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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, When i met my partner he was still having his ex round his house watching films, going out, and going on holiday, all of this he lied about.We split up a year later and he was trying to find a house near his ex and he contacted her straight a away. I took him back then we split up again because of trust issues and again he went back to his ex he kept it a secret/lied for 9 months about it, until she sent me photos of him there. He said he did it for me because his ex was meddling in the relationship from day one, but she knew things about my family that nobody knew apart from him. Advice please??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2017): Hi Anonymous,
Do you mind defining the relationship between him and his ex? Do they have children together? Are they part of the same social organization? Are they intimate or is it platonic?
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reader, Billy Bathgate  +, writes (9 August 2017):
Stop seeing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2017): So...what's the problem? What are you trying to hold onto him for?
File this under "unnecessary drama" and move on.
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reader, N91 +, writes (9 August 2017):
 Does this really need advice?
Surely you can see that he is most definitely cheating on you. Block, delete, move on. Simple.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 August 2017):
 Sounds like you dodged a bullet and that you OUGHT to cut him out of your life 100%.
Block his number, stop talking to him. Like Auntie BimBim said, if he shows up, don't let him in or talk to him.
He is obviously NOT over his ex and NOT ready to date someone else.
As for the excuse that he did it for you? Wait, what? That sounds like the dumbest excuse I have ever heard.
Move on, OP there is nothing for you here other than a toxic relationship.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (9 August 2017):
 What a load of old codswollop!
If you continue to try and have a relationship with this man his ex is also going to be part of it. He has proven himself to be a liar and untrustworthy. Is that really what you want?
My advise is to cut him loose, block his number, don't let him in your house, ignore all attempts to contact you.
He is no worthy of another 5 minutes of you time or thoughts.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (9 August 2017):
What a load of old codswollop!
If you continue to try and have a relationship with this man his ex is also going to be part of it. He has proven himself to be a liar and untrustworthy. Is that really what you want?
My advise is to cut him loose, block his number, don't let him in your house, ignore all attempts to contact you.
He is no worthy of another 5 minutes of you time or thoughts,
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