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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:Hello. I think I am sex crazed. I want to have sex all the time. When I get home from work. In the morning. When we are showering. And when we are out, all i think about is how I can't wait to go home and have sex. We are both extremely sexually compatiable. This started when we first had sex. I was a virgin.I had multiple orgasms. I am now worried that I want to have sex all the time, and i feel like there's something wrong with me. I love him. We spend a lot of time together. We are best friends. But I think I'm surrounding myself with sex too much. I never think about doing it with any one else. There has been some times where he may be tired or busy, and I never want to go out with other men to get it, but I do think about it.He hasn't complained, I just feel like there's something wrong with me. Noone should be wanting to have sex so many times a day, all week right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2018): Hi Honeypie, it was my understanding by the way the OP phrased it that she thought about going out and having sex with other men. So, stepping outside of fantasy into reality.
Perhaps the OP herself can clarify this for us?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 December 2018):
 I disagree Anon,
Having sexual thought or fantasies about OTHER people than your partner is NOT abnormal. It's what you DO with those thought that can be OK or not OK.
She isn't acting on them. She just recognize that she NOTICE other sexually attractive men, and honestly? WHAT woman doesn't?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2018): The part that is troublesome about your post (this relationship) is when you say if he's tired or busy, you won't go and have sex with other men but you THINK about it. Now, that is NOT normal. If you were to go out and have your primal sexual desires fulfilled by other men when your boyfriend is busy or tired out, then yes, at that point it becomes sexual addiction because you're seeking the high from sex from other sources.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (2 December 2018):
 It sounds to me like you are a perfect normal young lady in a new relationship. You have been lucky enough to find someone who turns you on and knows which buttons to press to make you enjoy sex, hence your enthusiasm.
Just one word of caution: in all likelihood,this will settle down and fade in time. That too is normal. In the meantime, enjoy.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 December 2018):
I don't really see the problem here.
If you BOTH have to same "wants" and "desires" and level of libido, I think it's all good.
You were lucky to have your first time with someone whom you care for and who obviously cares for you. It was also a good experience, so YOU equal sex with your BF as a GOOD experience and you want more of those. That is kind of normal, I'd say.
Like Auntie Ciar said, it will fall into a more "natural rhythm" once a bit of the novelty wears off. Just make sure the two of you are being responsible about birth control and respect each other's boundaries.
You are in one of your most FERTILE periods of your life, remember that. (between the ages of 20 and 24) which also means your BODY release high amounts of oxytocin and your pheromones are also at a higher level.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (2 December 2018):
 It doesn't sound like an addiction to me, just someone who has recently discovered something and can't get enough of it. The novelty will wear off eventually and you'll just enjoy it without being obsessed about it.
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