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writes:About two weeks ago, things ended with the guy I was seeing for two months. THings were going great until he told me he started talking to his ex. He felt so guilty he couldn't even tell me over the phone what was wrong- he had to text me. I was so shocked I didn't say anything. I just left it as it was. About a week ago, he deleted me as one of his facebook friends! I was shocked because he's a huge facebook kinda guy. I thought maybe he's trying to get over me so he deleted me (he would always look on facebook) or he told his ex about me and she told him to delete me. But lastly (and I think this is the real reason) he wants to come out on top and try to get to me. I feel like its his way of punishing me for not talking to him.I hate this tension that exists. I know I'll run into him at some point this summer because we have mutual friends. I don't really know what to do. Any suggestions?
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reader, noonespecial2  +, writes (7 August 2009):
Hi there,
I wouldn't react to anything he does. He sounds like he is playing games with you and if you take the bait you could end up more hurt.
Like you said, he could have taken you off facebook because he is back with his ex and she asked him to. It may be that he's just not into you that much anymore, or as you suspect, he may be trying to punish you for not talking to him. It's hard to know.
Whatever you do, make sure you protect yourself as he sounds a bit wishy washy and may create some drama for you.
The other thing is, if you really wanted to know what's going on, you could ask him, either by text or email and that way you'll have a better idea.
Good luck
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