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writes:I've been with my bf for 3 years and now I feel like he just wants me for sending him sexy pictures and wants to see me for intimacy he barely even talks about himself like how he's doing, or anything other than spicy pictures and am not sure what he thinks about us cause he doesn't tell me. I'm not sure if he really loves me or he just wants me as a y 'sex toy' if that's what's it's called. we haven't had any sexual intercourse because my beliefs dont permit it and I cant seem to make him understand that even worse he is also a religious person as well but he still wants to have sexual intercourse. He has only been the only person I've gone far with and he knows it. I dont know what to do or ask him. I do love him and want him in my life but I dont know how to deal with all this sexy and nude pictures that he wants. I Need some advise on what to do. Thank you in advance.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 October 2018):
 If you feel that he is not treating you right and he only ever thinks about sex and photos then yes you are right to end things. Personally it is your beliefs to not have sex before marriage but that doesn't need to be forced on him as well. There are plenty off religious people in the world who do have sex before marriage these days and yes plenty that don't. It is personal beliefs and it could be that the both off you are just not compatible. Over the three years have you both not spoke about marriage or moving in together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2018): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTrue but he knows we shouldn't have sex until were married but now am not even sure if I want him because he doesn't even treat me with love nor value me I guess he just made a whole lot of promises and broked them once again it hurts because I had trusted him for the second time but am afraid I'll have to let go and look for the right one. One who is looking for a serious relationship and not for who is just promising and breaking them and waisting my time making me think that he was serious. It hurts but I'll have to forgive and forget him. For good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2018): Girl give him a break!! After 3 years you haven't even had sex of course he's going to be obsessed with sex and ask you for sexy photo's.. He is a guy after all, what do you expect!!
If he didn't do this then you might as well be friends! Before I knew you hadn't had sex I was going to say count your lucky stars as most people stop all the naughty photo thing after 3 years but that explains it.
You just have to expect him to be sexual with you until it's the right time for you to have sex then it'll calm down. He is a human and we are built to have sex that's just how it is.
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