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Archived questions from: August, 2017 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I move on and trust him? Or is he not trust worthy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2670 days ago

31 August 2017 (F) - I have a big trust issue regarding my boyfriend and his ex. When my boyfriend and I first dated, he broke up with his ex to be with me, but he never told her about me because she has a really bad temper and she was still trying to get back with him. ...

Is my wife sleeping elsewhere?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2673 days ago

29 August 2017 (M) - I am a married man who was in a monogamous relationship with my wife for seven years. I was a virgin before marriage. My wife was the first and only sexual partner. I went to a massage parlour in an inebriated condition while on a business trip to a ...

Break-up, Make-Up Cycle and After a Loving Weekend, He Hasn't Called. Why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2678 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - I recently left my boyfriend two weeks ago, and now we aren't talking. My purpose in leaving wasn't necessarily to break up,but because I wasn't going to tolerate the verbal and emotional abuse. He can be extremely controlling and gonon tirades. ...

Married 11 years and my husband is now wanting details of my sexual life before him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2677 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - Hello i'm a 37 yo woman and me and my husbant are together now for 11 years. Everything started when i met him 18 years ago and i fell in love with his misterious eyes. We became friends and eventually a few years later i got my nerves together and ...

I want my LDR boyfriend to tell his parents about me before we go any further.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2678 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - So I'm in this DLR with a guy I've known about 7 months. When he was last up, things got heated and we both pleased each other using our hands which was fine. I'm a virgin and he knows this. He also knows he's the first guy I've really done anyt...

Boyfriend dumped me but when I date someone new he wants me back again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2678 days ago

26 August 2017 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a month but I've been starting to have dreams about my ex who I dated for a year and a half, he was a guy i could never forget but he dumped me but he keeps trying to get back together all the time and when I'm with ...

Password to his personal account. Is it okay to share or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2673 days ago

24 August 2017 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 years. In the beginning of our relationship he broke trust a few times, nothing major but enough for me to lose some. The Main reason was about his ex. He got upset that I had my ex phone number still stored in ...

Boyfriend's friend comes over when I'm not there, now they slept in the same bed. What is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2682 days ago

23 August 2017 (F) - when I first met my bf he had this girl that was his friend but they also hooked up a lot. And she wanted to have a relationship with him. But he didn't want to be in a relationship. She found a bf. And after a few months me and my bf started ...

I'm ready to leave, but how do I take my dignity with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2683 days ago

22 August 2017 (F) - Ive been seeing a 34 year old guy for two full months now. He treats me well, takes me out to nice places well until i saw him texting other girls on social me. I caught him once flirting with girls the one time we went shopping together. I told him ...

My girlfriend is waiting after a fight for me to says its all my fault. I'm not going to do that again.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2691 days ago

15 August 2017 (F) - Hey all, My partner of five years and I had a fight two days ago and we haven't spoken since and I miss her a lot. Usually I am always the one that goes running back and gets us to make up but I'm just tired of her never making that effort. ...

Should I invest in this relationship when I'm not completely trusted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

14 August 2017 (M) - Hi, I'm in a relationship for ~ 2 and a half years. She means a lot to me, and I to her (or so she leads me to believe). We get on very well, I enjoy and feel very much at ease with her and all that good stuff. However, I do not feel very tr...

My best friend's boyfriend tells me he loves me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

12 August 2017 (F) - So my best friend's boyfriend likes me and her and I like him as well. I feel horrible for liking him even though I liked him before they started going out. He says we should just wait even though he keeps telling me he loves me. I don't know what ...

I'm still friends with an ex and my new girlfriend gets jealous!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

12 August 2017 (M) - I've been with my new girlfriend for six month's, my ex am still friends with,she babysits my granddaughter, if she needs help I help her like today, I have a pickup, she bought a big snowblower, so I pick it up for her, I help other friends too, my ...

I am trying to get over her betrayal so why is she driving past my house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2696 days ago

9 August 2017 (F) - Hi aunties, My long term partner left me 18 months ago for another man who she is still with. As far as I was concerned the relationship is over and there is no need to stay in touch. Every few months though she makes an effort to get in contact w...

My boyfriend lied about his ongoing involvment with his ex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2697 days ago

9 August 2017 (F) - Hi, When i met my partner he was still having his ex round his house watching films, going out, and going on holiday, all of this he lied about. We split up a year later and he was trying to find a house near his ex and he contacted her stra...

Is it strange to be 'vetted' by your partners family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2696 days ago

8 August 2017 (M) - Does anyone else think this is a little odd, basically I am in a new relationship with a lovely woman and she has told me that a certain person that she knows (I don't know if it is a family member or friend) has 'vetted' me to make sure I am who I ...

I ended the affair but he keeps contacting me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2697 days ago

8 August 2017 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for over 5 years....he said he's in a sexless marriage and his wife doesn't show him any affection....he can't leave her yet as he feels he would be abandoning his kids even though they are in their late ...

What makes a person act like my ex did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

8 August 2017 (F) - I was dating a guy for about two years. Around April of 2017 he breaks off the relationship. I was being needy and angry during that time because I was in my senior year of college and it was finals. And my father had stage four cancer he got really ...

I can't handle my husband lying!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

7 August 2017 (F) - Recently my husband hasn't shown any interest in sex at all. He hasn't always been one of those men who want it all the time but sometimes it can be 2 weeks before he even shows the least bit of interest. I thought it was me, I have put weight on ...

He lied about getting back with his ex wife several years ago.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

6 August 2017 (?) - Hi, advice really needed.. I have been with someone three months and we really get on well majority of the time but there is one thing. He told me that he got divorced in 2011 and as i am on his Facebook i can see that to be true. However i had a ...

My wife is a masseuse but I'm not sure of her "exchange network". Should I hack into her account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2698 days ago

5 August 2017 (M) - After i had some business problems my wife decided to qualify as a masseuse and try and bring in an income. That was 4 years ago.After a year of working in a Spa she decided to work from home. She said a lot of her regulars had said they would co...

My boyfried wont communicate!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

5 August 2017 (F) - My bf and I took a long break but decided to try it again in Dec.My issue is he lives and works 2 hrs away. I haven't seen him in 3 months.I told him I need some form of communication (text,call,video chat)atleast once a day.Not for hrs at a time ...

My boyfriends suggestions are illogical and dangerous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

4 August 2017 (F) - I had to travel for good to find a better life but he convinced me to comeback and live as a real couple with him. Back then our relationship has been starting we shortly met, no details , no long conversations, the looks and decent shy approach ...

I need to rephraze the question to my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

4 August 2017 (F) - Me and my ex got back in contact September last year we split as he started too work away more then me finding out he met someone else and had a kid with her. Long story cut short he has split with this girl and we have started hitting things o...

How do I deal with my husband's flirting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2702 days ago

4 August 2017 (F) - My next door neighbour's daughter, who is in her forties, constantly flirts with my husband. He flirts back but then denies he's done anything wrong. I have approached her and asked what she thinks she's playing at. She just laughed. It upsets me...

Colleague keeps rejecting friendly advances

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2699 days ago

3 August 2017 (F) - Do I keep trying to talk to this moody younger work colleague? She's 25 and until 7 weeks ago would always say hi and make occasional small talk (she does chat a lot to her buddies,I'm not a buddy) She injured her back, was off work a few...

I've told him how I feel but he says I am overthinking!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2705 days ago

1 August 2017 (F) - Hello, I have been seeing a guy since April. I met him at university but now I have finished, I have moved back home, meaning we live 2 hours away from each other. I also went travelling for two months after seeing him for 2 months. We still...