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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

My partner's sex drive is lower than mine and I've started developing feelings elsewhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

30 December 2017 (M) - Gay male in a long term relationship for 3.5 years with another gay male, similar age. For the first six months of our relationship, we had sex multiple times per week. After that it petered out and since then, we only have sex about once a month, ...

Career, family, marriage and my life are challenging me! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - Hi. I am 26, single forever and unemploymed forever. I have done my MSc in Biotechnology. Since then it's been 3 and half years that I am still unemployed after giving hundreds of interviews. I was so interested in the field of research in ...

His depression is sending me back to my depressed days

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

24 December 2017 (F) - Hey everyone . I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months at first everything was great as usual , weve got to know each other really well in that time and hes told me he suffers really bad depression .I have tried my best to support him in any way ...

I am never approached by men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I am about to turn 23 in a year and I have never ever been approached by any guy anywhere before in my life nor have I ever dated anyone. I know it is not due to my weight because I am thin and petite (some people tell me that I even look as young ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to be near me when I am sick.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm with my bf for past 2 years and it's going on good and we meet on weekends and stay together on weekend. One thing that concerns me, not sure if I should be, he doesn't want to meet and around me whenever I'm sick, he says he doesn...

I no longer feel attracted to her due to her weight!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

20 December 2017 (M) - I know this is a delicate topic but I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now - she used to be a UK Size 16-18 which I had no issue with whatsoever but she has been gradually gaining weight and now is around a 24/26 and I must admit I no longer ...

Could health issues develop that I might need to deal with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I've met a chap recently on an online dating site, nothing serious or has developed, although I am pondering if I should encourage things further to get to know him. He told me he is overweight at the moment and wanting to have a Gastric Bypass ...

Husband is cheating, wants me to leave the marital home.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I hope you can give me some advice. My husband of 19 years asked for a divorce in April this year, straight after I finished treatment for breast cancer. There has been no intimacy for 2 years now. He has refused to leave the family home ...

21 year old currently lost in the world, any help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Hello all, Lately, I have grown incredibly depressed. It seems like last year, I had everything I could of wanted at the time. I had a boyfriend, I lived in a nice house, I had a great and fun job, I had a good relationship with my co-...

How do I form platonic friendships with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

18 December 2017 (M) - A little background it turns out im emotionally numb/unavailable to people. i have a difficult time making meaningful connections with them even if i want to. tv makes emotional unavailability seem like a big joke for men. its been like this for me ...

I feel lost in life, how do I find my path and carry on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

18 December 2017 (M) - Please note I'm not feeling suicidal and have no plans to go down that route, I am simply feeling lost and confused. Ever since my first and only girlfriend broke up with me not 11 months ago I've been effectively listing through life without a p...

Could it be my social anxiety or am I right to feel left out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - Hey guys I need your help with something. About a month ago I went out with my boyfriend and a few of his friends, two of them being a girl and her boyfriend. My boyfriend still has a big friend group from when he was at school (girls and guys)...

Her kids and mine are cousins, is it okay to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

16 December 2017 (M) - So I have started to date or have been with and seen, my ex wife’s brothers ex wife I have a son with my ex and she has two kids with her ex who is my ex wife’s brother. Our kids are cousins but we both want no more kids. We both feel this could be ...

My negative body image is ruining my life in every way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

15 December 2017 (F) - Dear cupid, without going into too much detail, I used to be overweight through out all my teen years, and after a major depression for a period of over 3 years, I was obese at 340 pounds. Over the past 2 years I got weight loss surgery and have...

I'm doing all the work in the relationship!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 months now. I really love him and feel like he could possible be the one to walk into my future with. He carries a lot of baggage in regards to sexual abuse, drug abuse and so on. He is taking anti-depressants ...

He wants me to change, I want him to love me as I am.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - I'm feeling kind of hopeless in the relationship I'm in. We'e been together nearly 10 months, age gap between us is 15 years. We get a long great, there is so much chemistry. We love each other very much. There is however an issue that we find ...

My boyfriend is being brutally honest and I can't cope with it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

12 December 2017 (F) - Been dating for a year and it's the BEST relationship I've ever been in. However, he's starting to be brutally honest and I'm not liking it. I've told him how I felt, even cried and I try to avoid certain topics just because where it can lead to. He ...

I have a health problem that makes me feel unworthy of a man's love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

11 December 2017 (F) - What really makes us worthy of love? I have been losing hair since teenage years and my hair density has gradually declined (not bald yet). With treatment, I have stopped the hair loss to some extent and seeing some new hair growth. But, fig...

I am lonely and get depressed and can't seem to make friends. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - Hello everyone in dearcupid. I have a situation I would like some advice. I am due to be married soon me and my fiance have been together 5 years and we have been living together only for 2 years I love my husband so much I call him my husband ...

I still don't know if he's prepared to be in the sort of relationship I want to be in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

10 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years have spent the last 4/5 months very much on off. We initially broke up 4 months ago because we started back at uni and he was spending none of his time with me, with all his free time dedicated to going out with his friends, ...

Should we able to pull the foreskin completely back to the end of penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

9 December 2017 (M) - Should we able to pull the foreskin completely back to the end of pennis? I'm 22 year old, i have never masturbated and never had sex till now.. till yesterday, my penis head is completely covered.. and now tried to pull it back, and i can able to ...

I need help to control his binge drinking

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

8 December 2017 (F) - I need some advice. My husband has a problem with binge drinking. He can't stop at a couple and will just keep on drinking to he passes out. We don't really drink at home so it's only a problem if he goes out for drinks with friends. He normally ...

Dealing with low self-esteem and body image from acne scars

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2519 days ago

5 December 2017 (F) - Hi guys, I have been dating a guy for close to 2 months. We have a great connection and i really like him. But he cares too much about physical appearance. I think I am good looking, both body and face, but have hypopigmented acne scars on my...

How do I let go of these obsessive thoughts about his past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - I have met my boyfriend last year and Im so happy with him. The only thing that bothers me is that I keep digging up the past - one day I woke up and wondered, did he really was with me and only me from day one of us knowing each other? This s...

Was my childhood strange?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I would really appreciate your help since I need some perspective on the relationship I had with my mom. I know she loved me and did the best she could, but I sometimes felt abandoned by her. She decided to have a ch...

How do I tell my wife to work on her weight problem and not just moan about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2545 days ago

4 December 2017 (M) - How can I encourage my Mrs to lose weight. We have been married 6 yrs, she was gorgeous slim when we met. Over the years I have told her she is getting big and she should try and maintain shape before it gets out of control. Her response is that she ...

Mental health problem blighting my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2545 days ago

1 December 2017 (F) - I wanted to come in here because I feel I need to ask for advice/feedback after some therapy had not worked. I have OCD and excessive rumination. I worry to the point where I feel I am handicapped from my thoughts. For example this incident jus...

What do I do and say? His depression is hard to deal with

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

1 December 2017 (F) - I need help. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 months and a bit more , and I love him so much but he has depression . I help him as much as I can and I’m here for him all the time but he always complains to me how he feels and I understand that he’s ...

Boyfriend is really depressed what should I do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

1 December 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is really depressed, we have been going out for 2 month and hes saying he feels on a scale of 1 - 10 ( 10 feeling really good ) that hes about a 2 . He has been seeing the doctor and a mental health worker but i dont feel hes getting ...