I like her but I'm not head over heels for her, should I stay with her or get out now?
Q. well this girl that i am dating i like her. but i am not head over heels for her. She is sweet and quiet and pure. a girl that i really would want. but the thing is she is just cute. i don't find her greatly attractive. but i like cuddling with her ...
A. 15 March 2010: Well, I'm assuming you haven't been together for long? In this case, if you are already feeling this way about her it's not fair to either of you for you to stay when you feel such a way. It's a part of life, we learn something new about ourselves ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I'm worried!
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me along time ago with the guy she lost her virginity. No sex, they just kissed then she walked away. The same thing happened at the beginning of our relationship. She was quite the party animal and used to drink a lot. We ...
A. 14 August 2009: Unfortunately as serious of a relationship you may feel you are in when both individuals in the relationship are not committed equally to it, it's just a mere fabrication of a "serious" relationship in which many problems occur.
You love her, but ... (read in full...)
She said she wants to take a break but to continue hanging out together!! This is all so confusing!
Q. hey everybody well today i was talking to my girlfriend and out of nowhere she tells me that she would rather take some time off from being with me because she wants to make sure that im the one she wants to spend the rest of her life with. I told ...
A. 21 May 2009: You may have to face the reality of her request.
This could be her way of scouting out other possible prospects without feeling bad for what it is she is doing.... OR she could just be afraid of commitment.
Either way, I think its unfair of he... (read in full...)
I told her secrets to another and now she doesn't trust me!
Q. about 4-5 months ago I told one of my girlfriends secrets to a friend of mine. She found out about it by reading one of my IM chats with that friend, she was furious about it. But now 4 months later she is still angry about it, she doesnt trust...
A. 21 May 2009: First of all, I think its important to understand the value of trust in a relationship.
You betrayed her by telling her secrets, so her initial anger is acceptable. However, its been 4 months and she forgave you... so now 4 months later, she is s... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex-gf, but she says she's in love with another guy, should I believe her?
Q. Last Week I had sex with my now ex-gf. it's been a month since she broke up, because she told me she didnt love me, but she had feelings for another guy. She gets mad when I tell her she doesn't love this dude even though she slept with me and she's ...
A. 21 May 2009: Well, for one, i feel that as much as you love and care for her, you shouldn't have slept with her after the relationship was over. You may want her back, but by giving into the temptation of a sexual feeling towards her, you are not solving ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is being really distant
Q. She says she's going through a stressful time at the moment with her parents and work. i know it sounds silly but shes stopped putting kisses at the end of her txts and everytime I talk to her it feels like she doesn't want to be talking. I'm scared ...
A. 24 March 2009: Its unfortunate, but things like this happen, stress is really hard to handle for some people. Sometimes it affects everything day to day for someone. Those little things she is forgetting to do could be just a sign that she is more stressed than ... (read in full...)
I really want to have a baby with my BF but my family will freak out.
Q. me and my boyfriend have only had sex once. And yes, we had protection he had already came in the condom and it broke, i had to have emergency contraception aka the plan b pill but i want a baby soooo bad. im only 13 tho... i will be 14 in june, i ...
A. 23 January 2009: Darling, you are far to young to have a child. It may seem like a really wonderful part of life you may want to take part it, but I don't think a 13 year old girl can actually make the decision.
Most girls your age that have babies, have them as a... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to be pressured
Q. Ok so bascially we started to go out about 2 months ago the first couple weeks were great but then she started to act weird, and this was because she felt we rushed into are realtionship, she said shes not over her ex ( of 3 years) they broke up in ...
A. 14 January 2009: She is confused, and It's unfortunate to say this, but when a woman leaves the security of a long relationship a million crushed come about; it's almost like every man that approaches her and gives her the attention she craves, she is practically ... (read in full...)
My ex cheated with my best friend and now wants me back
Q. i was in a relationship with Eric for almost half a year. After we broke up i found out that he went out with my best friend and they chose to keep this from me until i found out they went out for about a month or two. He keeps saying how he really ...
A. 12 January 2009: Seems like Eric is your typical male, wanting what he can't have.
I think only you can decide for yourself what you want to do, no one else can decide this.....
Who is to say he wont pull the same stunt on you? He was right, he doesn't deserve ... (read in full...)
Going to a party to snog, don't know how!
Q. im going to my boyfriends party soon and my other 2 friends are going to snog and i havent done this before so i dont know how to do it i want to do it, but i dont want to mess it up and get taken the mick out of. i dont know what to do. ...
A. 12 January 2009: Personally, I don't think asking others for advice on how to do it is going to help.... because if you do that, then all you are going to think about is if you are doing it right per guidelines of what others have told you.
A passionate, lusty ki... (read in full...)
He wants a threesome with a chick that has big boobs!
