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I hate it when he pushes my head when I'm doing oral-how do I get him to stop?

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Question - (17 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *iva girl writes:

a couple days ago i gave my boyfriend the first bj i have ever given. but he kept pushing my head down. and it's getting on my nerves. what can i do to get him to stop?

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A female reader, all i need United States +, writes (17 May 2008):

you should just tell him you dont like it and that it bothers you. but from my experience its not just your boyfriend that does this lol. most guys do. i dont know i think ita a control thing...

just tell him to stop or he wont get no more!!! lol

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2008):

Tell him to stop. You have to have rules about what you like and what you don't like.

I told my husband he should never push my head down because if he does, it's likely to make me vomit all over him.

He stopped after that.

Your boyfriend will want to carry on getting oral sex so should be happy to stick to your rules if it means you keep giving.

The other option you have is to tie his hands to the bed post!

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008):

Tell him he's won't get any more oral from you unless and until he smartens the hell up and stops acting like such a pig. And mean it.

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