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writes:She says she's going through a stressful time at the moment with her parents and work. i know it sounds silly but shes stopped putting kisses at the end of her txts and everytime I talk to her it feels like she doesn't want to be talking. I'm scared that she's thinking of leaving me even though she says its not me. I just want to know how to handle the situation because i start feeling really upset whenever i get a heart less message from her. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Guitarist +, writes (26 March 2009):
Guitarist is verified as being by the original poster of the question i've found a cure..... alcohol lol.
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reader, Abrasive_Reality  +, writes (24 March 2009):
Its unfortunate, but things like this happen, stress is really hard to handle for some people. Sometimes it affects everything day to day for someone. Those little things she is forgetting to do could be just a sign that she is more stressed than usual and feels maybe a little low.
Naturally you are going to be upset and maybe think that you are losing her, however, communication is key, so maybe try taking her out somewhere away from all the chaos and just let her talk to you. It is really hard for a girl to find a guy she can confide in and feel comfortable about it.
I think first and foremost you just need to make sure she knows how much you care for her, also I really think you should ask her and tell her everything you have just said. She might freak at first because she is stressed, but just chill, relax, and try to be understanding. Unless it's just way too much to handle.
Sometimes the most reassuring thing is just knowing that there is someone there that cares for you.... and maybe you think you are showing her that, but it could be that she just doesn't see it the way you think she is. She could just be blind sighted by the few issues that are bothering you. If she is really worth it though, you'll really put some extra effort in comforting her....
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (23 March 2009):
 talk to her-COMMUNICATION- tell her how it makes you feel and she'll understand
and you've gotta let her know that you're there for to help her go through whatever she's going through right now..
goood luck
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