If he says he's not gay I think you should believe him. I know it's really easy to judge people based off of stereotypes (liking broadway, being over emotional, taking extra care in his appearance, using make up, etc.), but in the end we have to ... (read in full...)
My comatose husband may never wake up. Should I try and raise his baby alone or abort it?
Q. Hi, everybody i'm new here so here goes... about 2 months ago my husband and i got in a near fatal car accident. i am ok, just came out with a broken arm, but my husband suffered a serious concussion and he has been in a coma ever since. i'm so ...
A. 21 December 2010: Please continue with your pregnancy. I understand that your situation is difficult right now, but you never know what will happen down the line. Your husband may recover tomorrow, he may recover in a few months, but he also may never recover. But ... (read in full...)
How do I get him comfortable so he can tell me how he feels?
Q. Hi! i need some help. i am in highschool and i love my friend. we have been friends for about a year though we don't talk too much. we are both in the closest. he is gay, please just believe me when i say that hes gay. after about 4 months of knowi...
A. 21 December 2010: If he's still in the closet he might be uncomfortable admitting his feelings to you because then he would also be admitting to himself that he's gay. As long as the two of you are just flirting it can still be rationalized as just being fun between ... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonably insecure about the size of my thing?
Q. Mm, I'll just start by saying that my penis is only 4 inches long (length) and 4 inches around (girth) at the hardest point of my erections. So yes, my penis is well under the 6 inch average length and I don't know what's the average girth but I can ...
A. 21 December 2010: First off I just want to say size doesn't really matter. The only difference with size is that a guy who is small, but good in bed, will feel good; whereas a guy who is big, but has little or no skill, will feel good anyways. I'm not being nice, ... (read in full...)
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