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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

I have been chatting with a possible scammer online

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (?) - I have been chatting with this guy online and on my email and we haven't met each other yet. He was telling me that he would be away in Africa for the holidays and won't be back until Jan5th. He said he is anxious to meet me and I am having some ...

I met a guy online and he kept on postponing because of back problems. Should I wait it out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi guys, I have come looking for advice, just slightly confused about a sitaution .So a while ago I decided to give online dating a go. I met this guy online. We hit it from the start.Its been five months and we speak everyday, skype text etc.....

My boyfriend wants to video chat but I'm nervous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - I'm in long distance relationship since 1 and half year. I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20. We talk on phone daily and we have seen each others pic.We are going to meet next year. My boyfriend wants to video chat with me on 31st December. I ...

I know our timing has been off, but he hasn't contacted me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I need your advice. I met this guy online and we've been gone to 8 dinners date. Our schedule had been very busy so for the last couple of weeks we hadn't been able to meet. I was out of town, then he had family issues, then I got sick.. The list ...

I'm afraid that losing weight will change my personality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I am dating this girl through internet about six months officially, but more than a year on total. I am a 18 yr old virgin. I am fatty, never had a "real" relationship. My mom humiliates me all the time saying things like "loose weight you'll n...

He says he is not sure, and wants to take things slow.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - So the story is like this. I met this guy on this online website - okcupid. He was the one who messaged me first. Like all online interactions, we chatted a bit online for around three weeks...then we started talking over the phone...we have ...

The online guy I talk to blows hot and cold!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

22 December 2013 (?) - Hello, I have a bit of a dilemma. I have been talking to a guy online and we have really good conversations. He told me he is a bit shy and I told him I am too. He told me that he likes my photos a lot and he looks at them quite often. He ...

We have a secret friendship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - A long time ago I briefly met a guy at the end of a festival. He lives on the other side of the country. We exchanged numbers and ended up talking online for almost a year. We both were in relationships when we met and I still am though he is single ...

We agree to meet ..... and then he cancels!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - So, I've been talking to this guy online for almost a couple of months and he first asked me out about a month ago but then cancelled because he realised he had plans that evening. We exchanged numbers after this and he called to ask me out the ...

He's flirting but hasn't asked me out on a date, what are his intentions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

17 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy last month at a friend's gathering. In the end, we exchanged facebook. We messaged each other on FB for a week, but not like having long conversations. Then it stopped. Until a week ago, he got back from his holiday, we sort...

I am numb from my last relationship....but want to move forward!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4025 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - I am preparing to meet a guy I have been talking to online for 6 years. He's an awesome guy, and I'm not nervous. The only thing is, I know he's at a point in his life where he wants to settle down. He is turning 30 next month. He wants kids, a ...

Four weeks later, has he lost interest already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - Hi there I met a guy online we met and instantly hit it off... had a great time met at my local... saw him once a week since then so had x4 dates... he used to text me everyday or send a late goodnite sms too the sms have stopped... I did send him a ...

Why does he keep on liking and then disliking my Facebook posts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - Long story short, I'm 18, I dated a guy for about two months this summer, our relationship ended by him blocking me on facebook (still have no idea why and still kind of like him). A month ago he added me back because we had to talk about a school ...

Is it weird to invite a friend along on quasi-dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

10 December 2013 (M) - Is it weird to arrange a date and invite friends along. Someone I met online invited his friend along once, I had no objection, and thought what a great idea. It totally took the edge off the meeting and made it much more relaxed and fun. But I get ...

Looking to start a FWB -- any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

10 December 2013 (M) - Hi. I'm a 23 year old gay college student and I'm a virgin. I recently joined adam4adam.com since I'm really busy this school year and I don't really have time for a relationship, but like most my age, I have needs. So earlier today I was talking to ...

I want him to make me his girlfriend but he still talks to other women on the dating site!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

8 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy on a dating site a few weeks ago. We've had a few amazing dates and ended up fooling around just a little (no actual sex though). I really like him and we have so much in common, we're so compatible and look great together. The pr...

This guy seems too good to be true!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

7 December 2013 (?) - Okay, First I started talking to a guy just recently through our personal emails. We happen to be on the same site so I left him a message. I didn't think he would respond, but he did. His profile was very long and he wrote a lot things about who he ...

Am I being too clingy? Did we rush into this too soon? I get jealous and possessive and he's often unavailable, to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F) - I've been talking to someone for the past 4 months and I met him online. It was a day after my ex blocked me out if his life. I had told this current guy, "X", how distraught I was after what this guy did to me. He complimented me so much about...

Could it be over before it began?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F) - I met today with the guy I asked the question about sending the Happy Thanksgiving text. I really liked him, but it seem like he didn't like me. I am very shy and I wasn’t able to maintain the conversation interesting. So, my bad! I know I screw it ...