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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My friend told me it's best to lose my virginity myself and not let my boyfriend do it....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - If been with my boyfriend for more that one year and i want to have sex with him (im a virgin)...so I told a friend about it and she told me that it was better that i would lose it with myself so he will not see the blood, and i wouldnt feel the ...

Are we dating if he hasn't come right out and said that? I met him online.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - ok i met a guy on a dating site we when out like three times we kiss on the third day. then one nite him ant i we whent out with my friends and one of my girl friend liked him.so one nite that i whent to her house i left my cell phone and she got ...

Is it his behavior or am I noticing things that aren't really there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I recently auditioned for a show and got in and I went to a rehearsal and we had to go round the room and meet people we haven't spoken to before and find out what part they were in the show and a bit about themselves... a get to know you sess...

Flirted with a boy while on holiday, I have the chance to see him again, this is confusing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I'm quite confused at the moment. I went on holiday recently with some other families and met this boy while I was there he is abit older than me but i really felt something was there. Nothing actually happened but there was abit of flirting and ...

I feel like I'm close to losing everything I held dear, my nan dies 3 years ago and I've been dealing with extreme depression since, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - i reli need help. everythings going wrong for me at the minute, iv suffered with extreme depression for the last 2 months and although i thought it may be getting better and i may be getting bak to normal with the support of my partner, iv reverted ...

He complimented me on my appearance, is he playing mind games and how can I react? Ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and I've had a huge crush on this guy who went to my school, only thing is he's 19. He left a year ago, went on a gap year, we started messaging again the past few months...he must have found out I liked him. you might recognize this ...

Why wont my dad listen to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

15 September 2008 (?) - My dad broke his finger...weeks ago. Its still broken, but he wont see anyone about it. Why? He says not much can be done, but i keep telling him he needs to do something about it....still wont, Why?...

I found that he was asking a lot of girls for pictures, to go on cam, meet up for sex... I don't want to break up, I want to get this sorted out, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Anyway starting right from the start was ages ago, in April I think when we were in the park and we were stealing each others phones and wrestling them off each other (in a nice way) I had his phone and we were carrying on, but when I went into ...

He stared at me while he was with his girlfriend, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - i like a boy who goes to a school close to mine (he has a girfreind).i have liked him for a while but he doesnt know (but he knows who i am).i get very nervouse when i see him and i pretend i dont notice him.i saw him with his gf by school and i get ...

I'm the only one in my grade with a light moustache and hair on my chin, I feel embarassed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - im only 13 but i m having hair on my face i have a light moustache and some hair on my chin its so embarassing im the only one in my grade hlp plz...

I can't put my life on hold any longer! I need some advice...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I posted the following question last week, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shall-i-go-round-with-some-flowers-and.html I really need some more advice please. I made my gf a college (photomontage) of us both together i spent all week making...

My boyfriend is always late, it's getting annoying. How do I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Im only 16 years old, and i guess you could all say i shouldnt be commiting mself into a serious relationship at this age, but ive nown my boyfriend since i was around 6 years old and weve always had that close bond. 8 months ago we got together and ...

I have stronger feelings for my ex-girlfriend than for my current one. Should I break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - sorry its long and kinda mumbled So i've been seeing my latest girlfriend for about 3 months. before me and her got together i had a thing with a girl called amanda. we were never offically just two people who had deep feelings for each other, ...

I choke during fellatio every time, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - MY bf is too big for me to give blowjobs, everytime i do it i choke, i want to carry on but i cant breath what shall i do?? ...

I love my boyfriend to bits and feel very guilty for having kissed another under the influence of alcohol. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - hey, i'm only 14 :( i have a boyfriend of one year, i was at a party and got encredibly drunk, im not using tha as an excuse, it was my fault..im k not even supposed to be drinking.. there was a guy there, he told me he was 18, i knew i had a bf and ...

Did my hymen break by fingering? Is there a way to check?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I got fingered last night. This morning I I started bleeding, but it stopped so I'm sure it's not my period. As a virgin, I'm asking did my hymen break? Is there any way to check without going to a doctor?...

We were best friends who tried to have a relationship. It didn't work, our friendship suffered and I'm confused whether we should try again as lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - it's this guy that I kinda used to be bestfriends with.me and him used to sit on the phone all morning.Like 12 00 until 6 00 in the morning!we used to talk about everything.he used to leave me voicemails saying that he loved me.a lot.we were so ...

How do I make my boyfriend realise that I'm more important than anything else and to quit smoking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend likes to smoke but i dont want him to smoke.every now and then so i permitted him to smoke once in 2 months..but he cant wait...for him smoke is more important than me..i said him that i dont need him if he cant live without ...

Mother and daughter trouble...need help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for the past 3 years and we are happy to be together. I don’t have any issues with my bf but his mother (50) and sister (20). They are uncontrollable. When the mother and daughter get in to fights, they ...

Why can't I manage life with my stepmother after 7 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

15 September 2008 (?) - My Dad has been married to my step-mom (kristy) for 7yrs....im 13 now...and still cant get over the fact that he had remarried. I cant stan Kristy...Sometimes i feel like i dont matter. I cant stand living with her. I've begged 2 friends of mine to ...

Is it true that you can get pregnant if you have sex a couple of days before your period?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I think im pregnant. Im supposed to get my period already, we had sex 3 days ago and people say that if u have sex like a couple days befoore ur period u can get pregnant. is it true? and what should i do?...

Should I continue waiting, tell her how I feel, or give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Okay, so i guess i should start with a little bit about myself. I'm 15, and i've been homeschooled since last school year (including this school year that just started). During the entire time i've been homeschooled, i haven't seen any of my friends ...

Is it wrong for a 13 year old to date a 16 year old?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - im 13 and i really like this guy who is 15, but he is about to turn 16 in a couple months, is it wrong if we date? but i really like him, and he really likes me....

We never have anything to talk about, and I get really sick of him sometimes. Is there something wrong with us being together?

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15 September 2008 (F) - So rite n0w im in a relationship with "M". M and I have been liking each other since last October and we have finally gotten together. But 0n somedaYs I can't stand him and 0n others I get mad when he calls me so I ignore his calls. And when we taLk ...

I've recently noticed that some guys are attractive - am I gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5912 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Alright, I'm just an average 14 year old kid. I've always been sexually attracted to girls, I have "hooked up" with girls a few time which definitely turns me on and when I watch "videos" it is always just one girl or a guy and a girl. Just as ...