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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Have I fallen in love with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - I need help understanding myself. I am a man living in the US Who moved here about 4 years ago for work from tokyo after being there for 5 years and meeting a woman. In between jobs had a child with her and built her and my daughter a beautiful ...

I have to make a choice between 2 men as I'm hurting them..what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I am torn between two men. The first is my boyfriend of 7 months, he is the best thing that's ever happened to me and is completely devoted to me in every way. We began a long distance relationship in September when I moved away to university, and ...

My boyfriend loves me but wants sex with other women!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. we both love each other very much and weve had a happy time together, but recently an issue has got in our way. He's only admitted it once before and somet...

I don't know what to do. There is no romance in my marriage and I am seeing my old girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Good day 49 years old man been married for 21 years. Have three children 15, 18 and 19. My wife and I have made love three times in the last ten years. She won't discuss the problem or seek help. Full stop. I have gotten very down about it at time...

Is my girlfriend cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Been dating this girl for two months and while she appears to be awesome there are things that I wonder about. She was great. But....we live an hour away. She is a nympho. She has druggy friends. She smokes pot. Loves tattoos. I have no problems ...

I hate the feeling of being lonely and desparate to find someone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - hey everyone, I'm desperately in need of some advice when it comes to relationships. Right now i feel as though i've been cursed in that area or something :(. My first real relationship was 2 yrs ago, with a guy that i had liked for more then 6y...

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him, but I'm not, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 8 months. We've been through our ups and downs like most couples but essentially we're very strong. But now I have a big problem. One of his so called friends told him that I was messing him about...

Do I believe that he has learnt his lesson? Or should I walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a year but a few days ago two girls came to me and told me they had been sleeping with him. i truely love him and i dont doubt how he feels for me but i just cant believe he has done this to me. we had been arguing ...

Why lead me on if nothing is to happen? Or does he want something to happen despite having a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I started a new job a month ago. Working with a nice guy, but he's giving mixed signals to me (I think). He has a girlfriend and they've been together for 2 years but he flirts with me. He's sent messages/emails saying 'I love you', always...

My wife is willing to forgive my cheating, I love her but I feel I don't deserve her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Well, I will try to keep this short and to the point but sorry if I linger. I am 35 years old, was married to a great 42 year old woman until 2009-04, unfortunately no children, that was a difficult hurdle in our marriage as we kept miscarrying. I ...

After he's done things to hurt me, he still just blames me. How can I make this work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I am 19 and I have been in the relationship I'm in right now for almost 2yrs. I have a very big problem with my partner. I have lied to him as well as cheating. I am not proud or happy about what I did, but there is nothing I can do to change ...

How do we move on after my fling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I really need some advice. My husband found out that I had a fling with someone else while me were separated. I have apologized and have never down played what I did. I want to know what to do? We do live together now but he is distant. Which I ...