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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:why can't i 'get wet' anymore? i used to and when i had orgasm you could definitely tell, but now, i'm always really dry. what could this be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): i have had the same problem since i was around 23. Right after my sons birth. That was 10 years ago. I have seen 3 doctors and they all tell me the same thing "it just happens sometimes" i used to get real wet and now nothing. No matter how turned on i am. It is so embarrasing. But i guess something we deal with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Are you on the pill? When i took the pill a few years ago it didn't have any side effects, then the second time i took it it totally made me dry up and i'm REALLY wet normally (thankfully back ot normal now too).
So if you're on the pill, this could be why...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice. i still feel the same as always but i'm not sure my body does. me & my fiancee have sex at least 5-6 times a week and we have to use lube every time. i thought it might be just w/him but i masturbate and it's the same. i'm worried.
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (17 May 2008):
Are you sure you are still getting aroused as much as you used to? Take time on foreplay, dont rush in, this should help you become more 'lubricated.'
Often people become drier with age, but at your age this isnt an issue.
If you still feel as hot as before than the reason must be purely physiological. Go and see a doctor and they can help you find out why.
In the mean time use a good lubricant.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): Do you feel maybe like you're rushing the process a bit to get to the orgasm? Work up to it more, read some erotic fiction before you start even trying to orgasm and touch yourself in different places that feel good. I think you just need to get warmed up better.
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reader, all i need +, writes (17 May 2008):
well first off, do you have a lot of sex?
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