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writes:Dear cupid. I am a 23 year old women who is dating a 31 year man. We have a great relationship. We bond really well. The problem is, there are time when we have sex and he orgasims. However, let's say we have sex the next day in the morning or sometimes later at noon, and can't orgasim at all. He says he's enjoying himself, but also says he's just getting old. I'm not sure if its me or if it is our age difference. Please help, I've been a lot of bad relationships I don't want this to go bad either. Reply to this Question
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reader, Amy124  +, writes (13 April 2009):
 My boyfriend is only 21 and he has the same problem, and we've both guessed that it just takes a while for his sperm to build up between orgasms. He usually has to wait at least 24 hours before he can orgasm again and then it's no longer a problem, so don't worry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): I was dating a guy who was 32 a few months ago and he had the same problems. At first I thought it was me and something I was doing wrong but it turns out thats just the way he was. Like the other aunts said, it just depends on the guy. In my case we used the time to concentrate on me :), or to just cuddle and talk and explore. The fact that we didnt rush to sex every time actually improved the intimacy of the relationship. I wouldnt be concerned with this taking a toll on the relationship. It only will do that if you let it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): men lose 1 percent of their testosterone every year after age 30. That can affect sperm count, sex drive and erections.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (4 April 2009):
 Its not his age, hes 31 which is still very young.
Some men take time to build up sperm, give it time :)
Everyone is different and its not your fault at all he can't orgasm the next day!
If your really worried about it then go to a doctor but i'm sure they will say the same, some men find it hard to "cum" after a couple of hours after they did.
Livia
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