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*s.houston
writes:i recently cheated on my boyfriend of 3 months and he broke up with me 3 times in 1 day because he was so mad,but thats not my problem because we got back together.my problem happens to be that now that we are back together i still feel that he is still a little upset with me and he told me even though we are back together he doesnt trust me,and i need to know how to earn his trust back and get our relationship back to how it was!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): I'm in the exact situation right now, except I didn't cheat. He just thinks I did but honestly just open up to him, be more honest, tell him every single little detail. Be forward and transparent. Truly apologize. Stay by his side when he needs you the most but just remember it's going to take TIME and CONSISTENCY! okay, you can get through it.
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reader, Rhandy  +, writes (5 January 2009):
 We have similar situation but i think the best thing to do is to ask for forgiveness and let him feel that u are sincere. Goodluck
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (5 January 2009):
 Three months into the relationship and you've cheated on your boyfriend? Wow!!
Are you ready to be in a relationship?
Some people say they can trust their spouse after a long period of time went by of cheating however, I gurantee you, they think about it everyday wondering if they are.
Unless, someone proves me wrong, once a cheater, always a cheater.
You've got a lot of work to do!!
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (5 January 2009):
it will take time for him to trust you again
make sure he knows where you are everytime and with whom,always answer your phone so he doesn't have to wonder why you are not answering.
if you have guy friends make sure he knows you are just friends and nothing more
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): you aren't going to get your relationship back to how it was unless your willing to put effort into it. The fact that he's giving you a second chance at all is amazing.
My ex cheated on me and it took almost a year and a half to get 'over' it. If you truly want to be back with him be ready for some serious work. And please please please don't get back with him if you can't keep yourself from cheating again. It's so difficult to get over even just once.
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