Q. So, my boyfriend of about two months has created a bit of tension in our relationship.... Recently our relationship was taken to a physical level and I couldn't have been more happier, however, along with sexual activity comes the sexual talks; We...
A. 12 January 2009: Thanks to everyone!... (read in full...)
He wants a threesome with a chick that has big boobs!
Q. So, my boyfriend of about two months has created a bit of tension in our relationship.... Recently our relationship was taken to a physical level and I couldn't have been more happier, however, along with sexual activity comes the sexual talks; We...
A. 6 January 2009: Its not that shes an actual person hes prospecting to have a threesome with, shes just a model, which i is fine, however I guess I feel like our relationship hasn't gone to that extent of a comfort level, and it makes me feel a little insecure about ... (read in full...)
Do I tell her that I am a lesbian?
Q. We are best friends, and I have pretty much fallen head over for her (and have liked her for like the last 3 years...) She is ridiculously cuddly with me, we act like a couple in many ways already. She has no idea that I am a lesbian, I was ...
A. 5 January 2009: I was in a similar situation that you are in now, however it was my best friend that was a closet lesbian, and I had no idea.
We were always together, slept in the same bed, cuddled, got dressed in front of each other, took showers together, you ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my cousin, he's getting engaged
Q. ok heres my problem i am 16 and in love with a guy but not just any guy my 18 year old cousin now we havent seen each other in 4 years but the last time we saw each other we mad love weve made love before and its all ways been special to me but i ...
A. 5 January 2009: One cannot chose who they love, it just happens. For you my dear, you have fallen for your first cousin and although something like that is highly frowned upon where I am from, I commend you for having the courage and strength to put fourth such an ... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of talking to guys - how do I start interesting conversations?
Q. I really need a kick start here in terms of my non-existant social life. Basically... I have always been shy, its just in my nature, but have made a few good, close friends. But now we're at the stage where everyone wants to go out and party. I...
A. 2 January 2009: This is the best time for you to get to know yourself! Yes, you may feel you are a little socially challenged, which is fine and it can be used to your advantage.
I was in your same situation once upon a time and now its a piece of cake! The most... (read in full...)
Should it be allowed for teacher's to date students?
Q. I've been searching google and stuff, about the laws and reasons of teacher's not being able to date students. I was just wondering what people's views on the law was.... Because, I understand that teacher's are in high authority position and in ...
A. 2 January 2009: It is unfortunate for there to be certain rules and regulations against whom you can love, however, it is known that one may not chose to control their feelings; they just happen.
It is not just school teachers that cannot date their students... (read in full...)
I'm a younger girl who is constantly attracted to older men.
Q. So, I've always found older guys more interesting than the ones my own age. I'm 16, and I always seem to find myself looking and thinking about 20-40 year olds. I find myself being, well, more myself around older guys than the ones my age. I was ...
A. 2 January 2009: Well, let me start off by saying, it's perfectly normal to feel this way. In my opinion age is just a number, but to such an extreme there are certain altercations where something like that could and should not be okay.
When I was 16 years ol... (read in full...)
Candy cane fun and worries.
Q. Ok I have this friend. She wanted to play a harmless joke on some of the teachers at my school. So before christmas break she left different male teachers candy canes in their lockers asking were they naughty or nice? It was funny at first but now ...
A. 31 December 2008: I think its important to know that you and her are your own people. She wanted to play the joke, not you and if she does not feel bad for what she has done, then you most certainly should not. Of course, you could frown upon her immaturity and talk ... (read in full...)
Finding it difficult to trust my wife....
Q. im finding it realy hard to trust my wife ive bin wit her 7 years at 12 mmonth we went out and i caught her talking to another lad i think she kissed him but cant remeber for certain then at 15 month we had a break in our relationship she went out ...
A. 30 December 2008: I think in marriage its important to have trust and faith, well I also think this goes for any relationship. You love her, and she loves you, that's important to remember.
I think that unless she did something to make you not trust her at some poi... (read in full...)
This guy keeps giving me mixed signals!
Q. im confused? a few months ago I was having funny broody feelings you know the feelings a women gets when ever she sees a baby.my boyfriend picked up on this and made it clear that he does not want a child. but last week when we were out shopping, he ...
A. 30 December 2008: Sounds like a pretty sticky situation, In my opinion, guys don't know what they want. So, maybe his initial reaction wasn't something you wanted and he sensed that, so to make the situation easier he felt that maybe he should break the ice by trying ... (read in full...)
14 and worried about getting pregnant!
Q. hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...
A. 30 December 2008: Well, I believe it is perfectly normal for a young girl to be intrigued by the thought of sex. However, as intrigued and intertwined as you may be about having sex with your boyfriend, it can be a pretty big deal. I lost my virginity when I was 16 ... (read in full...)
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