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Do I need to worry about STDs even though we're both virgins?

Q.   I've been dating a guy for almost 13 months. I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend, but I give him blowjobs and handjobs. We're not going to have sex, because we've agreed that we're too young and not ready. We don't use condoms when I blow him, but I ...

A.   17 May 2008: std's are sexually transmitted. unless he already had an std before you or is having oral or intercorse with someone else then it shouldnt be a worry. although just to be safe you mite still want to use a condom if it makes you feel more ... (read in full...)

Used to always get 'wet' and now I'm always dry - why?

Q.   why can't i 'get wet' anymore? i used to and when i had orgasm you could definitely tell, but now, i'm always really dry. what could this be?...

A.   17 May 2008: well first off, do you have a lot of sex?... (read in full...)

Am I gay?

Q.   can somebody help me please? im a lad and i think im turning gay because my girlfriend doesnt turn me on. but my friend (boy)when i see him i want to rip his clothes of i am always having sexual dreams and thought about him can somebody give me ...

A.   17 May 2008: you might be. but your so at an age where you are trying to find yourself, so thats really soemthing your going to have to figure out on your own....... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?

Q.   Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...

A.   17 May 2008: hunny not trying to upset you, but your only 12. i promse its not love. it may feel that way but its not. my advise is stop trying to grow up so fast(thats all this is about) truat me, your gunna wish you hadnt.... these feeling will go away. i can ... (read in full...)

I hate it when he pushes my head when I'm doing oral-how do I get him to stop?

Q.   a couple days ago i gave my boyfriend the first bj i have ever given. but he kept pushing my head down. and it's getting on my nerves. what can i do to get him to stop?...

A.   17 May 2008: you should just tell him you dont like it and that it bothers you. but from my experience its not just your boyfriend that does this lol. most guys do. i dont know i think ita a control thing... just tell him to stop or he wont get no more!!! ... (read in full...)

Lost my virginity but why was there was no blood?

Q.   I'm 20 yars old. I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. first it was very dificuld and it hurt, but than it was OK and I liked it. it didn't hurt that much anymore. but . . . there was no blood! it's suppose to bleed . . . isn't it?! and ...

A.   17 May 2008: not everybody bleeds. i didnt when i lost mine. and i wasnt really sore for a few days. just that night..... (read in full...)

Should I tell my family that I am Bi?

Q.   This is quite serious and i'm desperate for help :o( I have slept with girls in the past, and i really enjoyed it, I have been attracted to girls for longer than I can remember and not thought anything of it, just thought it was hormones, in my te...

A.   17 May 2008: bottom line is "is your family still going to love you? im sure they will. youll tell them when your ready.. and youll know when that time comes.... good luckl dear..... (read in full...)

What are the rules of cheating?

Q.   i was just thinking... what are the "rules of cheating" or what would be considered cheating?...

A.   16 May 2008: first of all, if you are asking this question because you are concidering cheating (on any level no matter what it may be) then heres my advise. DONT. if you want to be with, touch with, kiss with, hold hands with, exc. with someone besides your... (read in full...)

I hate having sex. My home life is boring. Has love gone?

Q.   i have been married for 20 years. I had a fling with a married man because I was so bored of my home life. My daughter has left home 2 years ago, although my fling happened when she lived at home. I spent more of my time with my daughter as we ...

A.   13 May 2008: my parents always taught me that love was a choice. when you wake up each moring to your mate you have to choose to love them, it doenst always come naturally. there will come times when that person youve been with for years and the things that you ... (read in full...)

Why are westeners so prejudice, ignorant Bible lovers?

Q.   I grew up in one of the biggest cities in North America. I’ve accepted baseball and McDonalds, but what I can't accept are there BS " morals ". Whenever it comes to love, sex or any other issue people turn to the book of lies, distortion and gene...

A.   11 May 2008: by the way im not being controlled. christians arnt being controlled. i do control my own destany because God gives me free will but we christians say things like "guess what God did to me today" or "what God did for me today" because He has blessed ... (read in full...)

Why are westeners so prejudice, ignorant Bible lovers?

Q.   I grew up in one of the biggest cities in North America. I’ve accepted baseball and McDonalds, but what I can't accept are there BS " morals ". Whenever it comes to love, sex or any other issue people turn to the book of lies, distortion and gene...

A.   11 May 2008: by the way to awnswer your questions (only the best way i can): 1) we arnt prejudice towards Blacks and Asians? Or lesbians and gays? Or certain cultures? (not all christians anyways) i actually have many lesbian, gay, black, asian, preppy, goth... (read in full...)

Why are westeners so prejudice, ignorant Bible lovers?

Q.   I grew up in one of the biggest cities in North America. I’ve accepted baseball and McDonalds, but what I can't accept are there BS " morals ". Whenever it comes to love, sex or any other issue people turn to the book of lies, distortion and gene...

A.   11 May 2008: im sorry this is so long: let me start with hello. my name is Shekinah. (which if you dont know means: tha glory of God. it is an angels name. and i still dont understand why i was given this wonderful, such meaningful and honorable name. i use to d... (read in full...)

I wonder if I should jump ship before I get too attached, as I am skeptical about LD relations?

Q.   I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks now, and we're not serious yet, but I think we're headed in that direction. He's really starting to grow on me, and I think he's feeling the same way. But the thing is, he's going to be leaving to go to ...

A.   5 May 2008: ooo.. i happen to dissagree. i seem to be a product of long distance relationships. every guy ive ever dated has lived at least an hour away ( a big plus if it doesnt work out) and actually the guy im dating now lives an hour away and the ... (read in full...)

He is going to tell me he loves me, but I'm confused and nervous

Q.   okay so ive been dating this guy for about three months and really like him a lot. we both have had our hearts broken in the past. he handled his break by sleeping around and what not, for him its been a year and a half, im the first girl hes wanted ...

A.   4 May 2008: thank you!!!... (read in full...)

His job means we keep moving, but it's not good for my children

Q.   hello all. I need some advice on my marriage. I have been with my husband for almost 5 years, and we are very happy together, we have almost the perfect marriage. The problem is his job. He works in agriculture, which has us moving all over ...

A.   4 May 2008: first off have you considered homeschooling them,? i am actually a product of home school. well i started in a private school pre-school-4th grade moved on to public 5th-half of 10th grade and made the decision my self to try homeschooling. i ... (read in full...)

I tried to move on and then it all got messy. Was it all some kind of game for him?

Q.   I’m in a horrible dilemma, the last 12 months I’ve been trying to move on from this guy who I used to date. I’ve been feeling down and my feelings have became intense. I was contemplating weather to contact him. I did the stupidest thing to get in ...

A.   4 May 2008: okay well first off this guy oviously is not for you. he has you right where he wants you. he knows if things go wrong with him and his girl then there you are, easy rebound. he might actually really be in love with his girl but even if he isnt, you ... (read in full...)

Should I just forget about the old and embrace the new?

Q.   okay so ive dated this guy for two years but we recently had a mutal brake up cause all we do is fight. i was madly in love with him but the brake up gave me a reality check. i do still care about him. but a month after we broke up i started dating ...

A.   4 May 2008: i totally agree!!! if all you did was fight anyway then whats the point. take it from me ive been in a non-stop mosh relationship. its really anoying!! and if you werent happy with your old guy and your new guy makes you happy then you should f... (read in full...)

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