Should I satisfy my desires or should I finally tell my husband about my cheating?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been in a realationship for almost 8 yrs, I got married to this person just this yr and have been ok untill now. We have had our up's and down's throughout the relationship,my husband is a very possesive person and he is jealous of just about any guy that I talk to and then he will question me on my conversations with them, I did cheat on my husband about 5 yrs ago, but not to the point of getting physical, and he has cheated on me as well, over 3 times that I have known of. I have never told him of my infidelity but I have confronted him on his,but I often wonder should I tell him? Now for tha past few weeks my husbands cousin has been living with us (which my husband does not feel threaten by)but I am starting to feel attracted to him, I really like him but don't want to do anything that I will regret later, what should I do if I can't suppres my desire for my husbands cousin? Should I satisfy my desires or finally tell my husband and confront him?

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