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writes:my stepdad owns a construction company and he had this guy named.."jack" that worked for him. hes 9 years older than me. i met him when i was 15 and he was 24 i think. anyways it was obvious i had a crush on him. everyone knew. i would doodle in my notebooks and everything. but he didnt give me the time of day. after like 5 years of this crush,i had a bf for a few years and he also had a gf, we were just hanging out in the garage and one thing led to another and we were making plans for a "meeting". yes i know cheating is wrong but oh my gosh if you only knew how long a 5 year crush is....well we had like a secret thing for a few months and eventually my bf found out and obviously the affair was over and he took me back. well heres the question, theres this party on saturday and i think he might be there. do you think he still thinks about me? weve only seen eachother a handful of times in the last 18 months. is it going to be weird? should i even go? if i do go should i talk to him? will he talk to me? should i ignore him? what do i do???
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reader, little_miss_liz +, writes (5 August 2009):
you should definatly go to the party, of course, and if it feels wierd seeing him, try to ignore it, it will only feel wierd if you let it, i have many friends that i have dated or hooked up with, and we are still thisclose. So if it feels wierd, its only because you let it feel wierd. Besides, ou only said that he might be there, so mabey he wont, and if you dont go, you may miss a great party!
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