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Archived questions from: 3 August, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why is my cousin's wife so angry with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Ok so I haven't talked to my ex for a few years now because he is a jerk, I used to be good friends with my cousins wife or at least though we were, and recently she was talking to my parents saying how she's glad that I don't talk to my ex anymore ...

I'm worried my ex will show or mention the pictures I sent him! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Okay so this has got me climbing the walls. I sent pics to my ex bf of me in my bra and now im freaking out cause im afraid he's showed to somebody cause he's an idiot now i realize it duh too late. either way im freaking out and i did this almost a...

I want to remain friends with my ex but I think he still wants to be with me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Dear All I split with my ex nearly a month ago now after 18 mths together. It was a mutual agreement basically because I felt it wasn't going anywhere with him having a lot of baggage. We have said we would stay in touch and remain friends but now ...

How do I tell her that she must move on if she claims he is the love of her life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - My Cousin's fiance left her one day without telling her he was going for good, he told he was going to another city for a job interview. After various excuses and him eventually not coming back home she realised he had left her. Her mom had just ...

Ex BF at the same party, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - my stepdad owns a construction company and he had this guy named.."jack" that worked for him. hes 9 years older than me. i met him when i was 15 and he was 24 i think. anyways it was obvious i had a crush on him. everyone knew. i would doodle in my ...

What did I do to deserve all this pain and suffering? I don't know how to move on and start over.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5513 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - About a year a go i had to break up with my boyfriend because he treated me wrong. I'm 15 and we were together for 2 years. He was 16 when we first got together. For the first year it went perfect, We spent his birthday, My birthday and chr...

Should I give him a second chance or leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Should I give him a second chance? I've been with my boyfriend for two years. I really do love him. But recently he has been always down in the dumps, alomost depressed i think, and a little emotionally abusive towards me. Even though I know ...

Is this him getting back at me for ignoring him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - About two weeks ago, things ended with the guy I was seeing for two months. THings were going great until he told me he started talking to his ex. He felt so guilty he couldn't even tell me over the phone what was wrong- he had to text me. I was so ...

It daunts me that I may be in competition with a woman I know nothing about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Hi I've been seeing a guy for almost 5 months now. When we met he said he wanted to take things slow and that was fine, i'm at uni and pretty busy most of the time so it was something I was willing to try. Everything had been going great betw...

I want him to leave me alone and respect my privacy without feeling that I hate him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I broke-up with my ex two years ago. Two months ago I decided to return all of his things through a third party. I waited that long because I didn't want to talk to him or see him. I returned his things because I'm a christian and I believe keeping ...

Is it right to still be hurting after we broke up 8 months ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Eight months ago, I became single. My ex (first love) of exactly two years and one day had emotionally abused me and then cheated on me for who knows how long. I was able to build an iron-wall around my heart afterward. Nobody can get in. So why is ...

Should I continue to keep in touch with my ex and ruin my chance with this other guy, or cut contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - 0k.. i went with this boy named Lamont and he lived right down the street from me and we rode the same bus to school and i used to go to his house after school and we went together for like 2 months he meet my mom and she liked him.. When we b...

I slept with my ex's friend... and now I think my ex wants to get back with me! Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship and everything was great we were in love then he got scared and dumped me ,then wanted me back then dumped me again (long story cut short) ..........months went by i had a little contact which was all saying the ...

He's having major troubles moving on from his ex. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - So I've been dating this guy for about a year now. We have a great relationship. We travel together, care for each other, everything seems fine, but underneath there is something haunting me. He is much older than me. I'm a 20 year old guy, and he ...

Should I let her past relationship with her cousin affect ours?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - hi, i been in a relationship for six months with a girl who i really care about, infact Im even thinking of marriage. Shes 38 years old and Im 37. The only thing that bugs me is her past relatinships she had about 7 bad relationships but most of all ...

Should I even consider getting back with my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up on very bad terms a few months ago after I found out that she had been lying too me about her ex-boyfriend. She had told me that he was begging for her back and that she just hung up when he rung her/contacted her. ...