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writes:First of all I'd like to say that I'm gay, so my boyfriend and I we had a fight a few weeks ago when we hung out to a club, he behaved really rude and he admitted that he hooked up with another guy, we argued a lot that night and he said we were done, I was gonna sleep over his house that night so I left my bag there and as we had that argument I decided to go back home and leave my stuff at his house, he was really mean to me that night, he told me a bunch of stuff via text messages that broke my heart in pieces, so I didn't text him for some time, well then he texted me like at the end of the week telling me to go the next day to pick up my stuff, so I went and I couldn't resist, I fell again for him after all he said and done, we talked it out and apparently we fixed everything, so the next day my best friend gave me a call and invited me to nyc for a walk so I was like cool, let's go, he called me at night asking me what was I doing? I said i was in the city with my friend, he was like who's that friend? asking me a lot of questions, and he ended up saying that I lied to him, he got really mad again, and I really felt bad cuz I've been always loyal and truthful to him, so after that phone call, everything changed and again he took the same atittude as before, i texted him a rude answer, i called him the same thing, he finally said he was gonna text me in 2 days, and I dunno if he;s gonna do it or not, I really love him even if he has been mean to me, and now I don't know what to do, what if he doesn't text med back? I don't wanna lose him and I'm getting really depressed cuz we have shared so much stuff and this is like affecting me in some many ways :(
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reader, rickandthemachine +, writes (2 July 2009):
rickandthemachine is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you sooo much for ur advice, I really appreciate it
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 hun, why are you with him? i know you love him but don't you think it's a bit rude he's making you feel bad when you've done nothing wrong?
sounds like he's hiding something if you ask me... i mean he told you he'd hooked up with a guy? how far did that go and how long did it go on for?
you deserve so much better sweety i know you love him and he'll probably text you in the next few days but you shouldn't let him put you down like that and make things so innocent seem so wrong and your fault when he's the one whose clearly at fault.
he knows how to work you he knows he will always get you back and make things to be your fault.
it's not fair on you because then you'll always think YOU are the bad one and the one in the wrong when you're NOT he's just mean you really should do something for yourself hun and get the hell out of that relationship he's not worthy of you he's putting blame on you so he looks like the hurt party and the good guy when it's not it's all you!
do yourself a BIG favour and get out that relationship and find a man who will TRULY make you happy and treat you like you SHOULD be treated :)
hope this helps hun message me you need anything
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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