A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:me and my partner have been together 13 years , but we have now got 4 children 5years apart, and our sex life is rubbish. we almost plan and predict when its going to happen( not very often). the problem is i have a high sex drive my partner doesn't and we have sex when my wife decides she wants it, sometimes something might turn me on but i daren't do nothing about especially if we have had sex recently. i don't want to split but this is really coming between us i just don't know how to resolve this as it's not fair on either of us..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): We must continue to have patience my wife is the same bro
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reader, loving arms +, writes (4 April 2009):
maybe you and your wife need to find each other again. Sex can be easily put at the bottom of the list when you are cleaning, cooking, ironing etc after a family of 6. The last thing may women feel is sexy and desirable.
Maybe you and the children could start sharing in the chores so your wife can enjoy a relaxing evening or a quiet bath. Take her out so just the two fo you can talk and enjoy each others company.
Talk to each other about what you'd both like, what makes life miserable, what you'd like to change. Hopefully things will improve for you all. Best of luck xx
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