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writes:Hi.I recently auditioned for a show and got in and I went to a rehearsal and we had to go round the room and meet people we haven't spoken to before and find out what part they were in the show and a bit about themselves... a get to know you session kind of thing. I was making sure I was smiling and laughing a lot so that they felt at ease with me if you get me... well I was walking around and a lot of guys there came up to me.. I guess it's because I'm young (18) and I'd say I was reasonably attractive.. Not beautiful.. but not ugly either. Well ya know what I mean.Anyway, I was walking round the room meeting and talking to people when I met this one guy called Nick. He's quite a few years older than me, but our eyes met and I felt all weird inside... he was gorgeous and smiley and I put out my hand for him to shake (as I did with everyone) and he took it and shook it gently, not moving his eyes from mine and then he like..held on to it for a while while we spoke and then realised he was still holding it and quite quickly let go as we continued to talk. I just kinda giggled a little so that he didn't feel too awkward about it... Is this a sign that he was attracted to me? I wouldn't dare try anything with him, he's with someone. But I'd just like to know I guess...In the more recent rehearsals, I've caught him looking at me.. not staring exactly from what I can tell, just.. glancing in my direction and he sometimes comes over to where I am in the room... I decided to see what would happen if I moved to another part of the room when he did this and he then appeared again near to where I was... Is this just me looking for things?I do find myself very attracted to him but please understand, I wouldn't try anything, it's just to help me understand whether his behaviour is just me noticing things or not.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks :) that's really put my mind at ease coz I wasn't sure if I was goin a bit crazy Lol!
I'll give ya both five star ratings :D
Thanks again.
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reader, zelgamer  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 I would say this isn't you looking for things that aren't there, if it's just like you said, then there is some attraction that he has towards you, even if he doesn't intend it to go anywhere, he was still flirting with you, so again, I would say the attraction is there.
If you ever decide to actually get with him and such, keep in mind that if he cheats on his current girlfriend for you, or leaves her for you, that the probobility of him doing it to you is higher. Just to throw it out there. Hope my answer helped! :-)
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reader, MzNonchalant +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Wow! It doesn't sound like your noticing things that aren't there. It seems like he IS attracted to you. Maybe his quick glances at you are his way of exspressing that. And so is his following you around. Well I don't want to call it that,so I'll say him wanting to be around you or near you is also his way of expressing that. He may be a little nervous when it comes to talking to you. {Hope I helped!}
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