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Archived questions from: September, 2018 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

How can I make our first time as pleasurable as possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

30 September 2018 (M) - Basic sex question: I just got out of a 2.5 yr relationship. I've met someone new, and we've been very open with communication and I've been able to let her know that while I'm not absolutely ready for something concrete, and that I need some more...

How do you cope with the loss of a potential relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2235 days ago

28 September 2018 (F) - I was dating a guy for a few weeks until this weekend. I wasn’t overly keen for the first month or so, but finally something clicked on the weekend and I finally let my guard down and invested. We had sex and he stayed the night. A few days lat...

Advise needed please, about sex and time.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

27 September 2018 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I see eachother every 3 months. Recently, when we saw eachother, we had sex on the first night. He lasted about 30 seconds. The next morning we had sex again and he lasted a long time, maybe 5 ...

Should I take the hint? It seems our friendship is over.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

26 September 2018 (F) - So I was friends with benefits with this guy for 4 years. I told him 8 months ago I can't do this no more. I told him either commit or let me go. He let me go. 8 months later he's speaking to me again. I met up at his place and he tried instigating ...

I lied to my b/f that I've never done anal and now I am afraid he'll know

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

26 September 2018 (F) - Hey guys, well i've been lying to my boyfriend honestly about having anal, i did it before so many times and now he insist about doing it and im afraid he will notice that im not tight, well is there any type of way that i can save this situation ? ...

What are some tips for using an average sized penis to make her feel good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

23 September 2018 (M) - The saying is, it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean. Well my penis is averaged size, but I've come to the conclusion that I don't know how to use it very well. Does anyone have any advice on how to "use" my penis to make her ...

Does he love me or just think of me as a sex toy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

22 September 2018 (F) - I've been with my bf for 3 years and now I feel like he just wants me for sending him sexy pictures and wants to see me for intimacy he barely even talks about himself like how he's doing, or anything other than spicy pictures and am not sure what ...

I can't feel anything while having sex and lose my erection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2239 days ago

22 September 2018 (M) - my age is just 23....I cant feel while having sex with my wife I put my penis inside the vagina but after a min automatically my penis gets down I am worried about it please help please give me some tips ...

Iv recently found out my wife has had sex with women

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2243 days ago

21 September 2018 (M) - Hi, found this site accidentally while googling my issue. Ive been with someone 28 years and married 25 years, been together since late teens, thought everything was ok but now I know isnt. Iv recently found out my wife has had sex on more that a ...

Does him not being able to stay hard with me prove he isn’t attracted to me physically?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2243 days ago

20 September 2018 (F) - I just started seeing this new guy and everything is great. We are able to talk and laugh with each other and just have a good time. He calls me beautiful and sexy and says he likes the way I look. But last night we just tried to have sex for the ...

My fiance is a virgin but I've slept with 6 people and had an abortion. Do I need to tell him all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2246 days ago

19 September 2018 (F) - Hi, I am engaged to a wonderful guy from the last 5 months, we are going to get married this December 2018,I came to know by investigation and inspection and his views and thoughts and actions, that he is a virgin and he is against premarital sex ...

Would it be ok to ask my mum to buy me a vibrator?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2247 days ago

15 September 2018 (F) - I'm 17 and have the money to buy a vibrator, but I have no way of actually getting one by myself. I don't have any friends old enough to take me some where that will sell them to people under 18, and I don't have a credit/debit card so I can't buy ...

We had sex and now I haven't heard from him in 3 weeks. Did he like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2249 days ago

14 September 2018 (F) - Did he liked me? We met off Tinder? I met a guy off tinder a month half go. I am 28, he is 30. He messaged me first and I suggested meeting right away. He said okay and we met and it weird first a little because I was attracted to him and felt shy...

My new boyfriend has become obsessed about my past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2249 days ago

13 September 2018 (F) - Hi there I ended my marriage a year ago due to domestic violence. I was married for 10 years and have 2 children out of this marriage. I'm in a long term relationship with this wonderful man - very caring, sympathetic, logical and strong minded p...

I want child number 5 but hubby says he is done!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2254 days ago

11 September 2018 (F) - I have 4 children with my husband, 2 have not been planned and 2 have. He’s been indicating ‘no more’ since our second. Our third child we were using condoms and he didn’t use a condom one time which resulted in the third child. Being the complete ...

Why won't my feelings diminish for a LDR girl? Was it the crazy compatible sex I can't get over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2248 days ago

10 September 2018 (M) - Has anyone experienced something like this? I was with a girl for 2 months around one year ago. It was exciting, intense, then she left to China. I am in UK. I thought the feelings would die down but they didn't. She still talks and occasionally ...

Why do I get so turned off after sexual contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2253 days ago

9 September 2018 (M) - I am male and am 21 years old. I'm currently on the dating scene but whenever I'm with someone it seems to be that I am lusting them and after it gets any further I get an immense feeling to be with them sexually, then after any sexual contact is ...

Is this relationship based on sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2256 days ago

6 September 2018 (F) - I am in a weird relationship with a 48 year old man. I lost my virginity to him but lied I was on my period. I had sex because I was ready to and do not feel an ounce of guilt. All I wanted from him was to have sex, get over with the pain and move ...

Should I call him out or just drop it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2258 days ago

6 September 2018 (F) - Back story: I started seeing this guy back in February, but ONLY as a hookup (my intention at the time, since I was getting out of a 6 year relationship). This lasted for a couple months, and near the end of the couple months, I realized I was s...

I have an IUD and we don't have condoms so why did I find them in my boyfriend's things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2258 days ago

6 September 2018 (F) - Me an my fiance have been together for almost 10 years we are in our 20s an have a daughter an wanting more kids lol but we were going to bed when he comes in an puts his cigarettes an that down an he leaves the room an I look were he put them cuz ...

I helped him through depression but now our sex life is gone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2259 days ago

4 September 2018 (F) - Hi all. I’m so lost right now. A year ago I met an amazing man, instantly I felt a connection. It sounds silly but I wasn’t looking for a romantic relationship and they say it’s when you stop looking you find it. I’m a 25 year old busines...

She's had more sexual experience than I have. Will I regret it later?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2260 days ago

3 September 2018 (M) - I'm a 25 year old guy, my girlfriend is 33. We've been on/off for a year and have quite a strong bond (we broke up once, recently rekindled it, now its getting serious again. No other partners in the inbetween) I have a real problem with our...

Did my girlfriend cheat on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2260 days ago

3 September 2018 (M) - I’m 43yrs of age I been with my girlfriend for 14yrs an she is 32yrs of age. for the last few months we been having alot of great sex like everyday then one day for 3hrs she went to work and next day we had sex an her vagina was alittle opening ...

Is it unreasonable that I don't want to know about his personal masterbation habits?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2261 days ago

2 September 2018 (F) - I hope this question is not too vulgar. It's actually quite personal and embarrassing but I'm not sure how to handle my situation most effectively without some advice. I'm sorry for the length. It's a two part question i guess. A few weeks ag...