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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My boyfriend has let his house go it makes me uncomfortable and I can't talk to him about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend in the last few months has really let his house go and it's a real mess. It's got to the stage where I don't want to be there, we're long distance so coming to mine isn't always an option. When I've tried to discuss it with him he ...

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on...

I don't like how I'm behaving with these guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3281 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I'm 18. I am introvert. I have insecurities about my social standards, my looks, my family. I keep recollecting my bitter childhood. I am in a long distant relationship for almost a year. We never dated 'til now. And we fight a lot. I really love ...

LDR. Did he think, since I am so far away, that he could just do his thing and get away with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hello. Please help! I have been seeing a guy for nearly a year. LDR. Seeing each other regularly though. He lied to me at the beginning of our relationship about a relationship he had with someone who tried to break us up. He said they never we...

My long distance girlfriend accuses me of being abusive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

21 November 2015 (M) - I am on a long distance relationship I find her that she wouldn't tell me everything she does until the last moment. It upsets me a lot and I tend to think she doesn't trust me. Last week she would buy dress, she only told me after wearing it...

Do I marry my ex, when I hardly know him? What are my options in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3282 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I need your advice, I was dating T from Italy while I am staying in South Africa for 4 years, in that 4 years we saw eachother a couple of times when he came to see me in SA, like not more than 5 times in that 4 years, so we hardly spent ...

Am I right in feeling that my LDR boyfriend no longer has an interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3288 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a LDR. We do see each other quite offen though. During the times when him and I aren't together I like taking on extra side jobs in the evenings for a few hours, just so I can have a little extra savings or splurge a bit wh...

How does one nicely tell a opposite gender friend you don't want to hang out anymore? Or is there no way to do so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I need some help here regarding a female Friend who has been asking my Boyfriend out. My Boyfriend and I discuss about boundaries with opposite gender friends and we both agree hanging out one on one with the opposite gender ...

He doesn't seem to want to spend time with me anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3293 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - I would like to know what are some of the major obstacles couples face in a long distance relationship. I know that all couples need to work twice as hard to maintain a long distance relationship vs in person relationship... but what are some things ...

Since he's not always remembered my birthday, does it mean I'm not as special as he says I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3294 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - Its been 5 years of dating my long distance bf..he remembered my bday twice.. Last year he sent me flowers and made me feel real special.. It's the 6th year now and bday is couple of days away and I know he doesn't remember(am very sure).. I...

The silence is killing me! Why did he stop responding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - I'm desperate for closure. Wel..I met a guy on a massaging app.initially I wasn't that attracted to him. He somehow managed to charm his way to my heart! He would initiate most of our texting and all I did was just answer. He made me believe he was ...

Our long distance relationship is making him distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3300 days ago

8 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and half now and he recently left the country for a new job 2 months ago after being out of work for 7 months. We have been making it work long distance and are seeing each other every 2nd week at the ...

Boyfriend is on messenger in the middle of the night! Is he on with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

8 November 2015 (F) - Hello. I would really appreciate advice please. In a long distance of a year. We see each other every other weekend, although this has reduced recently due to difficulties we have had. At times his texts are lovely and others a bit business...

LDR..who knows to what extent this girl goes to around my boyfriend when I'm not around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

5 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a LDR. We are planning to move in together next year. I will move to his State. I'm visiting him this week as it's his birthday. Last night, we went out to a birthday dinner with a group of his friends. In the group is...

I think my summer fling from Norway has an ulterior motive in wanting to meet up again!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

3 November 2015 (M) - I hooked up with a foreign girl whilst on holiday last summer and she's just messaged me saying she wants to meet up again. But I'm slightly wary of her. I'm 22. Me and a group of friends went on a lads holiday to Sunny Beach in Bulgaria back in...

Are my fears reasonable? Is my Bf, who is divorced, just too close to his ex and her parents, still? And why should I be a secret?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - Hi, i really need an opinion from you guys. I'm 43 my bf is 50. i'm widow and he is divorced. We are now 5 months in relationship. We are not living together cos our place are 3 hours far distance, but we are always seeing each other, sometimes im s...

He and I are both virgins. When we have our first date should it be a lip lock kiss or a french kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

3 November 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts, I am chatting with a guy online. He is from my country but is working in another country at the moment. He is a christian virgin and so am I. We have shown interest in each other and are willing to take a step further into Dating...

How do I say I'm interested him and don't want just sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

2 November 2015 (F) - A couple of weeks ago, while I was on a little holiday with friends, I met a guy who was on a family holiday from New Zealand. We hit it off really well. We kissed and basically enjoyed each others company without having sex. My friends approved of ...

Anxiety is wreaking havoc on a long distance relationship. I want him to do what I want him to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

2 November 2015 (F) - I have been medicated for anxiety for 9 years now and worked with counselors for longer than that. I have anxiety and panic disorder with some OCD (just the obsessive thoughts.) I haven't dated much and have not had a relationship that last...

My LD Boyfriend constantly chats. Am I right to be irriated or am I paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

1 November 2015 (F) - Long distance Bf (3years) constantly chats up on whatsapp with his reunion group (starting 2015).. They go on for hours.. I know he is not playing behind me but I get really irritated and we end up fighting.. He even chats while we are fighting...