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I've met a nice guy but my cheating daddy wants me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2156 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - Please help me I am in such a dilemma a few months ago me and my baby daddy split up due to a lot of issues in which one of them was him cheating I am not sure if it was physical but I know for sure girls were calling him and texting him and he was ...

Is it ok to ask for a second date immediately? And when to tell about a chronic illness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

30 December 2018 (M) - Hi all, a quick couple of questions. I went on an date set up from an online site last night. I have been on 2 dates over the last few months and had sworn off it as I didn’t enjoy the process but she contacted me and I thought well why not, let...

How do I stop crushing on jerks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - I always crush on a guy who is kind of a jerk, but the type of guy parents love because he totally sucks up to them and looks really good on paper — smart, ambitious, handsome — but deep down, he is not the nicest person. He usually has a ...

Should I cut off my mom from my life without giving her an explanation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

29 December 2018 (F) - Guys... this new year I’m going to cut off my mom from my life. I have written a question regarding our relationship before and things have been going downhill from there. She has been mean to me and my family all year long. I have a sister w...

How do I change my patterns?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

29 December 2018 (F) - I have come out of a very long term relationship where my partner 'parentified' me. I've read a lot about how there can be a passive / active dynamic (or divide) between partners, where one acts like the kid and the other is positioned as parent, ...

My new job demands much more of my time! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2159 days ago

28 December 2018 (F) - Three weeks ago I started a job in my career path that I’ve been praying for for a long time now. Great location for me, benefits, union, pay is good, the whole nine yards. I feel so overwhelming blessed for me and my family. The only downside to ...

Older man wont leave his girlfriend for me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2140 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - I started an emotional and physical affair with a man I work with around this time last year. He started seeing someone about 3/4 months before me and him started talking. He's 15 years older than me,I'm 32 he's 47. We connected on a level I never ...

I can't forget the guy I cheated with.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2158 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - About 6 months ago, I cheated on my boyfriend with a male friend. I won't go into details, but my boyfriend and I worked through it and I cut contact with the other guy. Today he sent me an email to wish me happy Christmas and said he misses me. I ...

I love him but since his massive weight gain don't find him attractive enough for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2163 days ago

21 December 2018 (F) - Hi, okay so I really hope I don’t come across as been an absolute bitch here but I could really use some help!! So. My partner has put on a lot of weight. A good 4/5 stone! He was around 12 stone when we met. He’s 6ft3 so was really slim, I’ve alw...

Is it possible to be a semi-reclusive artist and still contribute something of value to the local town? Please share similar experiences!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2149 days ago

21 December 2018 (F) - Has anyone here got any experience of settling in a new country where you don't speak the language and are not sure how to fit in? I am thinking of buying a 2nd home - which I will spend about 6 months of the year in. I know that sounds extravaga...

I just can’t stop thinking I’m betraying her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2129 days ago

21 December 2018 (M) - About a year and a half back I went to a online school. Now I meet one girl in one of my classes and we started taking usually for 1 or 2 hours a day, however soon it grew to like 9 hours per day sometimes more, in the one year time period I got to ...

I do not want my kids to inherit my partner's health problems!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2168 days ago

18 December 2018 (M) - I am in a moral dilemma. My partner has some health conditions such as endometriosis, which means she has a harder time falling pregnant with a chance of not falling pregnant at all. She has other minor health conditions which after thinking about ...

Should your spouse be prioritized over your adult children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2168 days ago

18 December 2018 (M) - My question, Should your spouse come 2nd (God is always 1st) or your adult children? My wife's daughter (my stepdaughter) is a full on alcoholic/drug addict. For over 3yrs now I have delt with the constant absence of my wife because her daughter ...

I want to show him I care but I also don’t want to be a burden or an annoyance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2170 days ago

17 December 2018 (F) - I was dating a guy for only 6 weeks. Things were going really well other than he wasn’t feeling good. Long story short, his symptoms have gotten worse and he’s not been working much and under going testing and imaging to see what’s wrong. So far, ...

I feel overwhelmed with empathy for older folk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2171 days ago

16 December 2018 (F) - Has any of you felt ever overwhelmed by empathy towards elderly people who are suffering? Ever since I was a kid, I've been helping out elderly people in my neighborhood without being told to do so. I always felt such a strong sadness whene...

When he is sober he's nice, when he is drunk its a big downfall.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2168 days ago

16 December 2018 (F) - Hi, I'm kinda dating one man few months, but I'm quite worried about him, because many times we go out, he drinks. While I'm having one beer or glass of wine, he has few and often some hard liquors too..he gets pretty drunk often to the level th...

I wonder if forgiveness is the key to moving forward

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2175 days ago

12 December 2018 (F) - I, like many grew up with a toxic family. My parents where not there and pretty much abandoned me. I have struggled alot of my life due to this but also the last few years I have done alot of work and had therapy on this. This has made things easier ...

How do you cope with losing a parent or a loved one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2174 days ago

10 December 2018 (F) - So, about a year ago I lost my father to stage 4 cancer. I cry and have break downs, when I see his photo, or if I see a video of him, or if hear a voicemail he left. So, now I avoid looking at his photos and things that remind me of him. It’s just ...

My younger boyfriend just asked me to marry him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2179 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - I'm 31 years old woman divorced with 2 kids one of whom have a a disability. I've stayed away from relationships all together because my life is not easy and I have my priorities. Lately, a younger man started to show interest in me, he is 5 ...

My husband has ED only during intercourse

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2106 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - I wonder if anyone has any insight or advice to offer on erectile dysfunction. My partner and I met while I was leaving an unhappy marriage and he was in a sexless marriage. We fell in love and are now living together. My children are living...

Is this a sex addiction?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2184 days ago

1 December 2018 (F) - Hello. I think I am sex crazed. I want to have sex all the time. When I get home from work. In the morning. When we are showering. And when we are out, all i think about is how I can't wait to go home and have sex. We are both extremely sex...

Child abuse has left me unable to connect with others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2185 days ago

1 December 2018 (F) - I've always had problems showing affection, all i have inside me is hatred and anger. I've suffered from abuse since i was a child, and it have affected me till this day. I still live with my parents, I'm a great student but i just can't stand my...