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Should I just forget about the old and embrace the new?

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Question - (2 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay so ive dated this guy for two years but we recently had a mutal brake up cause all we do is fight. i was madly in love with him but the brake up gave me a reality check. i do still care about him. but a month after we broke up i started dating a new guy who i realy like a lot and love spending time with. weve been dating now for a little more than three months and i think i might be falling in love with him. im terrified to cause i always get hurt but i was wondering is it to soon to love sombody new? my second question is: i still care about my old man. i know hes taking my new relationship really hard and i so dont want to hurt him. i know i still care for him felings do go away over night. should i just forget about the old and embrace the new?

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A female reader, all i need United States +, writes (4 May 2008):

i totally agree!!!

if all you did was fight anyway then whats the point. take it from me ive been in a non-stop mosh relationship. its really anoying!! and if you werent happy with your old guy and your new guy makes you happy then you should forget the old and embrace the new...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008):

Hi Hunny

If you were unhappy with all the fighting in you previous relationship and are now happy just go with it..Its a scarey thing falling inlove sweetheart it kinda creaps up on ya eh! Well my advice is take it slow and enjoy this new relationship, You cant help hurting peoples feelings sometimes and your ex will hurt but it was a mutual breakup hunny and there is no fun in argueing 24/7 it gets you no were really just straight back at square one. I always prefere to spend time alone if I feel there may be an argument and think and hopefully that way words are not said to hurt...Not always easy though...You do what feels right in your heart love...TAKE CARE AND GOODLUCK WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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