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writes:hey, i'm only 14 :( i have a boyfriend of one year, i was at a party and got encredibly drunk, im not using tha as an excuse, it was my fault..im k not even supposed to be drinking.. there was a guy there, he told me he was 18, i knew i had a bf and that he was waaay to old, and all of a sudden he was kissing me, i later found out he was actually 25, he looked nothign like 25..i want to tell my boyfriend as the guilt is killing me, i feel sick when i think about it, im scared what people will think, i mean yuuck! i dont think the boy will tell anyone, as he would be in far more trouble..but everyone will think im such a horrible person, i hate this.. i dont know what to do, im never going to get that drunk again, or be unfaithfull.. now that i know how much guilt it leaves.. im so scared, i love my boyfriend to bits, i know you think im only 14, i dont know what love is, but i cant bare the thought of being without him, please what do i do? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhen I Saw Him The Outher Day I Thought OMGGGG UGLY!
Haha Yeahh, I'mGonna Watch What I'm Drinking In The Fuuture, Thanks Babes :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2008): okay you seem super sad, but i am 14 as well and even though im super young i still see this happen almost everyday. not drinking is your choice, but if you do decide to one night make sure you either have a sober friend DONT! get so drunk that you dont know what your doing. because if you only kissed him your kinda lucky in this situation, becuase if he is 25 then he could have seriously hurt you. i personally think you should tell your boyfriend because if you really like him and you want to keep him you should just let him know.....i hate it when i see "babyfuckers" do such things haha im in a town where this happens alot. because their ugly and they cant get anyone thier age. just tell him only and move on.
good luck and be safe!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe didn't think i was 16, because at the end of the night when i was angry and asked him why he lied, he said because i was embaressed! i'm 26 and i met a 14 year old who was perfect, if only you were older! you dont undrstand i didnt mean to lie! after that i just went home, and yeah i was wrong to drink, i know, thanks though, it's been like 4 days now and i'm starting to kinda forget about it and not feel so bad, but yeah, never again. thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): Okay, so from what I can determine, the legal drinking age in the United Kingdom, outside of one's own home is 16. Since you were conuming alchohol at a friend's house, it is reasonable to assume that he thought you were at least 16, which, as I understand, is also the age of consent in the UK. Granted, he shouldn't have lied about his age, but you also shouldn't have been drinking. Your actions gave him the false impression that you were older than you are. That said, he thought you were at least 16, and you thought he was 18. A two year age difference is not that much. Just be grateful that you did not end up having sex. Hopefully you will learn from this situation and how dangerous lying can be, both in word and in deed. In final analysis, kissing is hardly a capital offense. You need to get over it, and move on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh noo, not like a pary in a club, it was at my friends house, her parents were having a huge party, there was just drink there, i wasn't pretendign i was older or anything, theres nothing more to the story :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): You are 14 and at a party where alchohol is being served? Just how old were you passing yourself off as that day? I have a feeling there is more to this story than is being told.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you.. The guy wasn't drunk or snything,just me and like 11 years older thats sick.. I'm going to say nothing, I'll Live with the regret, I Deserve It, It Was My Fault As well, And I Suppose It's Better I Did It When I Was Young, And Now Learn From It And Never Again! Thank You xx
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (15 September 2008):
 well you have two options.. come clean tell him that you kissed a guy but you were heavily drunk and now you realise how wrong you did and it ment nothing now you feel sick about it and wish you could turn back time.. or dont tell him and be more faithful in the future..either way you have to decide which path you will walk, either choice you loose, tell him you risk loosing him, dont tell him and you will feel guilty..do what you think is best but be prepared..this is a lesson you have had to learn like us all now its up to you to decide what you want to do.. good luck and all the best aphexy xx
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