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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Do I keep talking to her even though she doesn't deserve it whatsoever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - My ex and I were together for about 2 years, we were very much in love, we were both each others first true love, and everything was great up until a couple months before it ended. i pretty much made her the center of my life. we did everything ...

Can I ever trust my wife again or is she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

5 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid. This is difficult for me to talk about. For the last 3-4 years my wife became very distant and independant. She was also quite secretive about how much she earned or where she was going. Basically I could never take an interest in her....

I thought I knew my husband..and then I found the receipt for a strip bar

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I need some relationship advice. I just found out my husband has been frequenting strip bars and whore houses. I found out about one through a receipt he mistakingly left laying out and confronted him. He told me that he went there to ge...

Did this guy really get scared or was I lied to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I am so hurt and need some advice. There is a man i went to high school with and we recently went out a few times. Everything was so perfect.He led me to believe that we had something special and that he would only being seeing me. I thought ...

What's wrong? I miss our sex life so much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - i have two kids,a four yr old and a 7 month old child. my boyfriend never wanted to have sex as soon as i got pregnant cause he said it isn't right for the baby and i agreed.Now (7 months after my baby is born) we still dont have sex as he says its ...

He keeps promising to change but then goes back to not trusting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - I will try to keep this brief. I have been with this guy for almost 8 months. Things are either better than I ever imagined a relationship to be or I feel worse than I have ever felt in my Life. He went through a bout of depression a few...

How can I get through a day without worrying about his cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

5 January 2009 (?) - how can i get through a day without imangining my partner cheating on me, why can i not get through a day without checking his phone. why do i assume that he will at some point cheat on me and why do i think that he will cheat ion me?...

Why does he mention about his exes? Could I just be his rebound girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - So, I met this guy online and we live in different states, we've been talking on the phone for about 6 months and he says he really likes me, and I really like him too, sometimes we get into arguments about little stuff, then usually i would just ...

I'm scared I'll do something stupid like make a pass at him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - Hello I am a married woman, I have a wonderful husband who loves me to bits. Unfortunately he has a low sexual libido ( he is 47) and the spark seems to have gone from our relationship. I have tried numerous ways to arouse his interest but very...

First time sex worries, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - hi i am 16 years old an i have a boyfriend who is 17 we been going out for five months an i love him alot an he says he does to we are both virgins we see each other everyday and we are so close we makeout alot also an we get turn on real quick but ...

How do I earn trust back so we can get our relationship back to how it was?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

5 January 2009 (F) - i recently cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months and he broke up with me 3 times in 1 day because he was so mad,but thats not my problem because we got back together.my problem happens to be that now that we are back together i still feel that he is ...